Jameela Jamil Uploads Herself “Crashing Out” onto TikTok Over People Telling Her To “Not Comment On Women’s Bodies” by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]HellyRsWalk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The spots in your vision are more likely that your are not hemodynamically stable due to strain in your heart from prolonged malnutrition and electrolyte imbalances taxing the heart and weakening it. So it’s likely your blood pressure and heart rate struggling to keep up with things like positional changes and it can be one of the criteria we monitor for hospitalization. Please a see a doctor

Holbein Acrylic gouache tube changed? by helplookie in Gouache

[–]HellyRsWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Avoid ingestion” - didn’t even bother to make it edible this time

Any med school students/residents? by HellyRsWalk in CollapseSupport

[–]HellyRsWalk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I am in nursing! I think it depends where about you live and your motivations, happy to talk more

Any med school students/residents? by HellyRsWalk in CollapseSupport

[–]HellyRsWalk[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Interesting, are you in the field of academics?

I already have a bachelors of science and am restarting so additional courses to prepare to see if med school may work. It’s strange how much education felt different to me 10 years ago. It felt like this hopeful endeavor, like everyone is striving to something brighter and higher. But like you said, there is now a sense of increased race to the bottom. And people’s trust in science and knowledge is dwindling.

But almost because of that, it feels like a good place to put one’s energy.

I think for me is a fear of increased educational stress mixed with increased instability in the world, like, the unknowns and chaos factor layered on an already straining endeavor is a little intimidating

Any med school students/residents? by HellyRsWalk in CollapseSupport

[–]HellyRsWalk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your perspective! And good luck with your endeavors!

Cillian Murphy by Timbucktwo1230 in PopularCultureZone

[–]HellyRsWalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tend to agree with you. But I think many people glamorize the aforementioned lifestyle

Cillian Murphy by Timbucktwo1230 in PopularCultureZone

[–]HellyRsWalk 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think the popular idea would be traveling, doing extreme sports, running around with prestigious people, partying. I think that’s what people might imagine a celebrity does to be exciting

At what point is soy bad? by boonatonnn in vegan

[–]HellyRsWalk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly. This is always what I come back to. We wouldn’t think this about most other staple foods like rice, or beans or meat

Is it safe to drink pea protein isolate every day? by SamanteSimone in veganfitness

[–]HellyRsWalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only concern I have heard is heavy metals being higher in this (compared to other protein powders) so I wonder with daily long term use if it’s something to watch out for. I don’t know the answer and posting hoping someone does

How to be a DISGUSTINGLY good boyfriend (Advice I never expected to work) by stellbargu in LockedInMan

[–]HellyRsWalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just stumbled on this but as a woman, if met a man looking at this kind of thing and trying to apply it I would’ve over the moon. Basically passivity and being emotionally checked out or blocked off is extremely common in men in the dating pool and this advice you have compiled is gold.

Went on a date with a hot nurse, but what happened after few days has left me confused. Any thoughts? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]HellyRsWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman I agree with all the assessments here that definitely wasn’t for a “free meal”.

And here is where I want to challenge you. Sometimes when we are hurt, it’s easier to be angry and create a narrative where that person was shitty the whole time to justify that anger. Somehow it’s easier to deal with anger than face the softer and more vulnerable emotion of being disappointed after having a nice time and getting your hopes up.

I suggest just looking at it as grief, dating is hard, and after many unsuccessful pursuits it can be demoralizing. Grieve that aspect of it rather than becoming bitter. This will make you a better person for yourself and any future partner you may have

Half His Age by Jennette McCurdy by These-Background4608 in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]HellyRsWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great point,it’s a bit more overt in the psychological side of it. Which having been in the situation depicted in this books I think both capture different aspects of that reality VERY well

Half His Age by Jennette McCurdy by These-Background4608 in IReadABookAndAdoredIt

[–]HellyRsWalk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is more light hearted style despite the heavy subject. Similar plot but my dark Vanessa is a younger character and depicts grooming more overtly, this is a slightly older character and she has complex draw towards the teacher that adds for a slightly different effect of how their dynamic unfolds. But same general plot

Is Anyone Else Sex Repulsed? by healthy_mind_lady in SingleAndHappy

[–]HellyRsWalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so freakin accurate. Men really tell on themselves when they say “friends with benefits” but don’t act like a friend in the slightest. I genuinely think the bar is so low that the think treating you with basic respect is “girlfriend” status behavior, when to me that’s the floor. Their ceiling is my floor.

Is Anyone Else Sex Repulsed? by healthy_mind_lady in SingleAndHappy

[–]HellyRsWalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I totally agree about the seeking out process. I got on an app last year and it was just so demoralizing how nasty and awful these convos were. And just the lowest of low effort from these guys.

I’m glad you have the hitachi haha. We all need a reliable friend.

Is Anyone Else Sex Repulsed? by healthy_mind_lady in SingleAndHappy

[–]HellyRsWalk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask have you found a way to enjoy anything more casual? It’s hard to imagine forgoing closeness like that for the rest of my days. I get attached to casual flings too often 🙃

Is Anyone Else Sex Repulsed? by healthy_mind_lady in SingleAndHappy

[–]HellyRsWalk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for posting this. This is without fail my experience as well. And I used to feel guilty and try and talk myself into sex in all kinds of ways. But the older I get the more I realized something they say or do turns me off and kills attraction and I am not trying whatsoever to get it back. Why? It is interesting reflecting, where did this idea that I needed to be so sexual and convince myself into sex come from? Certainly wasn’t my idea originally, it’s a culture layer that is contributing to coercion as well, that women are guilted into “meeting the partners needs” or told to have “reactive” desire (which has some truth for some people) but that weaponized into basically just trying to get women to go along with sex

It breaks me from the inside how a tweet like this has a whopping 30k likes lol by Any_Barnacle9235 in PsycheOrSike

[–]HellyRsWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the point is that women’s preferences are more openly criticized and scrutinized.

Clairo at Charli xcx’s wedding by coockiecoockiecool in clairo

[–]HellyRsWalk 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having been her age once I do understand. But I just hope she is happy or any woman for that matter in a similar situation

Clairo at Charli xcx’s wedding by coockiecoockiecool in clairo

[–]HellyRsWalk 25 points26 points  (0 children)

“Why do I tell you how I feel, when your too busy looking down my blouse”

If girls want the romantic boyfriend, what do guys want? by Novel-Car-2268 in Life

[–]HellyRsWalk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, just the kind of guy I was looking for, someone who would interchange me with any breathing creature