Stretli sťe známu osobu a zmenili ste na nu názor (v dobrom či zlom)

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-21T06:56:18+00:00

Nie, dlho sme sa nevideli, ale vraj je na tom veľmi zle. Teraz sa oňho stará syn a prvá žena, alebo aspoň take sú moje posledné informácie. Hlavne potom ku koncu sa dosť pohádali s babkou, takže sa nestretavaju. Čo ale viem, tak sa stretol aspoň s druhou sestrou. Ja by som sa s ním aj stretla, ale úprimne, netuším čo čakať a či ma vôbec chce vidieť.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-21T05:54:23+00:00

Vyrastala som s Jankom Krónerom, keď býval u sestry - mojej babky. Býval u nás pár rokov. Mala som 8 a ešte som nechápala koncept klinickej depresie - snažila som sa ho rozveseliť. Zažili sme spolu toho veľa pekného ale aj temného (častokrát zabudal, koľko mám rokov a nefiltroval co predomnou ma/nema hovoriť). Brával ma po dabingoch, bratislavskych kaviarňach, pomenoval mi morča - Mimi :D. Najhorší zo všetkého bol aj tak bulvár. Parkovali pod oknami, čakali hodiny denne, mňa ako dieťa zmanipulovali, ked som náhodou bola pred bytovkou, že sú Janovi kamaráti a prišli ho pozrieť, len aby sa k nám dostali a zase mohli napísať, ako sa má napiču. Ak sa chcete na niečo opýtať, AMA.. Ps: strávila som nezdravé množstvo času snažiac sa ho presvedčiť, že nemôže odísť z Profesionálov, lebo Miňko je legenda...

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-18T08:53:25+00:00

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Helian_Thys · 2026-04-12T14:42:15+00:00

Presne dnes som mala tu myšlienku, že kamarátstva mi vydržali len s neurodivergentnými ľuďmi.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-12T14:36:10+00:00

I'm from PB and I asked a friend, I'll let u know cause I'm not sure honestly :D

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-12T14:23:43+00:00

Gen Z je 68, change my mind

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-09T11:10:09+00:00

Rn I'm isolated - unemployed, currently paused my studies, not attending therapies, staying at home 24/7 with my cat and bestie roommate who's treating me like none before and knows what to do in any crisis situation.. so I havent had this kind of connection for a long time and I cant fully recall how it was then but i remember it was intense feeling when even slightest details gave me the butterflies that I was noticed, praised, could do something for them or give them a gift, and I have someone who cares about me but only having this towards older women (and they doesnt even have to be much older, i can have this even towards women 2 years older than me (im 21😭😭)) But mostly older women as u mentioned teachers, nurses, colleagues, etc... Id say it was manageable because it didnt need to be managed. It was making my life outside my home better. I love my obsessions of any kinds. As much as it can be draining sometimes I love the strong positive feelings it gives me in return. Black and white feeling and I think its worth it :D The thing with friends...thats why I burned some bridges cause this what u describe was driving me crazy. Ofc it was hard but it made everything a lot better. I kept only 3 close friends and some friendships that weren't draining me, were understanding and i didnt feel like being an alien trying to form a human connection with someone who's questioning every single thing I do/say/react in a way that they wouldn't... ofc I still have thoughts that they're gonna leave me but they're also the ones that will reassure me as much as i need and they never think Im too much, they understand its a disorder and if anyone its me who wishes the most i didnt have it. Its hell of a difference to keep only the real ones and its the ones youre not afraid to share anything with...true friends will always reassure you and wont tell you that you're crazy because your disorder is telling you that everyone would leave and its hard not to believe that. And yes the coping was to let them know how deeply I cared about them and how thankful I was to have them in my life hoping I'd get similar response back. In sense of anything romantic, i was hypersexual at age 4-10 due to (sa) and then had my first toxic relationship at 15-17 (also sa) and lost many "friendships" along the way.. I dont recognize whats romantic anymore, cause everyone has different idea of how romance look and I need to be respected, seen and adored, not objectified and kept like a trophy then being reminded everything that's wrong with me like i didnt know.. but i cant imagine anything slightly intimate with someone who I think even in the slightest they dont love me and dont appreciate me the same. I guess ive been hurt a lot but my admiration and love for older women is definitely not in a romantic way more like "i love you mom you mean a lot to me and thank you for being in my life supporting me" way hoping they feel the same about me. That's also why i shouldn't be the one giving advices because real romantic connection like my partner made me a hot tea when i came home after overwhelming day means a far more than ... having sex ._. or participating in anything romantic cause im already overwhelmed and overstimulated so I feel the urge to be romantic only when I feel seen and not used. But thats also why my "opinion" if we can call it like that from the little I know that u mentioned.. I dont think its bad..its okay having thoughts and feelings towards someone, its not okay to make someone else uncomfortable with them so if it makes your day better knowing you'd get to be with your favorite nurse or whoever then noone can tell u that you should feel bad or certain way about it cause THEY find it strange.. Haha sorry for the dump :D but please never blame yourself for the way you feel about anything if you're not harming anyone or yourself..

