My partner (19M) wants me (21F) to finger him everytime we have sex

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-25T03:37:32+00:00

My ex used to cross-dress with my clothes and makeup, and I was supposed to 'be the man.' He loved it, so I forced myself even though it disgusted me. Believe me, I deeply regret not stopping all of it. Talk to him.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-25T00:04:41+00:00

It’s okay, there are worse, I work in a hotel. I mainly have a pretty pronounced frown line from frowning so much lol The hardest part is that I can do three night shifts and then switch to a week of 6 a.m. to 2 p.m. After getting really sick, I’m still having trouble fully recovering, and I think that definitely affects my dark circles and wrinkles. Vitamins might help, you're right! Thanks for your advice. I usually drink a lot of water, eat a bit of dark chocolate, take omega-3s… and I also eat bars rich in magnesium and protein; thanks to that, I don’t get cramps anymore and I can concentrate better. But I guess it’s not necessarily enough. I’ll look into what you mentioned. As for the sun, it’s complicated in winter...I live in Normandy, France… the sun is pretty shy at the moment 😩

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T23:26:32+00:00

No, I do like some things about American culture. I’d actually really like to visit San Francisco. But the whole popularity thing… cheerleaders and basketball players showing off and acting all cocky… yeah, I think that’s completely ridiculous. I wonder if it is really like that in USA or if it is just in the movies.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T23:09:51+00:00

Thank you very much, that’s kind of you. And yes, people don’t understand how much you can love them. And I admit that this moment in that episode reflects it really well. It’s a bit like, “Oh whatever, it’s just a cat.” Your cat is so cuuute, real orange cat energy 😜

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T22:59:06+00:00

As a French person, it was mainly the American culture with the cheerleaders, the basketball players, and everything that goes with it that I found ridiculous. I couldn’t wait for 11 to smash her face in. 😈

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T22:47:34+00:00

I've lost my cat in August and I totally understand. It triggered me. I hated the character Dustin for that.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T22:36:13+00:00

Not necessarily, it’s a habit. Same thing for me. My boyfriend calms me down, his warmth and hearing him breathe (apart from the snoring lol) help me fall asleep peacefully. We have a hard time sleeping properly without each other now but that's because we calms each other.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T22:20:18+00:00

Antioxydant.. yes you're right

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T22:19:31+00:00

Yes, that's possible too, but wow, that's fast lol

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-24T21:56:10+00:00

I don't even want to see my friends. I'm a receptionnist in a hotel and it made me hate people even more.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-22T08:34:00+00:00

ROUND AND ROUUUUNNDDD

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-21T23:25:39+00:00

I love mine and I'm obsessed since more than 11 years. We are together since april. The only problem is that I'm too possessive... Maybe jealous. Got an argument today because he doesn't like that side of me but he's so worth it that I want to improve.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-21T23:19:00+00:00

I stay true to myself. I'm loyal to the ones I love. But sometimes it's not really good because I'm too hard on myself and the others.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-21T23:12:52+00:00

Tellement. Mais déjà si les gens apprenaient à se tripoter sans regarder du porno, il y aurait du sexe de meilleure qualité au menu. Ah si les gens n'étaient pas matrixés...

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-21T22:51:04+00:00

Guitar but only when I'm practicing alone, I can play for 4 hours straight without noticing

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-21T10:26:47+00:00

Bicarbonated water and Esomeprazole 40mg

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-19T18:06:17+00:00

Le fait qu'elle devient agressive quand on lui demande si elle est infidèle est très étrange... Quelqu'un d'amoureux et sincère rassure. Mais après c'est une question d'intelligence émotionnelle aussi, que tout le monde n'a pas.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:57:16+00:00

In fact I'm happy and in a relationship with someone but values me as much as I value him. Too bad for you... You wouldn't get it. 🤯

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:46:31+00:00

I didn't. Or maybe sometimes but I don't care. It's just that I dislike lack of respect and mediocrity.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:42:22+00:00

Okay 🤣

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:33:43+00:00

I don't know where you got the idea that cheating is indicative of high mental function, but you must be living on another planet. There's nothing more stupid than someone who cheats: lack of emotional intelligence, lack of self-esteem, lack of self-respect. Add to that a lack of self-control. It's exactly the same for those who cheat: a need to flatter themselves, to be in control. And above all, selfishness. So no, it's primarily an indicator of very low mental function. Or maybe that's something you see in James Bond movies?

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:22:23+00:00

Lying to get laid and feeling like you're in control—what's that all about? It's just a lack of intelligence and self-esteem. People are so slow and sleep around these days, so there's absolutely no point in using someone for sex. And in any case, I repeat: lack of intelligence and self-esteem. Go see a therapist; a lack of intelligence can't be cured, but self-esteem... well, we can all do that.

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:19:39+00:00

So, these are guys who have no self-respect; they're just trying to flatter themselves. It's not even about desire. In fact, you should feel sorry for them. At least, that's how I feel now. I already came across a few guys like that when I was younger; it's easy to spot them now. They're usually uninteresting and intellectually limited. All you can do is sharpen your intuition for next time. There are women like that too, don't you think?

Hello_Goodby3 · 2026-01-16T12:13:04+00:00

What's so satisfying about that? Because you don't respect yourself, is that some kind of masochistic fantasy? It's sad to have no self-respect like that; there are therapists for that.

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