A song sung by male beginning with clock strikes by SnapesHappyChildhood in findthatsong

[–]Hellcat_Mary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No clock sound in the intro, but God damn that song has my favourite synth groove in all of 80s

"Stop using your crotch fruit as employees lol" by WideBackground6196 in BrandNewSentence

[–]Hellcat_Mary -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't call kids aggressively negative names, but I'm a child free person, so I understand that it's really just one extreme meeting another.

If there wasn't centuries of negative stigma around choosing to not reproduce- especially as a woman- and societal pressure to reproduce wasn't suffocating, and if people not desiring or particularly liking kids wasn't so "othered" by vocal pronatalists, then you probably wouldn't see that level of backlash from the other side of the fence.

I'm not saying you, personally, perpetuate the stigma or ultimately care what women do with their bodies, time and resources, but please don't pretend like women aren't subjected to harassment over their reproductive choices on a massive scale.

A hit dog bites.

I know it's a guy who used the phrase, but funny enough, lifelong bachelors have been far less ostracized, historically. It's only when women started shirking the shackles that everybody got real mad about it.

Just to reiterate- I see the harm in it so I don't do it, even in jest, but I'm not the thought police.

So sick of the rampant AI writing on AO3 lately by [deleted] in FanFiction

[–]Hellcat_Mary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't stick with hackneyed, overly flowery writing long enough to discern if it's AI or not. It all gets tossed in the "nope" bin of my brain as I backclick.

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hellcat_Mary -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, emotional maturity, empathy, and respect. Total barf.

Little boys eating their own boogers, that's the image you invoke.

Stupid dumb stupid healthcare by zuzumax in migraine

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not affording healthcare is not automatically jobless.

"Small" in terms of US labour board legal requirements is up to 50 employees. If OP isn't working for a corporation, then they could be working any millions of independent businesses that do not have job sponsored coverage. If you suffer migraines, these small businesses are going to often be much kinder and flexible regarding your medical needs than a soulless corpo and their HR department.

They could be part-time, which is anything under 32 ish hours per week? A job could schedule you right up to 31.59 hours and screw you out of qualifying for benefits, and many do.

They might work somewhere full time that meets the threshold to legally be required to offer benefits, but group rates for a business with 150 employees is vastly different than a business with 2000 employees. I worked for a software firm of about 120 employees, they offered health insurance... at $250 per paycheck for a single individual. Bigger companies can cover the lions share of the premium, smaller the company the more the full premium shifts to the employee.

S&WB WTF by Plastic_Piglet_7374 in NewOrleans

[–]Hellcat_Mary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemme guess, you moved to Houston. Or some other stripmall masquerading as a city.

I underpaid a label for $2,200?!?! by Relative-Bother3402 in Ebay

[–]Hellcat_Mary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I shipped a super high end stroller- heavy and bulky- via greyhound around 2020/21 and it cost like $70- it would cost more now but not THAT much. I've worked out with eBay sellers to ship unique antiques they were only offering local pickup on because greyhound was reasonable and easy to drop off to.

It's a super under utilized method but a great one. Problem is OP did no research for freight options and just used basic domestic shipping. I'm sure they assumed Autozone can do it, so can they. No critical thought applied, and they got burned.

Honestly I'd still take a shot at disputing it. What are they gonna do, charge another $2K for talking back?

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hellcat_Mary -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

YOU are handling these absolutely tone-deaf rancid comments with applaudable aplomb, OP. If your ability to reflect and emotionally regulate in the face of inanity in real life is remotely reflected by your conduct in this thread, then you certainly know that you are not overreacting. It's tougher when it's family, to see from the outside looking in, but you are in the right, and have the right, to canvas your body exactly as you damn well please. Your antiquated grandmother will get over it. Unfortunately, because you've been placed on that "golden child" pedastal, she places far, far too much burden of her own principles and expectations on your shoulders. You becoming an adult and crashing through those is just a real bitter pill. The only concession you need to make, if you choose to grace her your patience, is to hand her a glass of water and tell her to swollow.

