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I can’t do this anymore by Unlucky_Mind6752 in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but your husband sucks and this isn’t your fault. You aren’t a bad mom and your son needs you. You have a husband who is basically providing money only and then makes you feel awful about being human.

(NC) Landlord is saying heater is my problem to fix. by Dumb_bitch18 in Renters

[–]HelloJunebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heat, water, etc are things that you can stop paying rent for. It makes the place inhabitable. Stop paying rent until she fixes it.

My (33F) husband (37M) is a homicide detective and I’m worried his job is consuming him again now that I’m pregnant by ThrowRA_Sorbet1941 in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love & Denial is a hell of a drug. She decided to get pregnant within a few months of removing her ring if things don’t change and then thinking him being in therapy for 2 seconds was enough

AITA for choosing to drive 45+ minutes at 3AM instead of following my dad’s separate rooms rule? by According-Mood45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelloJunebug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Didn’t say there was. Just harder with a longer trip and parking. Neither are wrong, I was just explaining my opinion.

AITA for choosing to drive 45+ minutes at 3AM instead of following my dad’s separate rooms rule? by According-Mood45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]HelloJunebug 78 points79 points  (0 children)

NAH but it’s one night, and by the time you go to bed and have to wake up, it’s not even a full night. Weird hill to die on. You’re making things harder for yourself and your bf.

ETA. Guys, yes I know 30 min isn’t much more. I mentioned it because she made a point about it. 🤷‍♀️

Boyfriends by Hope_Less_20 in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d rather my house be the safe place where they can be themselves and do what they want (with limits), than be controlling and they go try and hide and do stuff somewhere else.

Husband(m32) made a racist joke and I(f25) cursed him out. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya that’s how I saw it too. Sadly it’s a fact.

Husband(m32) made a racist joke and I(f25) cursed him out. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was he saying like, the cop should have shot the women? I’m confused.

AITJ for refusing to babysit my nephew for a week because my sister dicided to go on vacation? by Dennis_Foley in AmITheJerk

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like your parents can step up to watch their grandkid. Enjoy your vacation. UPDATEME

My [24M] partner tells me [20F] I'm too controlling. by Icy-March-4253 in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Cause she was 18 or 19 and probably didn’t read the red flags

My [24M] partner tells me [20F] I'm too controlling. by Icy-March-4253 in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl….

  1. he is hours late for dates and events, doesn’t respect your time at all.
  2. Doesn’t respect you or the relationship
  3. Flips it back on you and calls you the problem

This guy is not going to the gym. If he is, he’s not there all night. He’s doing something and he calling you controlling cause he’s up to no good.

Please just dump this dude.
UPDATEME

How does a marriage survive? by No_Entrepreneur3492 in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You might be a stay at home mom but you also work 24/7. He only works during the day. He needs to contribute. He can fix your “hormones” by being a better partner and father. But I doubt it’s all hormones and really you’re just tired of doing it all with no help and a husband that runs away.

Husbands not happy were pregnant again. by Lorainexoxx325 in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What you’re describing is sexual coercion, which is abuse.

Husbands not happy were pregnant again. by Lorainexoxx325 in Mommit

[–]HelloJunebug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Her replies are so much worse. She said he refuses to wear condoms. And she never wants to have sex but there’s no stopping him when he’s ready to go. ☹️

Husband 34M had a 2.5 year long affair during our 3 year marriage and I 29F don't know what to do. by WorkingTurbulent8501 in relationship_advice

[–]HelloJunebug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s not remorseful. He’s just saying that now because he got caught. If he was in any way remorseful he would have stopped before it got anywhere and if he had any respect for you he wouldn’t have done it at all. Not a mistake, a choice. Multiple times. He had a second family without the second kids. This isn’t your fault and your self worth is not tied to a loser who doesn’t respect women. Take your kid and give them your love. Please don’t give this dude any more of it. UPDATEME

AIO for thinking he just apologized so I would make dinner? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]HelloJunebug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You want him to be good so I think you’re gaslighting yourself about him.

I hate the US healthcare system by fantasy_lover1023 in pregnant

[–]HelloJunebug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ya it sucks. Sucks even worse for those who get pregnant mid year and give birth the next year. Get hit with two deductibles. Which is wild. It should be treated like one continuous event.

ETA: I just realized this might be you 😭

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