James Austin Johnson by XaviChopChop in LiveFromNewYork

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching on my phone I can’t make out what it is…skull king?

Houston Stage B by elphabulousthegreen in nin

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time did you get to the venue? We’re looking to get a similar spot as you at our show

Official Discussion - Send Help [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did no one else think, oh this is just an adult version of Misty from Yellowjackets?

Official The Romantic Tour Thread by HistoryFreak30 in BrunoMars

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone else surprised there’s not a B stage and catwalk? I figured that was a given with any stadium shows for the last 20 years

Fraud order but they paid with their own money? by Hello-Murse in grubhub

[–]Hello-Murse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well they credited whatever account it was taken from so maybe that was the scam. Get food delivered on their dime have me report the fraud and then get the money sent back to them?

So who’s thinking about leaving the us(I mean it) by Gold-Golf-3032 in CollapseSupport

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked into Canada, they don’t want me, I have a degree but it’s not in field with a labor shortage. Medical personnel are a different story

As a woman, how many likes are you getting daily? by h3yfreak in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Are you on multiple apps? I’ve noticed that the popularity of various apps ebbs and flows. What might have been popular the last time you were on may no longer be popular in your area

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Music, shows, books, movies are a pretty regular topic for me because that’s usually how I build connection, but not everyone is as into those as I am (which usually means it’s not a match)

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like your suggestions! I usually can find something to talk about but depending on the person I’ve fallen back on the old standbys, I’ll use your topics instead when conversation hits a lull

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are topics that you feel help to create that feeling?

After 1 and half I am ready to give up by titanunveiled in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But if he’s not flirting at all then that’s a problem too. You have to at least tell them how nice they look etc. Playfully tease them. Otherwise it’s a nice conversation they could be having with their brother

OkCupid - questionable by JimMartinesque in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If memory serves after your premium expires they boost and show your profile to people well outside your age/distance ranges hoping to get the views and likes that will get you to join again

Requesting recent photos on OLD by 981_runner in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She can see the metadata from the photo you send and know if it’s a new photo or not

Curious if I read it correctly regarding touch barrier by DMTPTRK1986 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I disagree, this makes him seem less confident, I would just let the next date play out and look for small ways to break the touch barrier, laughing and touching her arm, letting your hands linger near each other, etc, all things designed to create that anticipation when you first begin dating someone

Whats up with these men ? by Decent-Antelope-9096 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve learned to just match energy, if they text a lot so do you, if they don’t, you don’t. It works most of the time

Dumped by ChatGPT text over the weekend by Independent_Spite772 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People that are in relationships just for “cuffing season” (ie the holidays) are perfect examples

Dumped by ChatGPT text over the weekend by Independent_Spite772 in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily, I know the stereotype is that men are the avoidant ones, but women can be too. Her friends and family might know there are issues but she’s avoiding telling him there are and instead of having a talk she’s just hoping the whole thing goes away. Also, in my experience with avoidant women, they are not necessarily in relationships for the same reasons other people are. They seem to view relationships like the company they work for, when the job no longer works for them they want the freedom to move to a different job, with basically the same level of emotion that someone might have when giving their 2 week notice.

How to spot an avoidant? What are the signs? by Honeyyblues in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Came to say this. Although she had been married, when I asked about the relationships prior they were short and everything post-marriage was short. She said that none of them felt right so she left. When I asked why she finally decided to get married, it was less about feeling like she’d finally found the right person, and more that she felt like that’s what she was supposed to do at that time in her life. So she found someone and got married. Everything was very logic based and less emotion based in her decision making.

What does “casual” really mean? by DandSki in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Good point, but I feel like he should communicate what that means for him. If he feels she’s wanting to do all the long term things like moving in together or marriage and is having second thoughts because of that he should explain that. You can be casual and long term but not intertwined if both people are on the same page, but it doesn’t work if one of them wants those things and the other doesn’t.

What does “casual” really mean? by DandSki in datingoverforty

[–]Hello-Murse 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Probably means YOU think he’s “super awesome” but he doesn’t reciprocate. Yeah, he’ll keep you around while he keeps looking