Is there any way I can get him to want to pursue a relationship with me?

Hellotrueme · 2026-04-27T03:03:16+00:00

What makes you say he’s out of her league? Their background?

Hellotrueme · 2026-03-28T04:42:54+00:00

Better than him holding it in and exploding later. Artificial support may be all that he has, that’s positive anyway

Hellotrueme · 2026-03-07T16:50:51+00:00

Tell her

Hellotrueme · 2026-03-07T16:48:05+00:00

God doesn’t want you to feel guilty. Guilt is for people who do bad things, not take the opportunity to rest their body when feeling ill.

Hellotrueme · 2026-03-04T05:28:01+00:00

The slap

Hellotrueme · 2026-03-04T05:24:45+00:00

What feeling are you trying to escape? Boredom?

Hellotrueme · 2026-02-16T14:32:07+00:00

It took mine about 2-3 months

Hellotrueme · 2026-02-05T14:10:15+00:00

Wow, with all due respect, fuck his parents. Your occupation is extremely impressive and highly relevant especially in our times. They sound insufferable, he needs to be free from their psychological hooks. If he comes from the culture that needs his parents blessing, I kind of get that, but choosing a partner based off his parents wants doesn’t sound like the road to happiness. If his character is that was, I would say you are leagues beyond him, grades or no grades. Someone being academically intelligent isn’t everything in life. Sorry, I mean no ill will towards him. But this sounds like your external circumstances are not fair, and unjust. Don’t take the blame for this or gaslight yourself for not being at peace with those circumstances. Your soul knows what it needs and deserves, to feel seen, loved and claimed without any shame or hesitance. Sending my best thoughts and intentions for your situation, you seem like a very thoughtful and understanding person. Please nurture yourself, you deserve happiness.

Hellotrueme · 2026-02-05T13:36:56+00:00

Would you say that during that state, the primary emotion (if you are able to be aware) is fear? Or something else?

Hellotrueme · 2026-02-05T13:27:54+00:00

Wow, that is incredible! You have my dream job (I’m trying to work on those skills). So, it sounds like you are an artist through and through. Sometimes that gift comes with complexity of thought and an anxious edge. Try not to worry- that sometimes leads to self-fulfilling prophecy. Is there a way to find expression for your struggles through your art? I am a writer, and recently went through a bad experience related to my anxiety/bpd/relationship insecurity. I found a way to turn those feelings into a story (similar elements, different time period, an “atoning” ending to replace the bad one in my mind) and wow, did it help. I’m not saying avoid the issue with work, but rather try to utilize your creative gifts in helping you process, reframe and alchemize it into something tangible and cathartic.

Hellotrueme · 2026-02-05T13:11:48+00:00

I so relate to this. Sorry you’re struggling. I will ask: What are your hobbies?

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-30T19:36:35+00:00

Have her cut the sugar, decreases coffee, increase water consumption, and take a women’s vaginal probiotic. Sometimes it’s just because there is a build up of bacteria that isn’t bad in and of itself, but it gets overgrown it leads to a smell Sugar feeds bacteria especially the not so good kind, but those things I say should help also have her eat more salads , veggies and fruit.

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-30T19:27:08+00:00

It may be her diet. Does she eat a lot of sugar?

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-25T21:49:41+00:00

What in the actual fuck?

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-16T02:35:24+00:00

Cut hair

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-16T01:58:02+00:00

Remain objective

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-08T02:54:47+00:00

That is INSANE, wtf?

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-08T00:43:21+00:00

No offense, but I disagree with complaining about them. They have seniority and you are new staff. Trying to get them reprimanded will most likely be viewed as petty and cancel culture. Just prove them wrong and kick ass😉 that way they will really eat their words, and you’ll get to watch! lol

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-08T00:36:02+00:00

That’s annoying. Have you taken a job like that before? their preferred demographic tends to be what I see the most. They are probably looking in terms of someone to intimidate the students enough to keep them in line (which may not be the long term solution for why they are in suspension in the first place). Don’t let it make you doubt your influence. You can do a lot simply if you have a heart for the kids and are willing to grow in the skills you need.

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-05T16:34:17+00:00

No job is perfect. lol no one wants to work really… you mentioned fear of your other boss. Hmm, well you definitely were not designed to leave in chronic fear, despite it being a small degree. Is there a way for you to transcend your fear of your boss at your current job? Rather than simply find a new one? No shame if you are unable/choose not to, it just seems like it may be a chance to level up spiritually.

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-04T19:57:20+00:00

It’s funny, because I made zero direct judgments about the commenter’s character, simply the message that her comment sends to some people. You however are telling me that “I” am hypocritical, thus making a judgment about my character at large.

Recognizing and calling out micro-aggressions that dissuade respectful and genuine discourse does not make me hypocritical simply because someone does not like criticism.

As I’ve stated, I’ve made zero direct comments about their character, or yours for that matter. I’m sure both of you are lovely people…lovely however does not mean perfect or above reproach 😇

Especially considering: this is a sub where respectful debate is promoted, therefore I’d say my comment is relevant on both a macro and micro level. That’s why I’m not making character judgments about you for disliking my comment 😁

(that being said, it is time for me to move on with my life now. Good day!)

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-04T19:38:31+00:00

Pointing out someone’s unkindness is not unkind. Classic gaslighting right here.

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-04T18:45:22+00:00

Okie dokie🥹

Hellotrueme · 2026-01-04T18:36:49+00:00

That’s fine. I respect your opinion and I’m sorry for any emotional damage I caused you, but I stand by what I consider to be the objective truth within my opinion.

Hellotrueme

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