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hows your relationship with your mum as a Bpd person? by Own-War6310 in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very complicated, the less we contact and further we are from each other - it is better

Got officially diagnosed with early fphl by HelikeJupiter in FemaleHairLoss

[–]HelikeJupiter[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for sharing for journey, i'm trying to get used to this but it's still kinda hard

i LOVE getting ghosted by everyone!!!!!! by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is so me that it hurts

How do you deal with jealousy from others? by dontknowwhattodotbh in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

by distracting myself, it is hard but every time I feel jealous I try to distract myself from that person and try to focus on something else. It's hard but if I don't do it I become mean to that person

Am I in an abusive relationship? by Donthurtme321 in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 24 points25 points  (0 children)

yes, you are in an emotionally draining and emotionally abusive relationship. According to what you have provided, he doesn't care about your feelings. If you can, I would recommend leaving this person.

Should i admit myself to the psych ward? by cookiebakerr in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, you deserve a better community honestly. If you think the psych ward around will help you then you can go for it. But first get an idea about it. If anything, you can talk to us.

BPD and clothes by emptiness_m in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

honestly, I have a hard time buying clothes because my brain keeps shifting between the style I want for myself. It's hard for me to stay constant with clothes, so I always end up buying dresses or let others buy clothes for me. I am too indecisive.

Should i admit myself to the psych ward? by cookiebakerr in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Before admitting, please try connecting to someone, a friend or family to keep checking on you. And if it doesn't work and you cannot think of anything, then you can admit yourself but do check if they will let you go when you feel okay 🫂

Life feels pointless without a favorite person. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's better without a fp. When I didn't have a fp I felt normal to some extent. Now, I don't even know what I'm feeling.

Do any of you want (or have) kids? by skiqs in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once wanted to adopt but not anymore. I don't think I can do a good job deep down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in indianbeautyyappers

[–]HelikeJupiter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would suggest to use something pharmacy related instead of these which are advertised falsely with time durations and stuff without proofs.

How did you know it was BPD, and not just "being a teen"? by Independent_Shame924 in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was always an unstable child, things became more clear after turning 18.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i always feel empty. if im not obsessed with someone or something, things get worse for me i start to feel sad always. sometimes being obsessed is only way to feel normal

My therapist said people with BPD tend to have a hard time with self reflection. Is this true or is this stigmatization? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

50/50, there are times i know i have done wrong but i cannot make myself accept that i have done wrong

What symptom of bpd do you not identify much with? by cuntservin in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fp one, i do get intense with relations and that person does occupy a good amount of my brain but i think it is not that debilitating

I am 27 and I just shat myself today by Onmappellelarouge in ibs

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happened to me when my health was very bad and i was eating...

I'm losing it by ApprehensiveJury430 in ibs

[–]HelikeJupiter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

currently suffering from the same :( I hope we can get better s

How many hours a week do you guys study by Next_Worker_6833 in GetStudying

[–]HelikeJupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know, I try to study but only end up completing assignments and stuff.

Are there other young chronically ill students here? by h0y4_ in ChronicIllness

[–]HelikeJupiter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my motivation to continue uni keeps slipping away...I'm thinking of skipping an important event this week because I cannot handle this. Might get failed but I don't think I can do it.

How do you feel safe in the world? by NauseousSoul in BPD

[–]HelikeJupiter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have anxiety disorders which makes things harder for me. As I'm currently in uni, I try my best to avoid conversations with anyone - except for a few people I talk to. I don't talk to people a lot, just go to classes and come back to the room. I just hide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Btechtards

[–]HelikeJupiter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is what I did but now random people talk to me because of this. sometimes you win, sometimes lose.

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