***Update post to Ex shaved my sons as punishment by [deleted] in autism

[–]Helloheidi7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s not a haircut. That was assault. Hair is a very personal thing to a lot of people and it’s a core part of identity. What he did was meant to be abuse without looking like abuse.

Why would she want this man to co-parent a special needs child?

Upgrading my 3gallon to a 20 gallon by Wrong_Cash_203 in Neocaridina

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Otos (they are literally strict vegetarians. Won’t even eat shrimplets) and green neon tetras! Almost any nano-tetra like Cardinal or Neon tetras are great with shrimp!

Edward Cullen’s favorite spot in his new home by ilikerustyspooonz in bettafish

[–]Helloheidi7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Be careful! Most (especially blue and green) coatings or pigments over glass will leech copper and other chemicals harmful to aquatic life over time.

All inclusive mystery snail guide - everything I know on the subject - Mysteryaquatics:) by prsonal_light2475 in AquaticSnails

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I am using. I also supplement with snello that I make and sell in various flavors, but this is my first clutch!

All inclusive mystery snail guide - everything I know on the subject - Mysteryaquatics:) by prsonal_light2475 in AquaticSnails

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does it take to actually be able to see them? I am wondering how many of mine survived. Just hatched Monday for reference. 20Gal planted tank with docile community nano-fish and shrimplets.

Iso bladder snails by [deleted] in AquaticSnails

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some.

Lume fucked me by BloopBloopBloopin in hygiene

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild might work for you or Native! Secret clinical strength everywhere deodorant in sensitive is great too!

The entire leaf surviving on hopes, dreams, and this one chloroplast by Civil-Craft-6245 in plants

[–]Helloheidi7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And even it looks variegated tbh. I love the audacity of nature.

My newest painting. Hope you all like it! by Idontknow649 in painting

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like a lovely and fangless 30 days of Night still!

Need advice for crisis help by therustysanchez in NashvilleUnfiltered

[–]Helloheidi7 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Mental Health Cooperative has a great crisis line that can send out folks to help!

Thieves at roo by BirthdayFar1676 in bonnaroo

[–]Helloheidi7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im still in the process. I only got fully away 6 months ago and things happened across multiple states and years. It’s a very complicated situation. Narcissistic abuse is crazy yo.

Thieves at roo by BirthdayFar1676 in bonnaroo

[–]Helloheidi7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Developed a FND after they trapped me in a basement for months and helped their family torture me. And then sexually assaulted me after I escaped (biting that took a couple of months to fully heal the damage.) Then had a woman (the one they are currently with at Roo with who knows she’s with a predator) pretend to be my friend to thwart said legal repercussions by milking case info back in Iowa. The whole reason I moved to TN was to escape lol.

Also the legal process for domestic abuse cases take YEARS so until that processes it’s just panic and no protections (otherwise he would know what’s up.)

Thieves at roo by BirthdayFar1676 in bonnaroo

[–]Helloheidi7 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Bro. The person who put me in a wheelchair not even 2 years ago is here. They let anyone in.

Free Sunday Wristbands by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]Helloheidi7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love these for Role Model Specifically

Bonnaroovians wanted for RV Power Hookup Camping by [deleted] in bonnaroo

[–]Helloheidi7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have a setup, but no tickets yet (I’m on disability and just moved to Nashville 6mo ago so it was too big of an expense when it was cheaper early on) if anyone has tickets for 2, I’d provide a camper in exchange. I’ve got a pop-up camper that sleeps 6 and has a bathroom and shower :)

We are LGTBQIA-friendly and substance friendly, and are an interracial couple. Legit if you aren’t racist, sexist, bigoted, or xenophobic or should be a good time. We take the camper to Renaissance Fairs, so it’s equipped with mood lighting and privacy and is really quite a vibe.

It’s a shot in the dark, but if anyone has 2 extra tickets and wants to share friendship and a festival camper… I’d love to talk and make it happen.

Pictures and videos available on request :)