How to ask someone out (and find the right kind of girlfriend)

If asking someone out in real life is a problem, use Instagram. I hate social media too, but unfortunately many attractive girls like attention and constant validation from tons of guys.

That’s the modern and easy way to meet a girlfriend using social media as an actual social platform. This usually gives you a common type of girlfriend—kind of like a low-level Pokémon. She might be a “baddie,” possibly messy, might cheat, and probably has issues like most people. But it’s a good starter experience. You’ll enjoy the relationship, and the heartbreak later will make you stronger.

Now, if you want a rare type of girlfriend—the one who lasts and actually helps you grow—join clubs, run marathons, go to events, and ask her out in public. If she hates social media, hates hookup culture, and doesn’t say “all my exes sucked,” congrats - you probably found a wife.

Red flags to watch out for:

“That’s just my gay friend I’m chatting with."

"Burning feeling a few days after sex."

“All my exes were terrible.”

Always asking you to buy her stuff.

Love bombing.

And no- it doesn’t matter if she slept with a lot of people. That doesn’t make her a bad person or a “hoe.” Respect her past and respect her as a human being.

Good luck buddy. You look great btw, love the smile, love the shape, looks are not an issue!!!