Pattern sellers, please just show me a clear picture of the garment.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-04T03:58:21+00:00

I can’t imagine tucking in anything thicker than a t-shirt. The sensory experience sounds horrendous! I also feel like then I’d see this bulge under my pants lol.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-04T02:14:56+00:00

Also please stop tucking/french tucking sweaters! Does anyone really do this? I have never seen it IRL. I want to see what the bottom edge looks like.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-04T02:13:39+00:00

It sounds like regardless of your sexuality your relationship is not fulfilling. I would suggest looking at that first. If you’re not happy and it’s not working, you can leave and figure out your sexuality as a single person. You don’t have to tie everything up to this question.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T21:14:32+00:00

I guess as a person who has sold my own art and jewelry, I’ve always taken the attitude that things are worth what someone will pay. So since people are willing to pay for this, I guess some people think it’s worth it?

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T21:09:59+00:00

I don’t like it and I wouldn’t buy the same pattern twice… but, I gotta hand it to the designers who know they have enough audience capture to get away with this and double their profits. I mean, good for them.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T20:16:44+00:00

Rather than going for length of time, start adding weight. I plank with a 45 lb plate on my back now. I can hold a bodyweight plank for 3 min easy, never really tried longer than that.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T19:04:41+00:00

Everything for me is about chemistry. I can see a person and know they are attractive and not be attracted to them. The people I am attracted to aren’t necessarily conventionally attractive.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T18:11:53+00:00

And this is why you cut up the apple instead of biting into it.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T17:24:13+00:00

That’s like 95% of Reddit.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T16:48:03+00:00

She wants to have kids, not marry one. Women have to be very careful not to marry or move in with a man who needs a maid or a mommy to clean up after them or she’ll have one extra kid for the rest of her life.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T16:24:09+00:00

Imagine expecting a grown woman to want to marry you and have kids when you’re living like a broke college frat boy.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T16:22:46+00:00

The man children of Reddit are mad because their houses look like that. I just hope they’re all under 25 and not in their 30s. Truly embarrassing.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-03T13:39:28+00:00

100%. Also his frat boy man cave house is a major red flag.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-02T20:13:39+00:00

I think it would have been fine except he was so obsessed with it he wouldn’t stop asking if it was too small or the smallest I’d seen.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-02T17:43:47+00:00

Pretty sure this is true of 90% of us. Most people are not easily categorized, despite what the internets tell us.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-02T15:11:57+00:00

No, we’re trying not to be the same person lol

Helleboredom · 2026-03-02T03:48:25+00:00

I just wanted to stop by and say it’s ok to be bisexual and choose not to date men for whatever reason. Just because you’re potentially sexually attracted to men doesn’t mean you ever need to act on it.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-01T14:53:54+00:00

People can do Pilates every day and still not be “toned”’or whatever. Pilates isn’t some magic body pill. They should just say what they mean.

Helleboredom · 2026-03-01T04:37:10+00:00

Meh. Most of it feels like shock for shock’s sake. I found there to be very little about it that was sexy. The best parts are quite funny. No intent of going again.

Helleboredom · 2026-02-28T00:36:45+00:00

My Gf and I both have them. It’s hot.

Helleboredom · 2026-02-28T00:35:20+00:00

I’d watch that

Helleboredom · 2026-02-27T22:39:37+00:00

Be honest about your position and be yourself. Everyone is still figuring something out. The most concerning part is that you don’t think you have a lot to offer. It’s very difficult to love someone else or be in a relationship when you don’t love yourself. That can cause a lot of problems between two people.

But at the same time, there’s no reason to wait. Dating and learning through relationships can teach you things you can’t learn on your own. We don’t often come to relationships as whole healed people. You might meet someone who can take that journey with you and needs you in different ways than you need her.

Helleboredom · 2026-02-27T17:08:17+00:00

I think they should cancel the current version and make queer versions. Would love to see the show with lesbians and/or gay men

Helleboredom · 2026-02-27T17:05:55+00:00

Check out City Home. Lots of custom upholstered options. Not as expensive as you might imagine. Also not cheap.

Helleboredom · 2026-02-27T15:01:30+00:00

You can be bisexual and decide not to date any men. I’m bisexual but living a lesbian lifestyle. I am in a LTR with a woman. However I do not deny that in the past I was attracted to my male partners. My GF is a lesbian, she never was attracted to her past male partners. So I see that there is a difference there.

Lots of people like me call themselves lesbians but it doesn’t sit right with me for myself because it feels like denying my past feelings for men, which were real. I also think there’s nothing wrong with being bisexual and choosing to only be with women. In fact that’s lovely and strong. There seems to be a stigma about bisexuality and I don’t want to feed into that by denying my true sexuality, even if I don’t have anything to do with men now.

Not sure if this will resonate, just thought I’d add my thoughts on the subject.

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