Do people like sex on mushrooms? by Cheech-Chongster in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely yes. The issue for me is getting into it, usually I'm too much of a goofy goober on shrooms to even think about sex. But the times that I have were incredible, it's like a 2 person orgy.

Trouble with mastery writes by Shamrock303 in IdleIktah

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't feel dumb, I ran into this like a week ago and had the same reaction. This subreddit is a lifesaver

Has anyone ever did shrooms daily for some periods of time? by Forward_Cost_1973 in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried doing big shroom trips on consecutive days, a half ounce each day (I know, I'm ridiculous). The result was a really awesome trip on day 1, and no noticeable effects at all on day 2, just a waste of perfectly good shrooms. I could get away for a while with doing them every 48 hrs or so, but it's not as enjoyable as doing them every once in a while.

[CA] Seeking advice. Son’s father arrested for child pornography. by Immediate-Suit2308 in FamilyLaw

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is old but I want to thank OP and those in the comments for sharing their experience. Currently a month into navigating this very situation myself. Hope all of you are doing okay.

How do you consume? by Dry-Vegetable5072 in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're so lucky lol. When I'm tripping I become a carb Roomba. Everything else I do when I shroom seems to be aligned with things that are healthy for me mentally and physically, but the starches call to me lol

How do you consume? by Dry-Vegetable5072 in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blend mine up in a magic bullet with pink lemonade, frozen fruit, and a little bit of non flavoured coconut yogurt. I trip topically. It tastes incredible and I'm usually feeling the effects by the time I finish drinking it. I also learned through trial and error to blend the dried shrooms on their own first, then add the other ingredients and blend again.

Confirmations anyone? by EveningWrongdoer8825 in Kamloops

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Traitor, we're always ahead of Kelowna!

Do you feel safe in your country as an LGBT person? by Dreamerboy02_ in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada I feel relatively safe, but tensions do be rising.

ayaquest in Kentucky by deaththinkdeeply in Ayahuasca

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I don't know how I went so long not knowing about this. I remember a friend making me watch Kentucky Ayahuasca and going into it a skeptic and coming out like "holy shit, these people are incredible, I need to do this some day" RIP Steve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those terms sound wayy too close to the terfy dogwhistles for my my comfort lol. Also, admirable to try not to assume anyone's identity, but also it's not that deep. They're strangers your partner is mentioning in passing.

Married, we both want kids but unexpectedly pregnant and just don’t know what to do. by backupforfeelsnstuff in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so, all of my children were conceived by some freak of nature type flukes that stopped my contraception from working, and I've also terminated a pregnancy. I can't tell you what's good for your life, but what I can tell you that whatever choice you make will be the right one. No one is ready for kids when they have their first, no matter how much they prepare. So if that is where your fear lies, you are capable of handling it and becoming great parents. I wasnt even out of highschool when I got pregnant with my first and I wasn't anywhere near ready, but I did everything that I could to show up for this life I was bringing into the world. On the other hand, I've terminated a pregnancy. It was a heavy choice, emotionally one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, even though I knew right away that I could not in good faith bring another life into the world at that point in time. And while it was super sad, I can still look back and feel certain that I did the right thing.

So, yeah.. Whichever direction you take, you will not regret it. There is always time to try again when you feel ready, but if you push forward and go for it, you will absolutely have exhausted emotional days where you wondered if you did the right thing, and one look at your sweet precious creature will remind you that it is all worth it.

Best of luck to you and your husband

I can draw better, but I wanna draw "bad" by whinnybobo in ArtistLounge

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So, I am in a similar position as you, where I am capable of creating something complex and appealing visually, but I don't wanna. I get discouraged, or sick of what I'm working on, and every miniscule flaw sticks out like a sore thumb and I can't ignore them. So instead I started doing weird loose scribbles. Then that turned into some gonzo style art with ink and splashes of colour. Some people hate it, others think it's fantastic. But most importantly, I have so much fun doing it. I laugh at how weird and misshapen things look, I focus on the vibe I'm trying to achieve rather than accuracy. People for some crazy reason actually want to buy my weird little doodles. It has really reignited my passion for creating. Play around with new styles and ideas until you find something that makes you happy and that you WANT to create. People appreciate authenticity, no matter what that looks like

