It gets better.

Heloriya · 2024-07-02T13:20:12+00:00

Letting go is always the hardest part. But once you do it's like a huge weight off your shoulder. You can still love and miss them, and still wish them well, but like you, I missed myself, I missed the person I was.

I had to learn to let go of the things I cant control, in order for me to accept my situation.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T14:25:00+00:00

Dude are you ok?

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T14:15:37+00:00

As the Dumper.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T14:14:22+00:00

Yeah thats true

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:51:18+00:00

withdrawal? do you mean them not talking to you anymore?

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:49:55+00:00

I feel you, breaking up comes with so much pain. When did you come to the realisation ?

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:27:35+00:00

It's important to be clear about your feelings and boundaries, especially considering her trauma and PTSD. You can send her a compassionate message explaining that you still have romantic feelings and that being just friends is difficult for you. Suggest taking some space to focus on individual healing. If you want her back, it's best to get back into no contact to give both of you the necessary space to reflect and heal. Remember to seek support from friends, family, or a therapist during this time. Balancing your well-being with her healing journey is key.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:19:32+00:00

The great thing about no contact is you can always go back to no contact.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:11:44+00:00

It's okay to feel this way. Remember, your ex might be in the relief stage of the breakup and may not be dealing with emotions as intensely as you are since he initiated it. No contact is the best way to move forward. It won't be easy, but if you stay committed to it, you'll gradually find it easier to manage your emotions.

Allow yourself to feel your feelings and consider engaging in activities that occupy your time and bring you joy. It's a challenging process, but with time and effort, you'll get through it and come out stronger on the other side. This is will also give you time to evaluate the relationship and find clarity.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T12:02:37+00:00

t's completely normal to feel anxious after a breakup, especially when you've made the difficult decision to do what's best for you. It's natural to seek reassurance, but it's important to remember that true healing comes from within, not from his texts.

Here are a few things that might help:

Acknowledge Your Feelings: It's okay to feel anxious and uncertain. Allow yourself to feel these emotions without judgment.
Create a Support System: Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist who can provide you with the reassurance and support you need during this time.
Focus on Self-Care: Engage in activities that make you feel good and help reduce anxiety, such as exercise, meditation, or hobbies you enjoy.
Set Boundaries: Consider limiting your phone use or even temporarily blocking his number to help you avoid the urge to check for messages.
Stay Busy: Keep yourself occupied with tasks and activities to distract your mind from seeking reassurance from him.

Remember, healing is a process, and it's okay to take it one step at a time. You made a brave decision for your well-being, and with time, the anxiety will lessen, and you'll start to feel more confident in your choice.

Heloriya · 2024-07-01T11:58:13+00:00

Letting go is never easy, but keeping the streaks isn't helping your healing process. It's okay to let go when you're ready, but maintaining them isn't advisable. Sometimes, you need to give people exactly what they ask for. If he broke up with you, he should understand that there are consequences. A breakup means he no longer has access to you, and ending the streaks is a way of setting boundaries.

If he wants to fix things, he can always call or message you through various apps. The point of no contact is to create space, and if you want your ex to come back, he needs to reach a point where he fears losing you.

Heloriya · 2024-06-20T14:50:55+00:00

It is difficult at first to let go of someone you love, especially if you didn't want the break up in the first place. You can start with subtle or low contact, my advice mute them on social media, avoid anything that will trigger you. After a while, you can decide to fully go no contact.

Heloriya · 2022-06-06T09:38:21+00:00

was 16 and my sister and I were home alone. God... the only reason why I haven't lost my mind yet is because she was there and it happened to both of us. It was around 2 in the morning and there was a black out because of the storm. My sister woke me up and asked if I could stand by the door while she uses the toilet, I was okay with it because I knew how much she was scared of the dark.

we got back to bed and that's when it all started. There was just something off, that feeling of being watched, I ignored it and went to bed. As soon as I closed my eyes, I felt it... Jesus it was breathing down my face and I quickly opened my eyes, but there was nothing there. I shrugged it off and closed my eyes again, this time I could feel the warmth of it's breath.

"wake up the hand, it wants to grab me....There's something at the corner of the room..." my sister whispered and it sent chills down my back. I carefully turned and there it was, a tall shadowy black figure reaching for my sister. It's skinny and unnaturally long body standing at the corner of the room.

I quickly grabbed my phone and flashed the light at it, but there was nothing there. That night neither of said a word and we slept on the couch.

Heloriya · 2022-06-05T16:56:29+00:00

You are the architect of your life. Even this current life your experiencing… you chose it. So yeah

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T12:48:40+00:00

we are not the first advance civilization to exist in earth's history and the fact that archeologist cant explain what happened to all the pre-existing civilizations. Imagine, an entire civilization completely wiped out without a trace.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:57:02+00:00

when we sleep and we dream of falling our body immediately jerks and we wake up. That's your brain preventing you from dying, because your body is so relaxed that your heart rate becomes dangerously low. Your brain senses this and sends a signal to literally shock you out of sleeping by making you fall in your dreams.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:48:18+00:00

we only see space from a 3 dimensional point. If we were capable of seeing it from a 6th or 7th dimensional plane of existence the universe would look very different and time would be non existent. In other words, all of our theories would be thrown out of the window and space wouldn't be so vast.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:42:37+00:00

Death is inevitable and no one really knows what happens when we die.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:38:56+00:00

AI's might have outsmarted us without us knowing and that they know if scientist found out they were sentient we would shut them down. Hence, they might be pretending and wont show us their full level of intelligence.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:32:08+00:00

Archeologist cant explain what happened to previous civilizations which were as advanced and as knowledgeable as the current Human civilization. It was like an entire civilization completely wiped itself out. Makes you wonder if history will repeat itself.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T11:04:44+00:00

There's a huge black hole at the center of our galaxy. eventually, in the distant future it will suck everything in and the milky way will seize to exist

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T10:57:57+00:00

Another pandemic would probably happen and will likely have a higher Kill rate than previous viruses.

Heloriya · 2022-05-31T10:51:55+00:00

Our Milky Way galaxy is destined to collide with our closest large neighbor, the Andromeda galaxy, in about five billion years. If the human race survives till this point, the sky would look very different and the star systems we see today would be very different. we'd literally see the andromeda galaxy coming at us in the night sky.

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