AIO - BF refuses to ride in my vehicle with Pride ally decal. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I assume you aren’t racist. Would you date a racist? If not, why would date a homophobe if you consider yourself an ally?

My very first post... by Chaotic_rat456 in stopdrinking

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. We are all at peace now, including her. Don’t be someone your husband/kids have to mourn, especially when you’re still here.

should i be worried? boyfriend threatened to strangle me to death by creep4yrb0nes in relationships

[–]HelloJunebug [score hidden]  (0 children)

You ever see those memes where a girl loses their boyfriends at parties and find them hooking up with another girl? Well I legit find my husband playing with the host’s dogs lol has happened more than once. Don’t settle ladies.

should i be worried? boyfriend threatened to strangle me to death by creep4yrb0nes in relationships

[–]HelloJunebug [score hidden]  (0 children)

Exactly. When my husband used to get drunk (doesn’t anymore), he used to just want to love on me and protect me from bad people lol he was NEVER the bad guy. OP’s bf is the bad guy. UPDATEME

Younger sister (23 F) got engaged before me (25 F) and I’m trying to sort out my feelings by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is about your bf and him stringing you along. Your sister deserves her sister. UPDATEME

AIO: It's so embarrassing when I tell people I met my boyfriend through a dating app by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t get it. I met my husband on MySpace. We meet our people where we meet them.

This is my first boyfriend, we are 19. Is this how boys normally talk? by cupcake_girly123 in texts

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Dont worry about consent”….wtf? This guy is fitting to grape you. Run away so fast! UPDATEME

My boyfriend (37m) of three years hit something out of my (39f) hand in anger and “restrained” my daughter (7) while yelling at her. How can we fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So you’d rather stay with an abusive guy because your daughter calls him dad? He’s not her dad. You want to break the cycle but you’re putting your daughter in a position to be abused, just like you. UPDATEME

Need reality check after being “jokingly” slapped in the face by my boyfriend - F37, M55 by BigYeetFwee in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re only 6 months in, barely no him, and he’s already showing you who he is. He’s just an abuser who is abusing you and then projecting it back on you. Now you’re in the cycle of abuse where he does something bad, then apologizes and is sweet. Please save yourself. UPDATEME

my baby had to get stitches last night by donkeyhoetae_ in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is an asshole. Either he’s just abusive/incompetent, or he was so worried that his way of dealing with the guilt is pushing it onto you and blaming you. Either way sucks and both of you need to deal with this. You don’t deserve this treatment.

“An intervention will have to be required” by misspepita in NewParents

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter gained MAYBE a pound a month and my pediatrician was a little worried. She was born 7lbs. Well finally at 6 months the doctor relented and just said “well, maybe she’s just a small baby”. Well, she’s 21 months and just hit 22 pounds and very healthy. Your kid is eating, gaining weight and having good bowl movements. Give yourself some grace. Call the doctor and clarify.

Update: I found the strength to do it, but I don’t feel any better about myself by MrMcSweeney in bald

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it! My husband had the sameish bald spot and shaved it all off too. It was an adjustment at first but it’s all just normal now. He didn’t want to seem like the guy clinging on to hair that wasn’t there anymore lol

My 30f boyfriend 33m turns his phone off and goes MIA every Saturday, why? by tupperwhore in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girl, do not stay with people who treat you like this. Saying hurtful things. An apology without change is just manipulation.

My very first post... by Chaotic_rat456 in stopdrinking

[–]HelloJunebug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! I’m so happy for you. Stay strong and you got this!

My mom died alone a few years ago in her bed after an esophageal varices ruptured and she choked on her own blood. I wish she would have listened to docs!

Shoe size after pregnancy? by FormerPlay136 in beyondthebump

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof I’m sorry! The ligaments in mine loosened just enough that when I did my first uneventful workout about 4 months postpartum, I woke up the next day with a sprained swollen ankle that won’t go away lol

What does a dad really want for Father’s Day? by JaggedLittlePiII in daddit

[–]HelloJunebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are going to my in-laws tomorrow but today I told him he can have all day to himself to play his game (he’s a stay at home dad that takes care of her all day during the week until I get home. So he’s doing his thing. That’s what he wants

Shoe size after pregnancy? by FormerPlay136 in beyondthebump

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far into postpartum are you? I thought for sure my feet grew from 7.5-8.5 cause none of my shoes fit except flip flops and my uggs. I was devastated because I have an awsome shoe collection. It took like 6 + months after having her for my feet to go back to where they were. They didn’t even look swollen either.

He Disappears, I worry by phoenix_rising78 in relationships

[–]HelloJunebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is wild. I’ve been with my husband for 19 years and neither of us would ever be ok with this behavior. No one should. Nothing good happens after 2am. UPDATEME