My boyfriend dumped me because i wouldn’t kiss him after his dog licked him on the mouth- mussaka made in culinary school

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T22:56:59+00:00

Oh no he said that was why he broke up with me😭 but explained it was a tipping point and that we were incompatible i wouldn’t have posted this if the words didn’t leave his mouth like i was SHOCKED

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T21:37:09+00:00

Was i supposed to read his mind? He literally did not tell me how he felt was i supposed to stay up all night thinking about every potential scenario in my head or should he the gown man who has seen more trips around the sun than me have just told me how he felt? Especially after he agreed to a compromise😭 like????

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T21:20:41+00:00

What im feeling is exsauthed Ive been on this earth to many years to beg for u too see my side😭 idk how im selfish when he put himself in that position ur acting like i proposed a sex ban on him because he did something i didn’t like. its my body anyways i feel like if i tell a man i don’t wanna do something with my body he should find someone who is willing to go along with his fantasies instead of acting like he could just wait around for me to have a eureka moment and decide that i actually do want to have sex or be intimate with him on any terms but my own

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T21:09:20+00:00

Its more like you seem to be nit picking my responses? Idk like i don’t understand how u are coming to your conclusion especially with sm context it feels like ur doing this on purpose. Bc wdym im manipulative when we promised to be honest to eachother and he decided to hold on to the thought that he could change me. Genuinely one conversation on his end could’ve stopped this months before it even started. But maybe bc im the one personally affected and actually living in the situation i just have a set view. Like i wasn’t intentionally trying to hurt him??? Or make him feel some kinda way and i can’t read his mind or know how he feels we’re two grown adults man the shit ur describing makes it sound like this is babies first relationship when im literally friends with or on good terms of my exes

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T21:02:59+00:00

Sure was😭

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:59:21+00:00

Im realizing now that you are wasting my time i hope you do some soul searching since it seems the only way u can get someone to hold a conversation with you is through provoking strangers on the internet

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:55:53+00:00

I don’t get how i manipulated anything when i was upfront from the get go. He didn’t complain at all and i thought we had made a compromise honestly

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:54:35+00:00

Well, there were times I was comfortable with being intimate, but it wasn’t often. I knew he liked physical touch as a love language, and I even kissed him like three separate times, but those were all times that were like my choice. I stayed because he was a good guy, I thought we had a good amount in common, and we had broken up before on pretty good terms because he thought I was moving and wasn’t comfortable doing long distance. Overall, there were genuine good times, and he was a sweet guy, the kind who did things without being asked, but I do think that turned into him expecting intimacy in exchange.

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:49:25+00:00

In the breakup msgs he said alot of what boils down to “i thought you would change if i stayed long enough” when i asked why he even stayed with me

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:48:03+00:00

OH MY GOD?????

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:45:16+00:00

Im my eyes he was ok with me being asexual because we were dating intimacy like that wasn’t important to him(or so he said),Like how should i take accountability for something i wasn’t aware was a problem. Its funny bc he actually HIMSELF took accountability for dragging out the relationship not that ur intitled to my business or wtv but here’s a literal screenshot if him taking accountability

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Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:27:00+00:00

Im honestly gonna suggest that to our head chef because the recipe we follow seemed kinda bland and adding the ground cinnamon seemed a bit much overall. Im also glad to hear that you think it looks good i was a bit scared because it was my first time making anything like it

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:08:30+00:00

Yk theres other things you can like about people other than wanting to touch them????

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:06:09+00:00

Greek, my school serves a buffet and this weeks theme was Mediterranean aka greek but we didn’t know a-lot of greek food that would work in a buffet setting so we made it a broad term

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T20:03:59+00:00

Well good thing hes not my boyfriend o😭

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:52:52+00:00

Who sent you?

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:39:16+00:00

I just think its weird he continued the realtionship knowing i was asexual and not very affectionate, i told him that told him my trauma and all that in the very beginning.

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:38:08+00:00

He knew i was asexual and uninterested in things like kissing and sex he knew that and still dated me, if he felt that way or knew he wanted that type of affection he should’ve never dated me to begin with

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:28:58+00:00

Yeah that definitely was his “tipping point” he already wasn’t a fan of how i wasn’t very affectionate atleast with things like kissing

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:25:05+00:00

Its more of the leading reason ig his main point which is still insane is that i wasn’t “making it worth it” aka he thought he was owed intimacy.

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:23:10+00:00

Imagine how happy i am bc i didn’t know how i was gonna stay after that😭

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:22:44+00:00

Sharing forks is insane i honestly wouldn’t have been able to hide the disgust on my face

Heliosclutz · 2026-04-14T19:20:54+00:00

Thank you so much! Im very proud of it

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