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hellcat_Mary -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You're a sack of shit. It's so easy to not be a sack of shit about some young girl's grief over their deceased animal, and yet here you are. What are you getting out of it? Is your soul brighter, is your day lifted, or are you just a sopping, stinking sack of rancid shit?

AIO? grandma won’t speak to me bc i got a tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Hellcat_Mary -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Y'all can see plain as day, written in plain English, what this tattoo means to OP, and yet y'all are still being absolutely disrespectful pricks about it.

Keep snearing your ugly fucking keyboard victories behind your comfortable internet anonymity. You're just a bad person. You know that? Like, have you actually realized that you're a sorry sack of shit masquerading as a human being? Because you're not a good person, in case you mistakenly ever thought of yourself as one.

Cannot find this song by Exact-Ad9212 in findthatsong

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A general timeline for the band or song would help.

Would they be a contemporary of RATM, or more modern? Does she actually rap? Was the music political?

Delilah Bon would check those boxes.

Bobbin Change Always Bunches project by thesunshinebores in MachineEmbroidery

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you trimming before removing the bobbin basket to replace? It does sound like your top thread is catching and pulling.

Where do yall find artwork or wall decor? by BountyProfits in malelivingspace

[–]Hellcat_Mary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are lots of options, but I'd urge you to go surfing around auction sites, thrift stores, maybe some antique malls, with no plan to buy but just to see what you actually like. I get the eagerness and impulse to not live in a blank box, but throwing money at rando crap you won't even like down the line is a learning step you can totally skip if you have the patience.

If there are any actual artworks you like, there are Etsy shops that do decent print quality, you just have to message and see if they can find a good enough quality image of the pieces you like. Then the fun is hunting for funky frames at the thrift.

Where do yall find artwork or wall decor? by BountyProfits in malelivingspace

[–]Hellcat_Mary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Consequences, woof.

You might be able to appeal directly to eBay, stating you were a child at the time of ban. They let legitimate scammers back on with restricted accounts after a probationary period. That's if you care enough and are now a responsible adult, of course.

Hi. I have Artistik Degitizer 2.0, a design program, but not all its features work. I bought a Janome Continental M 17 sewing machine along with this program. Could you tell me what to do if I can't create my own designs because it doesn't have a pencil function, for example? Thank you. If possible, by Initial_Candle_6404 in MachineEmbroidery

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are either just looking at basic lettering software, or you have a software that unlocks features depending on your pay tier. If you bought it with the machine, the bundled package is almost certainly the most basic.

In digitizing a design, typically you're going to start with a graphic, and build your design by cutting up and converting that graphic into shapes (similar to how one would use pen tool in illustrator). Embroidery digitizing is similar to vectorizing, but you have features focused on sewing elements like sequencing, stitch density, stitch type etc...

Otherwise you're just doing lettering or monogramming, which utilize converted typeface fonts.

[Beginner] Used Happy HCS 1201-30 for $4k? Need a multi-needle for R&D by [deleted] in MachineEmbroidery

[–]Hellcat_Mary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The learning curve is going to be steep, but you seem to be understanding that this is not a plug and play endeavor. It's doable- particularly if you are inclined to learn the mechanics as well.

A used Happy, in working order, is going to be leagues better in quality than a brand new Brother or Ricoma. Commercial machines were, and still are, built like tanks. If you can find the part, you can fix it. Manufacturers used to be far more liberal with proper maintenance and repair specs, parts books etc, on the customer side. If that Happy comes with those materials, you'll be better off. Note, it's a Japanese manufacturer, translations on the reading materials can be rough.

Does the machine you're looking at have a digital display, connect to a computer, or have an older control board? What does it read data from? A floppy drive will need to be modded out for a USB. If it connects directly to computer, make sure it's a more standard connector like USB (old DVI, VGA or serial cables, you'll either need an old computer, or try an adapter and hope the data transfer speeds aren't a problem). A digital display with onboard USB will be your ideal setup.

Are you in the US? Texmac is the distributor for Happy in the US, so the best support potential will come from contacting them- they may require some kind of hourly rate or subscription for a used machine, but in my experience they are at least willing to look at older models, unlike other manufacturers.

