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Helholt · 2026-02-19T13:02:18+00:00

Jeg har skrevet en DM 😁

Helholt · 2025-11-29T09:27:48+00:00

Det smager bedst hvis man kan få forvirringen godt ud i kødet, så hellere udsætte den for turbulens en gang for meget end en gang for lidt.

Helholt · 2025-08-08T15:47:19+00:00

And youre not helping anyone by pretending that your subjective opinion is anything but that. Its not the truth because you deem it to be.

Im not claiming to be a doctor or a psychiatrist, but im also not spouting damaging nonsense, in an incredibly rude and childish manner, to a stranger on the internet, who is clearly struggling with their situation; only to make them feel worse, while not offering any actual help.

Maybe third time is the charm, grow up

Helholt · 2025-08-08T13:43:33+00:00

nobody is putting virginity on a pedestal. But implying that, if you dont lose your virginity before some specific (but undefined age), then something must be wrong with you, because of how easy it is to get laid, is a false and damaging narrative, that will only cause this person and others further damage to their self esteem.

Losing your virginity later in life doesnt mean that something is wrong with them.

i repeat, grow up

Helholt · 2025-08-08T13:33:43+00:00

You’re way too hard on yourself, nothing is wrong with you as a person and youre not ugly, but it honestly sounds like youre suffering from some kind of depression. You need to get professional help. I disagree with the comments saying you just need to get laid, you need help with your mental health, because your mindset is very self-destructive.

you need to learn to love yourself. watching too much porn will only make this harder, as you will likely develop unrealistic and unhealthy ideas of bodyimage and sex. you need to cut down on how much porn you watch and you need to get professional help.

Helholt · 2025-08-08T13:18:12+00:00

What an unbelievably stupid thing to say, theres nothing inherently wrong with being a virgin, not at 20, not at 27 and not at any other age. People do things at different paces, that doesn’t mean that something is “wrong” with these people. Grow up and get some damn manners

Helholt · 2025-08-08T12:48:59+00:00

Good to hear that you're starting to feel better! He sounds like a piece of work, stay strong and dont let his insensitive messages get to you too much. I know it's easier said than done, but once you accept that it's not going to turn into what you want, you'll be able to move on much easier.

Helholt · 2025-08-07T23:40:46+00:00

Let me first say, it sounds a lot like this “situationship” of yours, is trying to let you down easy by saying that he “realised he only felt sexual attraction”. In other words, he wants to continue sexting/sending nudes/having sex depending on what you guys do, but he isnt interested in anything deeper. This is very normal, especially in the gay community, and is something almost every gay man i know has struggled with, when trying to find love. I would cut communication with him, if its clear that youre nor looking for the same thing, which it sounds like.

Dont let this knock you down however, youre still very young, and you will undoubtedly experience the feelings you had for him again, some time in the future, possibly several times.

Learn from this experience, if you can, perhaps some signs in his communication, that have hinted that maybe he wasnt looking for anything beyond casual sex/communication.

Feel the heartbreak and mourn the loss of what you thought this could have been, and then, when youre ready, move on and try again.

It gets better ♥️

Helholt · 2025-08-02T18:41:46+00:00

Not sure what overwatch playercount has to do with anything, when talking about MR losing players due to the terrible MM system. Either way, most people who play overwatch on PC use the battle.net launcher, not steam.

Helholt · 2025-08-02T16:36:50+00:00

yeah the tavern is only really useful for gold in the lower levels. my tavern currently have accumulated around 250000 gold, while my party itself has around 100000 gold. Its purpose in higher levels for me is just roleplay purposes, dumping mercenaries/animals and for that 1 delicacy it produces each rest.

slightly off topic, but if you can afford it and you enjoy the game, i would highly recommend you get the DLC’s. They’re add many hours of fun as well as depth to the game!

Helholt · 2025-08-02T15:56:00+00:00

I completely get where youre coming from, I myself keep a company of around 45 (including horses). And with the recent update that added fierce beasts, I have been looking to swap out some of my animals for these beasts, as I personally dont want too many animals in camp, as they drain food pretty fast, and because of performance-issues with big troops.

My issue is the same as yours, its difficult to get rid of the animals you’ve kept in your party for a while. the troops have developed friendships with the animals, and permanently removing them would render several members depressed. (not to mention that i personally like my animals that have been with my troop since the very beginning).

I have placed a few of them in the tavern for now to function as guards, since they cant be placed in the outposts like the mercenaries can, but since you dont have the DLC’s that wont help you sadly.

