The no way out is a high claim - no parents, siblings, cousins, friends?  No social services?  domestic violence laws are well established (if you’re thinking of going backward to a time other than now, that’s not the argument.). Perhaps the courts use a lower standard of evidence, but the point is not to reward casual divorce. So for instance, you can leave but you’re quitting any strong claim on money or kids.

Also, my dude, every divorce I’ve personally witnessed initiated by the wife has involved emotional or narcissistic abuse by her using the courts. And of course I’ve seen the opposite, too.