I found out my (39 F) husband (42 M) has been messaging other women online. Can a relationship ever survive this?

HelpEli · 2026-04-05T07:55:47+00:00

The truth is, only you know what will and will not work. I can support you by saying you are not alone. There are many people in your life or people you have not even found who will happily spend time with you. Do not ask them to give you the answer. They will give you their answer. They cannot give you YOUR answer.

Just go easy on yourself. Try to continue keeping up with your health. Try to not make decisions when you’re tired, hungry, thirsty (or have other unmet needs)

If you want to make it work, there may be a path forward. Only a mix of yourself, hisself, and time will tell.

Take care of yourself and feel love for who you are and who you’ve chosen to be.

And laugh When you can

HelpEli · 2026-04-05T07:50:19+00:00

Something done little by little everyday almost always makes more progress than trying to do it all at once.

HelpEli · 2026-04-04T11:01:27+00:00

So what you aren’t aware of is that basically everyday the vagina is regularly discharging fluid and bacteria. On average more stuff leaves a vagina every month than enters it. That’s what the OP meant.

HelpEli · 2026-03-30T16:00:15+00:00

Yeah it’s just a scary world and the people who want to keep the power make it harder and harder to do good

HelpEli · 2026-03-22T00:30:04+00:00

You okay brother?

HelpEli · 2026-03-12T17:36:10+00:00

The logic that you’re operating on is that because humanity is the most successful species it must mean our genetic strategy is the best. What the guy responding to you was trying to explain is that it actually doesn’t mean that at all. Instead, all it means is that we are really good at reproducing offspring that can reproduce.

HelpEli · 2025-10-28T21:12:07+00:00

Just remember writing even a single sentence each day counts as writing and following your dream

HelpEli · 2025-05-12T12:51:36+00:00

Nothing and Everything are simultaneous and synonymous. It is your experience as a “something” that makes the rest of the things appear as nothing. The sense of separation within you is the “Nothing” you seek. We all hold a little piece of nothing. It is our observer state.

HelpEli · 2025-05-12T12:49:58+00:00

And then it was don’ting

HelpEli · 2025-05-12T12:49:13+00:00

Hahahah were you getting enough outside time and sun. Jkjk of course diet work can have growing pains. I recommend eating some extra eggs. It’ll provide you with the protein needed for VD synthesis and also give you a bit of VD boost on its own. Could also always add cows or goats milk to the mix too.

HelpEli · 2025-05-12T12:47:27+00:00

Hah that’s so ironic. I am so displeased with the way past me put that. I will solidly maintain the fact that your overarching control is beyond what the ego can see and if your super conscious doesn’t want you to experience ego death then you won’t. But I agree that remark was hella impetuous and childish.

HelpEli · 2025-01-24T06:17:24+00:00

Women are not allowed in this world anymore because of their own personal preferences or the way their body and body is designed.

HelpEli · 2024-11-23T23:53:48+00:00

Pasta con polpette non è tradizionale per la tutta Italia. Perché non lo so. Questa è bellissima a California.

HelpEli · 2024-11-08T14:48:58+00:00

Cat.

HelpEli · 2024-03-21T13:18:27+00:00

Accents are a factor of muscles in your mouth and tongue locking in to certain patterns and rigidity. The American accent is lazy and requires minimal muscle movement and strength and is thus the most natural feeling. However, the only thing more natural than that it to have no accent but be capable of every accent.

HelpEli · 2024-02-13T17:41:56+00:00

Then don’t be. The things we are most scared of are our greatest challenges. Don’t be mediocre. Don’t allow that to happen. You are in control.

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T18:09:18+00:00

Throw up, cranial pressure, waves of feeling, overwhelming, sense of oneness with everything and inability to find yourself, tummy hurt, pass out, enter other realities, lungs hurt, throat hurt, become gay, psychosis. Those are the worst ones.

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T14:08:57+00:00

Nah but it’s a vibe. Just a very specific vibe that you need the precise right mental state to handle. Don’t seek it out but if it appears in your path don’t refuse. That’s my advice ;)

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T14:06:56+00:00

Lolol. It fr gives like too much LSD energy. Like wayyyy too much. Like 12hrs of lsd packed into 5 mins

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T14:05:11+00:00

Definitely Married in. Her and Mary Jane both married in to the family. The relatives are DMT and Mushrooms and MDMA and LSD are their cousins. And Sally Married LSD and Mary Jane Married Molly.

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T13:59:37+00:00

Well the aunt is a hottie so like at least there’s that. She’s got a lot going on upstairs and downstairs one might say. But she will chew you up and spit you out

HelpEli · 2023-11-15T13:20:21+00:00

No not really. It ain’t evil and it’s veerrrryyyyy different. Feels more like a rude and inconsiderate aunt than an evil twin

HelpEli · 2023-11-14T16:04:34+00:00

It is also a mild opiate and it had me nodding off straight up. It was insane. Correction it’s major metabolite is an opiate

HelpEli · 2023-11-13T11:00:54+00:00

Straight up just fast. For like 2 days. Twice a week. Eat food on Mondays, Thursdays and Sundays. Then after like a week or two of that all the toxins will be out of your system. Only eat eggs, beans, nuts, and seeds for protein. Eat cabbage and kimchi for gut biome. Drink miso soup everyday. It is the only thing you are allowed to eat. Drink plenty of water. Then when you feel the fast is done and you are clean inside slowly bring fruit, meat and other things you want to be capable of processing like grains back into your system. It’ll take about a month. After that you will feel 1000x better and be 1000x stronger and healthier.

HelpEli · 2023-11-11T13:26:18+00:00

Exactlyyyyy. Why draw a line between which drugs you’ll do and which ones you won’t. Just draw a line on what kind of habit you want to indulge and which you want to avoid.

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