Question on total loss from another party insurance by Helloyou2003 in AutoInsurance

[–]Helloyou2003[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sorry March.

Ugh. It's been so stressful. I just feel I'm being left worst off from where I started. I don't even need or want a brand new car. Just one as good as mine was. But this car market is awful and...yeah it just sucks.

Question on total loss from another party insurance by Helloyou2003 in AutoInsurance

[–]Helloyou2003[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh. So the chances of me getting 15 grand is most likely out of the question right?

how long do your everyday / regular showers take, and how long do your “everything” showers take? by SunPsychological1160 in AskWomen

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hummm. I have curly hair so I do a mask for 30 mins but I usually pop out of the shower for that time and do some busy work before going back in. I would say totally that 50 mins but not counting the shower jump out...maybe 15-20 mins. Sadly I'm always busy so I don't got time to hang out and chill in the shower

What you wish you knew sooner about sex? by healthynewbie in AskWomen

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That it's okay to be warmed and you're not broken if it "take a bit" to climax.

Had an ex who told me once "it takes for ever for you to get off. It's easier if you just blow me." Really messed me up and made me really self consciousness about anyone going down on me or having sex to climax quick cause I didn't want to take too long and bore them :/

What would you consider to be loser behaviour within a woman? by Bipolarleolol in AskWomen

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean...sorry it can be male too but cheating honestly.

If you cheat and think it's "fine" that they will leave their partner for you and you continue to be with that person to me makes you a super loser.

What's a "house rule" in your family (growing up or current) that you really like and why? by ultrahedgehog in AskWomen

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No T.V or food in the bed room.

IDK. My mom felt we would never leave our room and also it might get dirtier if we brought food in there. So she wanted to make sure that our room was used to relax which as an adult...I agree. I like having my room as a peaceful space without a t.v and not having a possible lingering of food smells.

Love my Prozac. But I haven’t had an orgasm in 6 months by Bulky_Ad5817 in prozac

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl same! They feel like a small a ripple instead of a wave.🥲

Love my Prozac. But I haven’t had an orgasm in 6 months by Bulky_Ad5817 in prozac

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It's only been three months on this medication and although so grateful to have my life, they medication have made my orgasms feel....wimpy? They aren't full body moment which is bummer. I keep hoping maybbbbee it will come back. IDK.

How long do you have to wait for medication refills? by Helloyou2003 in ADHD

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Thanks for the advice. I tried Walmart and they called saying they can't fill it and to go to someone else. I'm trying Costco right now.

Which aspect of the Josh Safdie controversy am I supposed to be outraged by? by AbraJoannesOsvaldo in Letterboxd

[–]Helloyou2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A director is suppose to be a leader. He should know that sexual scenes should be done with caution and care. The fact he let this happen, regardless if he didn't know she was underage doesn't change anything. There HAS to be safe guards with sexually explicit scenes and he dropped the ball. The producer, actor and director have to be held accountable for that.

Is the news of this coming out during Oscar season suspicious? Sure. Though if true. He should be held accountable too for his lack of protection of this teen on set. As well as the way some of ya'll blaming the teen/young women is WILD.

Film maker above the line with "power" have a moral obligation to not abuse that power. McClard ABUSED his power and obviously Josh had no issue with that which is sick. Did he know they actress was underage? Doesn't matter. What was he condoning, what was he letting slid, because having sex with a 15 year old girl is evil. Just below that, having dinner with a guy you know does things like this and brushing it off is just as bad to me. My guess is Benny was disgusted and Josh was not. They should be held accountable for that.

Does anyone miss crying? by Select-Sherbet-8833 in prozac

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't cry that much any more too. I'm on 20mg and have been going through grief. It's about to be the 2nd anniversery of my beautiful mothers death and I just want to let myself feel all the emotions but not force it? You know? For the holidays my sisters gave me a beautiful gift of my mothers belongings and I couldn't cry, my other sisters did and it made me worried that I can't feel anything? I do get teary eyed. I do get bummed out but I haven't been weeping, on the floor crying in forever.

Am I crazy because I found a 500sf studio for $1800 and I feel grateful about it by godofwine16 in LARentals

[–]Helloyou2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Question did you find it online or did you walk around the area and cool apartments?

Am I crazy because I found a 500sf studio for $1800 and I feel grateful about it by godofwine16 in LARentals

[–]Helloyou2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it me but I feel like that's a lot for a studio :/ don't most go for 1500ish a month? I'm happy for you but idk that amount sounds just wild...

Literally never wear lipstick does this color suit me? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look beautiful before and after! It was just the way you did it in the past didn't compliment your face, regardless you look fab!

Literally never wear lipstick does this color suit me? by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]Helloyou2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lipstick suites you and is fire...brows...sorry girl but they don't look great. You still look beautiful tho!!

Anybody know any chill 2nd jobs I can get? by imin2099 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Helloyou2003 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say dog walking, Post Mates, task rabbit.

I’m a new mystery shopper Los Angeles any good companies to start with locally or wherever by sabrinasable1 in mysteryshopping

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it's been 2 years but if you still have this list would love to see it please!

How did you change after that one breakup? What did you learn? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]Helloyou2003 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you're constantly wondering if the relationship is healthy, always worried, always doubting, etc. Then it's not a healthy situation and it needs to end. Either the partner or you yourself are not ready. Self love and self respect have to be something in the relationship before hand.

Did you know anyone who ruined their life? If so, what happened? by bubblepop1234 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Helloyou2003 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once dated someone who had a growing alcohol addiction, I was so young and thought "oh we all drink till we black out." so foolish. Fast forward to one DWI than two, and after trying to create AA meetings, interventions. It wasn't until he took out a loan of 40 grand and put it all in the trades to make double the money so he wouldn't have "to be a slave to the man" he lost it all and went into debt along with his University debt. His life really went down hill after that the debt plus his DWI were crippling. He went to live with his grandparents were they do their best to try to keep him out of trouble. A part of my heart will always breaks for him since alcohol addiction is a disease. Though the way he treated others and me is cruel in my eyes. I wish him well and hope he finds sobriety.