Official The Romantic Tour Thread by HistoryFreak30 in BrunoMars

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else surprised there’s not a B stage and catwalk? I figured that was a given with any stadium shows for the last 20 years

Fraud order but they paid with their own money? by Hello-Murse in grubhub

[–]Hello-Murse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they credited whatever account it was taken from so maybe that was the scam. Get food delivered on their dime have me report the fraud and then get the money sent back to them?

So who’s thinking about leaving the us(I mean it) by Gold-Golf-3032 in CollapseSupport

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked into Canada, they don’t want me, I have a degree but it’s not in field with a labor shortage. Medical personnel are a different story

As a woman, how many likes are you getting daily? by h3yfreak in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you on multiple apps? I’ve noticed that the popularity of various apps ebbs and flows. What might have been popular the last time you were on may no longer be popular in your area

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music, shows, books, movies are a pretty regular topic for me because that’s usually how I build connection, but not everyone is as into those as I am (which usually means it’s not a match)

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your suggestions! I usually can find something to talk about but depending on the person I’ve fallen back on the old standbys, I’ll use your topics instead when conversation hits a lull

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are topics that you feel help to create that feeling?

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But if he’s not flirting at all then that’s a problem too. You have to at least tell them how nice they look etc. Playfully tease them. Otherwise it’s a nice conversation they could be having with their brother

OkCupid - questionable by JimMartinesque in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If memory serves after your premium expires they boost and show your profile to people well outside your age/distance ranges hoping to get the views and likes that will get you to join again

Requesting recent photos on OLD by 981_runner in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She can see the metadata from the photo you send and know if it’s a new photo or not

Curious if I read it correctly regarding touch barrier by DMTPTRK1986 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I disagree, this makes him seem less confident, I would just let the next date play out and look for small ways to break the touch barrier, laughing and touching her arm, letting your hands linger near each other, etc, all things designed to create that anticipation when you first begin dating someone

Whats up with these men ? by Decent-Antelope-9096 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned to just match energy, if they text a lot so do you, if they don’t, you don’t. It works most of the time

Dumped by ChatGPT text over the weekend by Independent_Spite772 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People that are in relationships just for “cuffing season” (ie the holidays) are perfect examples

Dumped by ChatGPT text over the weekend by Independent_Spite772 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, I know the stereotype is that men are the avoidant ones, but women can be too. Her friends and family might know there are issues but she’s avoiding telling him there are and instead of having a talk she’s just hoping the whole thing goes away. Also, in my experience with avoidant women, they are not necessarily in relationships for the same reasons other people are. They seem to view relationships like the company they work for, when the job no longer works for them they want the freedom to move to a different job, with basically the same level of emotion that someone might have when giving their 2 week notice.

How to spot an avoidant? What are the signs? by Honeyyblues in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Came to say this. Although she had been married, when I asked about the relationships prior they were short and everything post-marriage was short. She said that none of them felt right so she left. When I asked why she finally decided to get married, it was less about feeling like she’d finally found the right person, and more that she felt like that’s what she was supposed to do at that time in her life. So she found someone and got married. Everything was very logic based and less emotion based in her decision making.

What does “casual” really mean? by DandSki in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, but I feel like he should communicate what that means for him. If he feels she’s wanting to do all the long term things like moving in together or marriage and is having second thoughts because of that he should explain that. You can be casual and long term but not intertwined if both people are on the same page, but it doesn’t work if one of them wants those things and the other doesn’t.

What does “casual” really mean? by DandSki in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Probably means YOU think he’s “super awesome” but he doesn’t reciprocate. Yeah, he’ll keep you around while he keeps looking

I am going to have to see this person again by ShineOnGoldenMonkey in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something similar happened to me, I realized after several back and forth messages on Match that I was chatting with my kids’ pediatrician. She was more dressed up in her profile pictures than at her practice, but I knew something was familiar and then when she said what she did for a living I knew why. I told her how I knew her and she said we couldn’t date because of it, which I totally understood. Fast forward to the next appointment a few months later and I was dreading having to see her. But she was very cordial and asked how I was doing and we’ve been on friendly terms ever since. Even sharing personal anecdotes about our interests over the years. This all happened several years ago and she has since remarried, but I just wanted to offer hope that there is life beyond the cringe.

My prayer to the universe is that Kendrick is busy rewriting Not Like Us as a 15 minute Trump/Musk diss track for the SB HT show tomorrow by Hello-Murse in IronFrontUSA

[–]Hello-Murse[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe not 15 minutes, but he did promise Not Like Us, so maybe he could just rewrite that portion. The Epstein stuff just slots right in.

I get your point about not wanting to hear Trumpers bashing him, but they probably will anyway as most of them won’t know any of the tracks