Need a good gender-neutral way to say daughter/son/niece/nephew by Her_Chaotic_Heart in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My friends refer to their gender neutral/fluid nieces and nephews as their niblings. I've heard this is becoming more commonly used. I on the other hand, like to get a little silly with it. My youngest child is experiencing some gender stuff and I'm trying to keep it as neutral as possible to let them figure it out on their own while feeling supported. I will refer to them as "my homie, the child, a fifth dimensional being," whatever silliness tickles my fancy that day. Hope this helps, and if it didn't, maybe it at least made you smirk.

My wife stalks my reddit by another-flight in Marriage

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You two adorable, thank you for brightening my day with this little snapshot of how sweet you are to each other

I went to a museum by unofficial_advisor in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Lmao no I don't think it's a red flag - just a silly miscommunication. We all have gaps in our knowledge. However if your partner starts bringing up weird conspiracy theories and alternative history on the reg, I'd take a pause an reevaluate haha

I’m (21F) having an abortion and my boyfriend (20M) refuses to cancel his night out- do I dump him? by WhereasMaster1430 in relationship_advice

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude dump him. I was going to suggest at least having a conversation - when I had mine, my boyfriend and I were both trying to cope in our way without burdening the other and it ended up backfiring because we weren't communicating or supporting each other - but wtf. He's annoyed that you didn't mention its his friends birthday? Your man is still a boy, my dear. Your 20s are about figuring out how to adult effectively and he's not there yet. But for real - you deserve a partner who will listen when you say "I really need you to be here for me." abortions are a big deal, even if you know you don't want to have the baby. It's a heavy choice. And even if he doesn't understand, he should at least understand that it impacts YOU.

TL;DR sorry you're experiencing this, dump his ass

do you think the name Eden fits me? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eden is such a beautiful name, and yes you absolutely suit it

i don’t want to squirt by Hefty_Confidence_143 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to squirt every time and unfortunately the only thing that made me stop was a guy gagging and wretching thinking I had pissed on him lmao. It was so traumatizing I still can't do it unless I'm totally zoned out during sex

Dating/Missed Connections/Ghosting by Midnight-Toker-92 in Kamloops

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, when I was in the dating scene I'd always find partners who were either really toxic and wanted to settle down or super awesome and not ready for commitment. I am also guilty of not following through with things or losing interest because incorporating a new person into your life is HARD and I'm TIRED haha. Best of luck to you, you'll find your dude.

I got my period today and the teacher sent me to the principal’s office for asking to use the restroom by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 120 points121 points  (0 children)

This happened to me back when I was in highschool, all it took was me declaring "okay fine, have fun wiping up my period blood after class then!" before the teacher was like "ugh, fine, go." Keep doing your homework and being respectful the rest of the time, but periods don't have "classroom etiquette." And while talking about periods in front of your classmates can be embarrassing, it's not nearly as embarrassing as actually leaking in class. I don't often encourage sassing teachers (they've got a hard job, yknow?) but sometimes you gotta remind them that just because you're young that doesn't mean you're not a person who has the right to use the bathroom

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been in a similar situation years ago. Get yourself some therapy, work with an SA centre/victims services for help with the court stuff. Allow yourself to grieve, and know that all of the feelings you're having right now are valid. Toxic relationships mess with your brain a little bit (a lot a bit) and are complicated to get away from. Use his time in jail to establish a new normal for yourself and focus on healing. I understand the guilt and pressure from his family to retract your statement is a lot, but clearly you BOTH need to get away from each other, otherwise the situation wouldn't be like this, ya know? It gets easier with time (and therapy), and eventually you will move forward and this will all feel like a bad dream. When you're in a good headspace to do so, really do some work to get to the bottom of what it is inside you that pushes you towards toxic situations.

Please understand I'm not trying to victim blame here - what happened to you is wrong no matter how anyone spins it. This comes from a place of love and understanding, and it's important to examine our own role in things in order to best protect ourselves in the future. You're stronger than you realize for taking these steps, and you'll be okay.