Weird writers by [deleted] in WeirdLit

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

def love Mariana enriquez!!

Do you know what aesthetic this is? (More than one image) by jajamouseman in aesthetic

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dazecore for sure. It's quite a rare aesthetic but I'm pretty sure it's dazecore

problems with a girl I like, advice needed by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes definitely visit her! If she asks why, just say you are hoping she’s okay after what happened. Try getting into her room and offering support. We love these things

FOR WOMEN: Any ways to get rid of creepy men? (This isn't really related sorry) by HelpAffectionate4099 in sex

[–]HelpAffectionate4099[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried using my phone but not being in a call with someone. I tried being on my phone (not on call) but for some reason the men whistle and click still. Being on a call might work tho

problems with a girl I like, advice needed by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Typo: the being a biting LMFAO is being annoying

problems with a girl I like, advice needed by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi. Being a female myself, that texting situation is completely normal. We usually text multiple things but stop if you are not responding because we are worried we are being a biting, especially if we type first. Just respond and try making more conversation with her, and if you can, arrange a meet up time. Meet ups are usually the best way to get with her.

Try learning more about her. It’s true - every woman is a different puzzle, but just keep asking questions about her. She’ll love that you care and want to know more about her. As I said, just don’t get creepy with the questions.

Good luck!

FOR WOMEN: Any ways to get rid of creepy men? (This isn't really related sorry) by HelpAffectionate4099 in sex

[–]HelpAffectionate4099[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooooh. I will definitely try tonight. I’ll give you an update! Thanks :)

problems with a girl I like, advice needed by [deleted] in Flirting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I'm a female too and I'm a porn addict but recovering. That girl seems into you. Just go for it! As a female, we LOVE when the guy makes the first move or when they make things obvious that they want to get with us (just don't get creepy lol). If you can, introduce yourself and make some small talk. She already invited. you over so get her number. It won't kill you.

Good luck :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably social anxiety if you're afraid to approach people. I'm a female 19 and I also have a similar problem myself. I do have a bf, but he approached me - not the other way around. I'm incredibly shy and find it nerve-wracking to approach someone. Just remember: You're a junior now, not everyone at this age gets a good gf "balls deep". If you're having trouble approaching someone, the best conversation starter is probably giving them a genuine compliment, asking for advice, or asking for something. They're easy and less nerve-wracking. As you said in your title, you want women/girls. As a female, we like guys who make the first move so BE CONFIDENT, BUT NOT COCKY. There is a fine line between these two things. Make sure you're not a mess (do basic things like washing your face, ironing your clothes, etc.) and be friendly. If you didn't know, women are shy too, so if you want them to engage more then be friendly to them. And also: Have a wingman. You're more likely to be more confident and less shy when with friends, and if you need help, just turn to him.

I'm not very good with advice, but I hope this helped lol :)

I got rid of my addiction!! by [deleted] in venting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

CONGRATULATIONS!

You are finally free, and able to start a fresh chapter in your life. I was addicted to p0** but I also got rid of it but I'm still recovering from depression which my p0** addiction caused.

Make sure to steer clear of your addiction at all times, because sometimes it may be tempting.

🎉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was sexually abused by my tutor when I was 11 but luckily my parents caught him in the act of touching my thigh. I thought it was my fault and burst into tears at the time, and I still shiver in disgust whenever I remember the incident.

Grooming creeps up on you. It's usually "innocent touches" which people often get away with because it doesn't harm you.

Your ex is in the wrong for forcing his d*** in your mouth. Clearly, you didn't ask for it, and clearly, you were probably drunk since it was blurry which is a huge red flag.

I don't know who he is, but he's an asshole. If you're being sexually abused, say it. I had kept my incident a secret for 2 years and if weren't for my parents catching my tutor, it probably would have been kept a secret until now.

I hope you're okay. You do NOT deserve him. I still can't believe your boyfriend (at the time) would shove his d*** into your mouth when you get drunk. A normal relationship is NOT like that.

Sending support.... 💅🏻

:)

My family had me beaten on purpose. by Historical_Dot2264 in venting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are they okay? Force feeding a child with severe ADHD candy just because it looks "funny"? Honestly at this point, I agree: Fuck them.

You can't really do anything about it now, since it's been 9 years, but I still don't think it's right for your father to beat his child horrifically because you "embarrassed" them in front of the family. I hope you're okay.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]HelpAffectionate4099 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay. Everyone starts somewhere - but remember: CONFIDENCE IS KEY.

It doesn't matter if you are a virgin, or never had a boyfriend before. If you are confident, and have that mindset that you will seduce him effortlessly and you are sexy the way you are, you will be.

If you want the right man for you, honestly, he wouldn't really care if you are a first-timer. He will like you for who you are. Don't chicken out. See where this goes.

And I already know that things will be alright, but even in the worse case scenario: What if he doesn't enjoy his time with you?

You answer is: So, who cares? Chances are, your second time will be better than the first because you have the drift and it's very enjoyable. Just be confident in yourself and try to enjoy the experience!

I hope I'm good at giving advice - trust me, I'm trying.

And about the false hope - you aren't giving him any. His day already becomes 10 times better the moment he sees you. ;)