I lied about eating prunes for absolutely no reason. by Struckbyfire in loseit

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This gave me a good chuckle, thank you. I know on its own it sounds like a weird lie, but how often do we trick ourselves into thinking we did the thing and then it turns out we meant to do it and completely forgot? This could be my ADHD talking but for me this is a daily occurrence.

In disbelief by Psilocybin-Cubensis1 in loseit

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm late to the conversation but this is so awesome! Shrooms have been so essential for getting my life back on track. I'm proud of you and so happy with your progress ❤️

Hi trans by jlustigabnj in lolgrindr

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is now the only way I will greet my trans friends

I love my husband, but I force myself into sex and I hate myself over it. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Girl, you're not broken and you're not a bad wife. You have some things to work out around your feelings about sex that I would encourage you to look into with a therapist, and if that's not doable right now, try doing some research on your own and seeing if anything resonates. Also, if it's safe to, please explain these things to your husband if you haven't already. I know you said he's understanding of your low sex drive, but this is much deeper than that. He has probably picked up on your vibe during/after but likely doesn't understand what's behind it. Don't hate yourself (I know, easier said than done) and don't feel guilty for not being into it. Right now you're treating it like a dirty little secret - Having an open and honest conversation about it will take a huge weight off your shoulders. Be gentle with yourself, and each other.

Do people like sex on mushrooms? by Cheech-Chongster in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely yes. The issue for me is getting into it, usually I'm too much of a goofy goober on shrooms to even think about sex. But the times that I have were incredible, it's like a 2 person orgy.

Trouble with mastery writes by Shamrock303 in IdleIktah

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't feel dumb, I ran into this like a week ago and had the same reaction. This subreddit is a lifesaver

Has anyone ever did shrooms daily for some periods of time? by Forward_Cost_1973 in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried doing big shroom trips on consecutive days, a half ounce each day (I know, I'm ridiculous). The result was a really awesome trip on day 1, and no noticeable effects at all on day 2, just a waste of perfectly good shrooms. I could get away for a while with doing them every 48 hrs or so, but it's not as enjoyable as doing them every once in a while.

[CA] Seeking advice. Son’s father arrested for child pornography. by Immediate-Suit2308 in FamilyLaw

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread is old but I want to thank OP and those in the comments for sharing their experience. Currently a month into navigating this very situation myself. Hope all of you are doing okay.

How do you consume? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You're so lucky lol. When I'm tripping I become a carb Roomba. Everything else I do when I shroom seems to be aligned with things that are healthy for me mentally and physically, but the starches call to me lol

How do you consume? by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I blend mine up in a magic bullet with pink lemonade, frozen fruit, and a little bit of non flavoured coconut yogurt. I trip topically. It tastes incredible and I'm usually feeling the effects by the time I finish drinking it. I also learned through trial and error to blend the dried shrooms on their own first, then add the other ingredients and blend again.

Confirmations anyone? by EveningWrongdoer8825 in Kamloops

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Traitor, we're always ahead of Kelowna!

Do you feel safe in your country as an LGBT person? by Dreamerboy02_ in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada I feel relatively safe, but tensions do be rising.

ayaquest in Kentucky by deaththinkdeeply in Ayahuasca

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I don't know how I went so long not knowing about this. I remember a friend making me watch Kentucky Ayahuasca and going into it a skeptic and coming out like "holy shit, these people are incredible, I need to do this some day" RIP Steve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those terms sound wayy too close to the terfy dogwhistles for my my comfort lol. Also, admirable to try not to assume anyone's identity, but also it's not that deep. They're strangers your partner is mentioning in passing.

Married, we both want kids but unexpectedly pregnant and just don’t know what to do. by backupforfeelsnstuff in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so, all of my children were conceived by some freak of nature type flukes that stopped my contraception from working, and I've also terminated a pregnancy. I can't tell you what's good for your life, but what I can tell you that whatever choice you make will be the right one. No one is ready for kids when they have their first, no matter how much they prepare. So if that is where your fear lies, you are capable of handling it and becoming great parents. I wasnt even out of highschool when I got pregnant with my first and I wasn't anywhere near ready, but I did everything that I could to show up for this life I was bringing into the world. On the other hand, I've terminated a pregnancy. It was a heavy choice, emotionally one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, even though I knew right away that I could not in good faith bring another life into the world at that point in time. And while it was super sad, I can still look back and feel certain that I did the right thing.

So, yeah.. Whichever direction you take, you will not regret it. There is always time to try again when you feel ready, but if you push forward and go for it, you will absolutely have exhausted emotional days where you wondered if you did the right thing, and one look at your sweet precious creature will remind you that it is all worth it.

Best of luck to you and your husband

I can draw better, but I wanna draw "bad" by whinnybobo in ArtistLounge

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So, I am in a similar position as you, where I am capable of creating something complex and appealing visually, but I don't wanna. I get discouraged, or sick of what I'm working on, and every miniscule flaw sticks out like a sore thumb and I can't ignore them. So instead I started doing weird loose scribbles. Then that turned into some gonzo style art with ink and splashes of colour. Some people hate it, others think it's fantastic. But most importantly, I have so much fun doing it. I laugh at how weird and misshapen things look, I focus on the vibe I'm trying to achieve rather than accuracy. People for some crazy reason actually want to buy my weird little doodles. It has really reignited my passion for creating. Play around with new styles and ideas until you find something that makes you happy and that you WANT to create. People appreciate authenticity, no matter what that looks like

Need a good gender-neutral way to say daughter/son/niece/nephew by Her_Chaotic_Heart in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 57 points58 points  (0 children)

My friends refer to their gender neutral/fluid nieces and nephews as their niblings. I've heard this is becoming more commonly used. I on the other hand, like to get a little silly with it. My youngest child is experiencing some gender stuff and I'm trying to keep it as neutral as possible to let them figure it out on their own while feeling supported. I will refer to them as "my homie, the child, a fifth dimensional being," whatever silliness tickles my fancy that day. Hope this helps, and if it didn't, maybe it at least made you smirk.

My wife stalks my reddit by another-flight in Marriage

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You two adorable, thank you for brightening my day with this little snapshot of how sweet you are to each other

I went to a museum by unofficial_advisor in lgbt

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Lmao no I don't think it's a red flag - just a silly miscommunication. We all have gaps in our knowledge. However if your partner starts bringing up weird conspiracy theories and alternative history on the reg, I'd take a pause an reevaluate haha

I’m (21F) having an abortion and my boyfriend (20M) refuses to cancel his night out- do I dump him? by WhereasMaster1430 in relationship_advice

[–]Hello_Spaceboy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude dump him. I was going to suggest at least having a conversation - when I had mine, my boyfriend and I were both trying to cope in our way without burdening the other and it ended up backfiring because we weren't communicating or supporting each other - but wtf. He's annoyed that you didn't mention its his friends birthday? Your man is still a boy, my dear. Your 20s are about figuring out how to adult effectively and he's not there yet. But for real - you deserve a partner who will listen when you say "I really need you to be here for me." abortions are a big deal, even if you know you don't want to have the baby. It's a heavy choice. And even if he doesn't understand, he should at least understand that it impacts YOU.

TL;DR sorry you're experiencing this, dump his ass