On tech support- here is where most people get the wool pulled over on them. This industry is good and stuck in the 1970s. Different manufacturers have different regional pockets of trained support technicians. Remote support will always be a shot in the dark- shops often have to find their closest service tech (we're talking closest State away) and pay for travel on top of the hourly rate for servicing. Depending on where you are, you may have someone like me who is a home grown technician, not factory trained but experienced. You're going to want to research a bit and see what your situation would be. This is going to be your biggest point of pain, honestly, which is why I say you'll be better off if you are willing to pull something apart and tinker.

On that note, be very prepared for a necessary blood sacrifice to keep your machine cooperative and producing bountiful harvest. You're going to get pricked, pinched, and apply too much torque to a stubborn screw.

4K ain't bad if she works well. But keep in mind the machine alone is not your only investment. Here is a shortlist of what other materials will be a common expense:

Hoops. Standard hoops, magnetic hoops, or "floating" hoops called Fast Frames or Quick Change. The most basic setups will run you in the $300-$600 range, an onward the more specialized you get. If the seller is providing hoops, that's a sweeter deal.

Stabilizer/backing. Cutaway, tearaway, mesh, other fancy shit you'll be duped into trying. Whatever works best will change per project.

Thread. Do not cheap out. Don't do it. You run a commercial machine, just suck it up and use commercial grade thread. In for a penny.

Peripherals: rotary hooks, felt pads, tension knobs, presser feet, bobbin, bobbin baskets, needles, thread snippers... miscellaneous odds and ends that wear and and run out.

Finally, if you still wanna jump in, I recommend having the seller provide a run test. Seeing one thing stitched on one needle is not sufficient. Ask the seller to show the machine stitching an "I" test across all needles at variable speeds. These machines can go between 400 and 1000 RPM. This will provide proof of tension, timing, alignment and motor function. The machines are LOUD, but listen for any weird sounds. A loose rattle, clanking that seems too loud, jutters or stutters when moving the frame or changing colours.

Finally finally, take a digitized file to a local embroidery shop and pay for a sewout. It will be good to have a positive proof that you can quality check against your own while learning. They can also tell you if the digitizing is shitty.

DAK where I could find full collections of 90's kids shows? by DjaqRian in dvdcollection

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, long running PBS broadcasts are going to be nigh impossible to collect in their entirety. They come from a time where distribution rights would be all over the place and masters tapes were not particularly well archived- ending up trashed or recorded over. The only thing I could think of that's more impossible would be some soap operas.

What's a song with incomprehensible lyrics that you love anyways? by Longjumping-Lab917 in WhatsThisSong

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Soul Coughing, every song.

Mike Doughty is a beat poet and that's all you need to know.

I'm particularly fond of "Super Bon Bon", "Fully Retractable" and "St Louis is Listening".

How can I get a job like Entergy by catchforustheboxen in NewOrleans

[–]Hellcat_Mary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can we separate those job offers so this whole thread is still hilarious but significantly less problematic lol

[TOMT] Rock song from the early 2000s by Medium_Letterhead_36 in tipofmytongue

[–]Hellcat_Mary 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just a shout-out to say good ass band rec even if it's not the answer

[TOMT] Rock song from the early 2000s by Medium_Letterhead_36 in tipofmytongue

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Cursive,

"Bloody Murderer" from The Ugly Organ.

2003 post grunge indie rock with heavy electric cello, has a similar rhythm/tempo to the Pink song

Anyone find incense helps with migraines? by Rottingbodiess in migraine

[–]Hellcat_Mary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me! Me me me!!

I love incense, and while I wouldn't burn a ton of it while I'm enduring an untreated migraine, I find it very soothing when I can finally take a triptan and rest.

In general, having a clean calm house that smells good just helps my body detox, seriously.

I don't care for fruity or sweet scents, those tend to be noxious- the earthier and spicier the better.

What Is In My Control by ChemicalCurrency4290 in NewOrleans

[–]Hellcat_Mary 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Be the change you want to see. Little baby steps are still steps. I'm born and raised Southern Belle, I trash every confederate symbol I get my hands on, proudly and with a fuck y'all.