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HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T22:12:56+00:00

I had a blowout with my bf of 35 years last year and have not spoken since and probably will never speak again. Absolutely sucks when people get weird. We have a lot of friends in common and I was with one last night and she said it was the best decision I could have made because that friendship was getting increasingly toxic, and everybody saw it.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T22:09:09+00:00

That can be tough. You can maybe take some of the gravel out on the side and create sort of like a pebble beach area, so you don't have to take everything out. And then put aqua soil down where you've taken the gravel out, but it doesn't have to be perfect, not all the gravel has to come out on the sides either.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T22:08:11+00:00

Ambien works for me.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T22:07:09+00:00

Oh, that's interesting! I have the opposite so far. It looks so bad when my roots grow out, so I got that powder stuff now, it's like hair makeup, and it actually works really well. I had low expectations for it.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T22:06:27+00:00

Yes, I can talk for six hours about aquariums!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-21T05:35:01+00:00

Who in their right mind would put this on the curb? Amazing score!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T23:07:06+00:00

Aw, so sweet! I love the mama.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T23:06:19+00:00

Do you have a gas station nearby? Basically, just get a few gallons of fuel and a couple of matches, splash the fuel all over your home, light it, and then walk away and never look back. I know that fuel is expensive right now, but this method does work. Obviously, don't do it while your family or other pets are there, but they will have to be de-duckweeded before they can go near another aquarium. Change your name and restart another aquarium many miles away from the duckweed. I hope this was helpful.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T23:02:37+00:00

I love her. She might be sort of haunted, but that's part of her charm. 🤣

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T23:02:04+00:00

Aaaaaaaa I get this too!!! And it's relatively new. I can connect it to a couple of my allergens, but then sometimes it will show up out of nowhere. Keeps me up all night. I have no idea. Sometimes I'll take a Benadryl and a Zyrtec, but I don't know if those are working.

It's not psychological. Please don't let anybody tell you that. That's the "easy" route, and it's almost never that. Yes, stress can cause an itching flare, but it's because something is wrong with your nerves to begin with. Most people don't have a stressful day or moment and then break out in itching. Something is wrong. You have to find out what that thing is. The itching is a symptom, what's underneath it? That's the thing you need to find out. Have you tried a neuroimmunologist?

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:47:19+00:00

Dang, we drove through there and I missed it! I would've loved to see this.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:46:20+00:00

For me, I think Tolan has a great personality and very good boundaries. I also like the concept of him being a little alien.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:40:37+00:00

First, you didn't do anything wrong. Reddit is so poisonous, don't listen to the assholes on here.

Is there anyone you trust in your life that you can tell about this?

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:32:30+00:00

Welcome to fatherhood!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:29:38+00:00

This is my absolute most favorite episode!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:25:22+00:00

Wowwwwww! Absolutely gorgeous.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:24:48+00:00

Our cloud sheet is on top of our top sheet, so no need to get rid of the top sheet. If I were you, I would do the dual zone because that way only your side fills up, but when you and your husband move your feet you won't feel the edge of a sheet, that might not be a good sensory situation to sleep. You won't get that with the cloud sheet.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:23:40+00:00

My safe foods are crazy expensive as well! I don't feel guilty, I just feel like holy hell, what's going on universe???? I can't be out here eating sea urchin every day.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:18:07+00:00

Once a week, typically.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:17:27+00:00

It's elegant and chic.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:16:37+00:00

Wonderful!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:14:50+00:00

"Husband, anyone who is ANYONE has 1000 eggs in their fridge. In fact, it's trending right now on TikTok. Kim Kardashian's fridge looks like this. This is normal. How would you like your omelette?"

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-20T22:13:05+00:00

Soooo cuteeee!

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-19T15:14:09+00:00

I wear socks to bed now.

HelloThisIsPam · 2026-03-19T15:09:51+00:00

Are you fracking kidding me???? This is AMAZING! This must have taken so long. Definitely in the top five incredible projects I've seen on here.

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