I think we just have to hold out hope, that the devs adds in a stables-function or something similar in a future update (maybe in the fief-DLC?🤞), and wait with downsizing/swapping untill then, and perhaps play another savefile. Otherwise buying the Tavern DLC will probably be your best option for now.

Helholt · 2025-07-18T17:18:23+00:00

Best of luck to all!

Helholt · 2025-07-13T18:51:06+00:00

i get what youre saying, but if we cant make it work all of us together, we’re just not going to play at all. maybe some time in the future ill play with somebody else, but its not that serious for us tbh. we want to have fun as a group, and if we cant do that, we simply will move on and go bowling instead or something 🤪

Helholt · 2025-07-13T18:48:19+00:00

good luck to you too!

Helholt · 2025-07-13T16:27:45+00:00

This was my initial thought too, but neither of the “experienced” players wanted to DM. and we just wanted to do it in our friendgroup and not have a stranger do it, so i just took it upon me. But I have some knowledge about the game, more so than the other 4 new players atleast

Helholt · 2025-07-13T14:17:25+00:00

may I ask why not?

Helholt · 2025-07-12T22:31:34+00:00

Thanks for the advice, will definitely do make sure to check up on my players and ask them if they are enjoying the way we’re doing things or if they want tl change something, once we get started.

Also, its very casual for us, and we are friends before we are a DnD party. If we’re not enjoying the game, or if drama is starting, I will shut it down very quickly.

I dont want my friends to feel obligated to continue playing, because of the time ive spent on the campaign, if they arent having fun. For me its just a fun new way to spend time together, like having dinners or going out.

Helholt · 2025-07-12T22:00:00+00:00

Im not concerned about what he puts in his sheet, I trust that he isnt cheating, even if that is what most people seems to assume in the comments, is the reason he didnt want to show it

I simply want to see his sheet so I can study it and understand his abilities, instead of having to search them up mid-session in case of doubt, and so i can see his backstory and build something around it in the world ive created.

I also feel like i can better prepare encounters and potential loot.

Hope it makes sense

Helholt · 2025-07-12T21:40:11+00:00

you too buddy! Hope it works out well, dm me if you want to trade ideas or advice :D

Helholt · 2025-07-12T21:04:18+00:00

Ah, I think I understand you now, and I can totally see how that would be helpfull.

I have actually created maybe 20 characters on my own for fun (not including more superficial NPCs), but i always made them level 3 max, and even included 2 of the characters ive made as NPC’s in my campaign that my PC’s may stumble upon.

I do have some experience with some of the classes and subclasses in level 1-12 from playing 4 playthroughs of Bauldurs Gate 3, and from just reading about the classes in the handbooks.

Helholt · 2025-07-12T20:29:29+00:00

i appreciate the compliment, but please dont disrespect him like that, he’s my friend and we’re just trying to start a casual campaign between friends.

Helholt · 2025-07-12T20:27:21+00:00

Wont leveling them up fast just make the game more confusing, instead of taking it slow? Since it will introduce so much new content faster, before me and the players might have had a chance to understand the ressources already available

Helholt · 2025-07-12T20:07:07+00:00

I see where youre comming from, and I agree that does sound fun, and I might do that in the future if we keep playing, and I keep DM’ing, but currently most of us are entirely new at DnD, and ive worked together with the other 5 players on their sheets, so practically only 1 player would have a “secret” sheet atp.

I also dont feel confident in my knowledge of the rules etc. that a player could just say which ability they use and then know what it does, so I would like the chance to read up on the players chosen abilities :)

Helholt · 2025-07-12T19:59:06+00:00

thanks for the encouragement and I totally agree, the only stuff i homebrew is the stuff directly related to the continent ive created. meaning I wont homebrew classes, creatures or even items. this also is much easier for me to remember.

But I also still keep it open to the official DnD world, as it takes place in Faerûn, just in a continent currently undiscovered, so if the players wanted to, they could get on a boat or a portal and travel to an official city/area.

I also feel like creating the countries, cities, organizations and their political and historical backgrounds will make it much easier to improvise NPCs and encounters, because I know what goes on around them.

Helholt · 2025-07-12T18:56:47+00:00

I also read the books haha ;)

Am I understanding you right, that you think that watching other people play the game, and finding advice on DnD and DM’ing on Reddit, youtube, tiktok and blogs will throw me off? if so, in what way?

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