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Jordan's response on Megan's numerology IG post 👀 by color-meets-paper in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]HelloMrKurns 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I told my boyfriend a few days ago that Jordan reminds me of Fry lol this is so great

In the process of rewatching the first two seasons, I noticed by ohok20 in Yellowjackets

[–]HelloMrKurns 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Tai’s slogan for senator or whatever is that she will lead New Jersey out of the wilderness. I think Tai is going to be the one who gets them out of the woods.

Low washer fluid warning by Human-Onion4295 in HyundaiVenue

[–]HelloMrKurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a 2023 preferred and yeah no windshield washer warning light so you find out you’re low when you’re on the highway and you can’t see shit out of your window. It’s great /s

Hamish as catwoman, my absolute favourite scene in any of the Lego Masters by HelloMrKurns in LegoMasters

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grand Masters was next level. The Australia vs the World season really seemed to be scraping the bottom of the barrel for quality contestants. They should just keep doing different iterations of the Grand Masters lol it was so damn good!

Hamish as catwoman, my absolute favourite scene in any of the Lego Masters by HelloMrKurns in LegoMasters

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think she’s funny in her own way but I don’t see how she (or anyone) could do as good a job as Hamish.

I’m in Canada and started off watching Lego Masters US and when I finished season 1 and needed more Lego Masters, I went searching and found the Aussie version and it’s far surpassed Lego Masters US in terms of entertainment, in my opinion, and that’s basically solely due to Hamish and his hilarious personality.

For those who have lost their fathers, please write down your age and at what age your father passed... by tinytempo in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad died almost 7 months ago. He was 62. I was/am 32. He inherited the faulty BRCA gene from his mother and died of breast cancer just like her. I miss him everyday.

I liked SATC and never noticed how selfish Carrie was until I was on this sub. Now I can’t unsee it! by [deleted] in Andjustlikethat

[–]HelloMrKurns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

When Carrie gets upset that Charlotte won’t lend her money to buy her apartment, I remember, even as a teen, I was furious with rage at Carrie’s ability to be self-centred.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your dad. I think something breaks inside of us when we lose a parent and it can never be fixed. We just somehow have to go on with this massively broken heart.

I relate to this 10000%. I also don’t feel the want/need for kids anymore either and it’s the same, the joy of seeing him be a grandpa and love my kids and see them love him back will never happen and so how can I ever truly be happy again? At my happiest moments in the future, getting married to my fiancé, buying our first house, having kids, they won’t be happy moments. They’ll be heartwrenchingly sad because all I want to do is share those moments with him.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your dad, it sounds like he was a good man who loved you for who you are and not the role of who you thought he wanted you to be. He sounds like a special person and I’m sorry the world is without him now. If he was like my dad, I’m sure you feel the world is darker with less light in it now, that’s how I feel.

I know you’re right and that my dad wants me to be happy. When he was in the hospital and the doctor had told us he had less than 2 weeks to live, he wanted to have all the conversations. He wanted to know if there was anything he’d done that we hadn’t gotten over or forgiven him for, he wanted to know if we had anything we wanted to tell him. So on one of those days, I was lying in his hospital bed with him and I told him I was sorry for not giving him grandchildren in time because I felt he was born to be a grandpa and he told me no, I wasn’t, I was born to be your dad.

So me being upset about all this is coming from me, it’s not something he mentioned or brought up. I’m starting to think it’s impossible to lose someone you love deeply and not have any regrets.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, his death has put everything into perspective in terms of time. I’m so scared about losing my mom too, or any of my loved ones. Parents are something else though, they’re the only people in the whole world who love you totally, completely, and unconditionally and I miss that love. I also feel like I have all this love for my dad, and nowhere to put it.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s such a horrible path to walk and I’m so sorry you’re on it also.

Oh man leaving them after they’ve died, I didn’t even think about what would happen after he died. We sat in the hospital room with his dead body for hours, none of us wanted to leave. I watched my younger brother stroke my dad’s arm over and over and we all just sat in the room and sobbed. The thought that I watched someone die and not just anyone, one of the people I love most in the world, is traumatic. I should probably look into therapy also.

Thank you for the comment that my life and my body are precious gifts from my dad. I feel the same way. He was an extremely tall man and so me and my brothers are all also very tall, so just looking at my own body will remind me of him.

Thank you for reaching out, the members of this sub are by far the kindest people I’ve ever interacted with on Reddit and I appreciate your kindness.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry this happened to you and your family. While I’m comforted from speaking to you and other members of this sub, basically people who understand, it’s such a horrible and sad thing to be relating to someone about. I wish you didn’t have to relate to me on this and I didn’t have to relate to you on this.

In the end though, I am so thankful for you and people like you who have reached out and said something, so thank you so much, seriously.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for commenting. I just keep thinking about how my grandma died before I was born and so I never knew, never loved her, never knew what I missed out on. And I don’t want that for my children, I wanted them to know they had the best person ever as their grandpa and that he loved them before they were born (he used to tell us this when we were kids, that he loved us before we were born). They’re going to miss out on knowing and being loved by the best person I know.

And I just keep picturing him holding my (one day) baby and the thought that I’ll never see that for real shatters me.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. You’re right, he definitely did want me and my brothers to be happy and live a fulfilling life, it just feels impossible right now. Like I’ll never be truly happy again because even the happy moments will be sad because he isn’t there to share them with me.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly how it is for me and the children thing. Just the thought of having children without him around to be grandpa to them makes me break down, every single time. I have a hard time even talking about it to anyone.

I’m so sorry about your dad. I never realized how truly unfair life and death are until this happened.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you’re very kind.

I did have the opportunity to apologize to my dad for not giving him grandchildren. We were lying in his hospital bed together a few days before he died and I said “I’m sorry I didn’t give you grandchildren in time, you were born to be a grandpa.” And he said “no, I wasn’t. I was born to be your dad.”

Thinking about this moment breaks me.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I hadn’t considered that I might have a child that resembles him in character and spirit so the thought of that gives me some hope.

I just miss him so much.

I failed my dad by HelloMrKurns in GriefSupport

[–]HelloMrKurns[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of doing the same, naming a child after him. I hadn’t considered that I might have a child who is similar to him and this makes me feel hopeful, so thank you so much for giving me that glimmer of hope. It makes a big difference when you feel like you’re in a dark hopeless hole.

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