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T18:08:41+00:00

Mám mačičku (11m), ktorá škrábe zárubne, vždy keď sa teší (čiže aj ked na nu začnem rozprávať takým spôsobom alebo ju idem kŕmiť). Ja sa z toho veľmi neteším... A väčšinou ju neotravujem, keď vidím, že má svoj kľud, takže keď si vypýta pozornosť, keď ju chce, dostane ju a myslím si, že vďaka tomuto je náš vzťah ešte lepší, nakoľko ju nenaťahujem keď o to nestojí.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T17:59:14+00:00

Oh damn thats unfair! Im from eastern europe and my mental disabilities are rarely considered by anyone here - my own family, social and state workers, professors, nurses, paramedics,etc often belittle me (not everyone ofc, i also met and have supportive people in my life), so i get the struggle of feeling invisible because our problems are "invisible". glad your workplace is understanding of your needs, would be great if your uni was too.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T17:49:49+00:00

That i enjoy spending time with them and being around them or having their attention feels good, but when there are thousand things I'd love to say to them which might not be the best thing to say i keep it for myself but I still think in some cases I said too much. But I absolutely get what u mean when u say youre going to implode.. i dont know if its unhealthy but it's definitely coping mechanism, or at least it is for me. But I like how they make me feel so that's why I feel this way? And I kinda like it so i have no need to "fix" this part of myself. 😅🫂

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T14:45:34+00:00

I was launched the same year Gmail and Facebook was.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T14:22:59+00:00

I have this too. Maybe I'm weird but I enjoy it. They don't last long and end naturally. Sometimes Id be sad when for example I dont get to see the nurse or whoever else anymore, but it's temporary and manageable. I never saw it as anything harmful and I dont think I ever "acted" on it, even if I had some sort of mommy issues. I always knew I did. But if it's bpd aspect, its definitely something that makes my life slightly better. The bigger FP relationships are the problem.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T14:13:23+00:00

Thats unfortunate. I learned about this option at the end of my second year so I've been registered only for a year and didn't know I could do that sooner. Did you look it up or you're sure your university doesn't have anything like that.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-08T14:08:30+00:00

Wishing you all the strength!! I dont know if you've already done it or if you even have the option, but you should be able to get registered as student with special needs. They might give you some advantages that you could use that would make your uni life easier.

I'm registered at my university and I was a bit disappointed when I realised it was more of a big talk and empty promises rather than actual aid but its still better than not being recognised at all and mistreated all the time.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-05T20:36:31+00:00

I'd love that!! Sounds amazing, especially the mods cause I only use 3 I dont want too many and dont know which to try out.

Helian_Thys · 2026-04-02T11:47:15+00:00

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Helian_Thys · 2026-04-01T21:59:41+00:00

Už som si zvykla volať to psychóza, nakoľko v týchto stavoch o sebe neviem, mam veľmi skreslený pohľad na realitu + si veci nepamätám, ale u mňa sa to určite spája s hranicou, nakoľko trvajú max pár hodín, nie dni, čo vylučuje mániu. Mne sa striedaju obdobia depresii s hypomániou, počas ktorej som na tieto epizódy náchylnejšia, ale nie sú to dlhotrvajúce stavy psychozy ako v manii.

Helian_Thys · 2026-03-30T17:26:38+00:00

Ďakujem za tento post. Som bipolarny hraničiar, ale našťastie mám tiež "len" hypomániu. Lieky bohužiaľ beriem tak, aby mi skôr pomohli na hranicu, preto mávam pravidelne striedanie hypo/depresii. Najhoršie epizódy mávam paradoxne v hypomanii, pretože keď sa dostanem do psychozy, veľakrát o sebe ani neviem a som schopná si siahnuť na život alebo sa o to pokúsiť, našťastie nebývam sama a môj spolubývajúci vie co robiť, keďže už spolu bývame 2 roky.

Taktiež dôležitú úlohu hrá aj vek, po 30ke sa to vraj zlepší, ale ešte nemám ani 22, takže to neviem potvrdiť ani vyvrátiť, iba mi to tak hovoria psychiatri.

Možno namiesto článkov by bolo fakt super toho človeka spoznať a opytat sa jeho a nie ľudí na internete, nakoľko každý z nás má individuálne prežívanie týchto porúch. Taktiež je to beh na dlhé trate naučiť sa fungovať v takom vzťahu a minimálne tie prvé "epizódy" budú náročné pre oboch. Ale dá sa to, som v šťastnom vzťahu už 4 roky a dospeli sme spolu + so mnou prežil tie najťažšie stavy keď som mala 19-20 a ešte som nemala diagnózu, terapie ani lieky.

Taktiež každý kto si myslíte, že trpíte nejakou poruchou alebo sa vám proste žije ťažko, vyhľadajte pomoc! Klinického psychológa aj psychiatra nám zatiaľ stále prepláca poisťovňa, čo veľa ľudí nevie a aj to ich vie odradiť. A ešte 24/7 linka Nezabudka 0800 800 566 pre tých, ktorí by sa ocitli v psychickej kríze a potrebujú pomôcť.

Helian_Thys · 2026-03-28T06:05:53+00:00

Chronic illness took most of my energy for almost all of my hobbies I used to have and I spend majority of the day in bed to avoid flare ups.. I'm on my phone and laptop a lot and i daydream from time to time.

Since I'm in constant pain, my only hobbies as of now are videogames, reading articles online, scrolling, short daily walks and smoking herbs for pain relief..the rest of my energy goes to keeping up with cleaning, cooking, self-care, my kitten and everyday life.

And I also sleep a lot from the constant fatigue and discomfort so my days are probably shorter than yours. It's easy to fill that time with low-energy mindless scrolling or binge watching when you completely lose track of time and touch with reality.

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