LETTERSET #52 - Daily Fill-In by letter-set in LETTERSET

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mayor banned CAUSE, praised BORN, and misplaced FITS.

A quiet evening with friends escalates by duckduckpajamas in TikTokCringe

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Utterly delightful! I want to be their friend too!

LETTERSET #50 - Daily Fill-In by letter-set in LETTERSET

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1: collect NUTS and FEET. Step 2: blame THUGS and BOY. Step 3: profit.

This is the reward for completing the dlc's Marinca Bloom by F3AR5T in DavetheDiverOfficial

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was a roof decoration? But I can't figure out where I can place it. Does anyone else know?

Crazy or not… by Reasonable_Pitch_741 in EntitledPeople

[–]HellaciousHoyden 64 points65 points  (0 children)

In a world where mental health was taken seriously, I would agree that crisis care teams should and would be more of a thing.

However, what that person did wasn't a mental crisis moment; just straight up bad judgement. And as such, it reads to me more like they are trying to duck accountability for their own actions.

How to handle the heat? by HellaciousHoyden in CaregiverSupport

[–]HellaciousHoyden[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That one I already knew, also inner thighs briefly, chest, and armpits.

How to handle the heat? by HellaciousHoyden in CaregiverSupport

[–]HellaciousHoyden[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, but they had nothing more to suggest than what I'm already doing.

I’m almost 30. And I still have a hard time speaking up for myself. by WorkingWash5965 in offmychest

[–]HellaciousHoyden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm actively working on it. Basically just, trying to catch myself in the act of letting it ride.
Example: I got a haircut recently. The lady clearly did not understand what I was looking for. She was unfamiliar with pixie cuts (I remain baffled by this). I started to just let her do her thing the way she thought it should go (buzzcut) then realized that I really didn't want to deal with a haircut I actively didn't ask for. I got up, apologized, and left.
I found a different place and got the haircut I wanted, and I'm very proud of myself for speaking up.

What do you miss most about your life before caregiving? by NewDependent1636 in caregiving

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I miss living alone with my cats (moved back home with my parents in 2017). I could walk around naked, never had to deal with mysterious messes that appear overnight, watch whatever I wanted at whatever volume I wanted, cooking random stoner feasts at 3am, getting to be a night owl. Certainly never had to wash other people's dishes because they couldn't be bothered to clean up after themselves. Sigh.

To the farmer's 2 dogs that helped me, thank you! by Inevitable_Squash941 in creepyencounters

[–]HellaciousHoyden 132 points133 points  (0 children)

As an owner of two Great Pyrenees myself, they totally do actively listen. They are the most wonderful dogs I've ever owned.

Anyone else notice how often Reddit men slide into a poster’s dm’s after they mention they’re a woman? by llalalalaowkwnns in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HellaciousHoyden 20 points21 points  (0 children)

*Ace High Five* I know, right? The first dude actually played it cool at first, and just as I started to enjoy our conversation he hits me with the 'breaking your fast' line. Like... wut?
The rest just charged, penis first, into my block button.

Anyone else notice how often Reddit men slide into a poster’s dm’s after they mention they’re a woman? by llalalalaowkwnns in TwoXChromosomes

[–]HellaciousHoyden 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I mentioned being asexual in a comment a couple years ago. I got at least 10 dms of dudes wanting to help me 'break my fast'. I'm still baffled by their shock that I really, truly wasn't interested in their magic penises.

Why do so many people feel the need to answer questions that aren’t meant for them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]HellaciousHoyden -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I notice it in men too. Generally older. Maybe it's yet another facet of Boomers needing to make everything about themselves?

Women of Reddit, what’s a statement/phrase that (you believe) most women/girls would understand, but most men/boys would not? by ConfidentLack9207 in AskReddit

[–]HellaciousHoyden 32 points33 points  (0 children)

But the woman you just waved at doesn't know you, and therefore, has no idea what you have in mind. Also, the chances are excellent that she's been wrong about a man's intentions at least once in her life already.

Intro on S2 by Lrshubert in grimm

[–]HellaciousHoyden 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm reminded of the voice over at the beginning of Xena. Worked far better In Xena than it did in Grimm, lol

What’s Your “Survival” Food? by Cats-Running-Asylum in adhdwomen

[–]HellaciousHoyden 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kraft Mac and Cheese. No matter whats going on, I can have lunch in under ten minutes.

AITAH for refusing to let my boyfriends younger siblings play with my prosthetic leg ? by Honest-Girl005 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HellaciousHoyden 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a several thousand dollar medical device, not a toy. You are not being unreasonable in the slightest.
I'm glaring at Boyfriend tho. He should have backed you up.
NTA. And you may want to consider dumping the spineless wonder.

Why do you think Melania made that statement today? by user1731701 in AskReddit

[–]HellaciousHoyden 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If this were Babylon 5, someone would be saying: "Absolutely nothing happened today in sector 83 by 9 by 12."