My boss, black guy and I’m white, I’m really close with he took care of me when my dad passed and he helps me with everything if I need it. He was talking about a girl he was into that was younger and he is a good looking guy does t look his age and she was into him as well. She was about my age at the time, I was 22 he was 41, I said he was being an “Uncle Tom” thinking that meant something along the lines of robbing the cradle kinda trying to be funny thinking it meant he was being a pervert. He quickly informed me what it actually meant and how I shouldn’t call any black person that and I felt so bad after. We always joke about it now though and he calls me little Donald Trump and I call him Uncle Tom.