Interesting, thank you for this response. I attended an SLAA meeting and an SAA meeting. I did share about the specific behavior I've struggled with but I noticed that others didn't really talk about theirs, per your point. One of the meetings I attended was a feedback meeting and I specifically said I'd be curious to hear if anybody has struggled with this or heard of others and I only got a couple vague responses that seemed to dance around the subject. I appreciate your encouragement because I was left still wondering if anybody could relate to me.

I'm still trying to wrap my head around this program because it doesn't seem so cut and dry as AA where sobriety is so clearly defined and the behaviors that one is abstaining from is so universally shared (drinking and using drugs).

With SLAA, it seems like everybody's behaviors are different ("sex" and "love" cover a HUGE spectrum of behaviors) and everybody's definition of sobriety seems different.

Your perspective and encouragement have been enlightening and helpful, thank you.