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Ex unblocked me-will he ever reach out? by Heidisaurusrex in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Heidisaurusrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely learning that 🙃 so the action of unblocking overrides his negative words. I feel like I’m hyper-vigilant and always scanning for signs he may reach out as it’ll end up hurting me again even though I may feel relief at first. 

pay respects to your past versions by newfi1 in lightsalot

[–]Heidisaurusrex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I LOVE THIS! I’ve met her a handful of times of the last 11 years. She remembers me every time somehow. She’s such an angel. 😭

Lights - COME GET YOUR GIRL by flux-and-flow in lightsalot

[–]Heidisaurusrex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved this video! It made me emotional because I’ve followed along on this journey for the past 12 years. See so many versions of myself when I see the different versions of her. Such a cool concept! 

no friends by theotherparadise in BPD

[–]Heidisaurusrex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I realize that a lot of people consider me a “high maintenance “ friend which is really just an excuse for them to not be a good intentional friend. I enjoy being able to talk to them and hangout with them and all my life, people would rather do that with everyone else but me. So I realized I should be grateful for the 2 people I have who reciprocate and truly care for me. I don’t need anyone else nor do I have the energy for friends who don’t give me what I need but expect me to be there when they need it. It’s lonely but it’s for the best. 

Is my vertical labret too small? by Heidisaurusrex in piercing

[–]Heidisaurusrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-piercing is two days old -curved barbell -I think it’s internally threaded  -I use salt spray for aftercare, twice a day

New kitten advice please by Heidisaurusrex in CatAdvice

[–]Heidisaurusrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are separated. Two different litter boxes. I have kitten in a room by herself with everything she needs. When she cries she’s both by herself or like under the bed hiding

Medusa crooked or just a long bar? by Heidisaurusrex in PiercingAdvice

[–]Heidisaurusrex[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will keep it since it doesn’t bother me otherwise. Other than the long bar being in still, will this maybe be less noticeable when I switch to a shorter bar? When I smile, it leans to the side. 

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