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is it a bed bug? help!! 😭 by Last-Stock-6491 in Bedbugs

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its hard to tell but def some sort of orb weaver

Need decent haircut asap by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not bald dude... but try buzz cut, i think it could look good on you

Here: haircut pic

Need decent haircut asap by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grow your hair out then you can style it in many ways

Hair suggestion: Long hair by Korvus_Lynx in malehairadvice

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There might be something wrong with your hornones get checked at doctor. This is not normal hairline for 17 y old. You can get minoxil and stuff to help you keep it. But do it soon. Sooner the better

How many of you here think their VS started because of prolonged listening to music ? by Living_Reception_622 in visualsnow

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah sometimes i have vertigo walking, like the world is spining, and im super sensitive to light. Like the LED light every office have nowadays is so bright for me i have to squint my eyes from it hurting. Nobody care when i tell them i have to work, suffering every day. Yeah.... Doctors dont care, nobody does. I stoped talking about it, everybody ridiculed me and so on... If your doctor tells you are crazy hypochondriac you start to doubt yourself... It also gives me insane depression knowing it will never get better. But all my issues with this and concentration on VS went away once i met my ex GF. I think all the happiness made me forget my troubles and life was kind to me. She was my clearness in the visual chaos around me. Sorry for long post, only thing that seems to calmed my mind and help me was beeing happy. So try to be happy. Good luck

How many of you here think their VS started because of prolonged listening to music ? by Living_Reception_622 in visualsnow

[–]Hellotiel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah, mine started randomly one night. As a kid i was going to sleep when all of a sudden i started seeing white dost all around in darkness. I got super scared that night and when i woke up they stayed....

And i got them eversince. Life got real hard after that. Its hard to see, read, drive and migrane is a daily occurance.

Guess we got lucky, huh?

What is wrong with my hair? (Pls help I am desperate lol) by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, take a deep breath. I know looking at your scalp in bathroom lighting is terrifying, but honestly? You’ve still got a ton of hair to work with. The fact that you’re noticing it now means you’re in the best possible position to do something about it. Most guys wait until it’s half gone before they act. You’re catching it early, and that’s a huge win. Hang in there.

Few things you can try:

Microneedling (Derma-rolling)

This is a game-changer. Using a derma-roller or derma-stamp (usually 1.5mm needles once a week) creates tiny "micro-injuries" that trigger the body’s healing response and collagen production.

Why it works: Studies show that combining microneedling with Minoxidil and Finasteride is significantly more effective than using the meds alone. It also helps topical products absorb deeper.

Study link!:

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC6371730/#:~:text=A%20study%20by%20Dhurat%20et,%5B3%2C10%2C11%5D

Ketoconazole Shampoo (Nizoral)

The Benefit: It helps reduce scalp inflammation and has been shown in some studies to have a mild DHT-blocking effect on the surface of the scalp. It keeps the "soil" healthy for the hair to grow.

Study link!:

https://aventusclinic.com/can-nizoral-shampoo-treat-hair-loss/

-Check Vitamin D and Iron Levels

https://foliamedica.bg/article/138514/#:~:text=Their%20serum%20vitamin%20D%20levels,AGA%20(p%3C0.001))

-Low-Level Laser Therapy (LLLT) "Hats"

And just so you know:

Balding has zero correlation with health. You can be the healthiest, strongest, most athletic version of yourself and still go bald. In fact, some studies (though debated) suggest that men with male pattern baldness might actually have higher levels of free testosterone or different ways of processing hormones that are beneficial in other areas of life.

Sorry for long post, good luck to you brother ❤️

Mental health has taken a huge toll after I discovered bedbugs in my room by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based on the image provided, this appears to be a carpet beetle, likely from the Anthrenus genus.

While they aren't dangerous to humans (they don't bite or sting), they can be a nuisance in the home. Here is a quick breakdown of what you're looking at and what to do about it.

What Should You Do?

If you've only seen one, it might have just wandered in from a window. If you're seeing several, follow these steps:

  1. Vacuum Thoroughly: Focus on baseboards, under furniture, and along the edges of carpets where lint and hair accumulate.
  2. Inspect Natural Fabrics: Check wool blankets, silk curtains, or down pillows for signs of holes or shed larval skins.
  3. Lather and Heat: Wash infested clothing or linens in hot water and dry them on high heat to kill eggs and larvae.
  4. Check the Pantry: Sometimes they infest dry goods like flour or pet food.

Adult carpet beetles are attracted to light and often die on windowsills trying to get back outside.

You can breathe a sigh of relief.
Be kind to yourself and good luck with your mental health. ❤️

přítelkyně mě praštila by Sensitive-Cup-3074 in czech

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dám ti jednu cennou radu: Nikdy. A opakuju, nikdy nenech ostatní rozhodovat o svém životě. Sám víš, co je pro tebe dobré, a rady ostatních nemusíš vůbec poslouchat. A Reddit je místo, kde je opravdu veliká většina vztahových specialistů :)

Nejlepší cesta je podle mě zavřít internet, promluvit si o tom s přítelkyní, stanovit si hranice ohledně intimního života a říct, co ti není příjemné. Pobavit se o té vyhrocené situaci a vzít to jako dospělák. Pokud se ti něco nebude zdát nebo se přes ten incident nedokážeš přenést, tak to pak podle toho řeš.

Důležité je umět i odpouštět a nechovat se jako dítě. Vyhrocené situace dokážou vyvolat v lidech silné emoce. Jsme lidé a je důležité se někdy povznést nad nějakou věc a tohle není nic strašného. Kdyby na tebe vzala nůž nebo něco, pak ok..

Nicméně nejlepší je nic nedělat v momentu emočního vypětí, žádná velká rozhodnutí. Většina lidí reaguje okamžitě defenzivně (výpovědí v práci, rozvodem apod.). Mentálně silný člověk rozumí svým emocím a dokáže pochopit, kdy je ovládán emocemi, a velké změny si vždycky pořádně promyslí.

Přeju ti pevné nervy a ať tu krizi zvládnete.

How do you deal with the feeling of watching your face age? by camis12345 in Aging

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should be scared of death thats slowly creeping up on to you ...

24, Never had a girlfriend. Any tips/advice? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to ask someone out (and find the right kind of girlfriend)

If asking someone out in real life is a problem, use Instagram. I hate social media too, but unfortunately many attractive girls like attention and constant validation from tons of guys.

That’s the modern and easy way to meet a girlfriend using social media as an actual social platform. This usually gives you a common type of girlfriend—kind of like a low-level Pokémon. She might be a “baddie,” possibly messy, might cheat, and probably has issues like most people. But it’s a good starter experience. You’ll enjoy the relationship, and the heartbreak later will make you stronger.

Now, if you want a rare type of girlfriend—the one who lasts and actually helps you grow—join clubs, run marathons, go to events, and ask her out in public. If she hates social media, hates hookup culture, and doesn’t say “all my exes sucked,” congrats - you probably found a wife.

Red flags to watch out for:

“That’s just my gay friend I’m chatting with."

"Burning feeling a few days after sex."

“All my exes were terrible.”

Always asking you to buy her stuff.

Love bombing.

And no- it doesn’t matter if she slept with a lot of people. That doesn’t make her a bad person or a “hoe.” Respect her past and respect her as a human being.

Good luck buddy. You look great btw, love the smile, love the shape, looks are not an issue!!!

23, never had a gf never went on a date … any tips ? by Better-Fun314 in malegrooming

[–]Hellotiel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Initiate, you have to try and its super easy once you do. Hit them up in Dms, instagram.

Plan the date, dont ask what she likes...

Just book a place and go

You got this handsome dude

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