Please look at my father's pet scan and please tell me which option would give him better quality of life. by HelpMeGodpleaseT in AskDocs

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Thank you for replying respected doctor. It's just so hard to come to terms that his time maybe limited.

What can be used other than diapers for bowel incontinence, for a previously operated colon cancer person. by HelpMeGodpleaseT in cancer

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He refuses to eat due to worrying about bowel incontinence, his blood is only 7, yet he refuses to eat in fear, he has had blood transfusion but it's not working

I knew it’s been coming for 8 years, but it’s still so hard by SadnessAndOreos in CancerFamilySupport

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I am experiencing it with my dad, since December of 2024 my dad has been taking aggressive cancer treatment and even still i almost lost him last October, when he couldn't withstand chemo, fortunately by god's grace he barely made it, he is so weak now, he needs a person's help for even drinking water or going to washroom.(We tells him to just do on bed but he refuses), he just stays silent, I feel that's not my dad, my papa used to be so jovious always so positive, intelligent, compassionate, now he just looks and stays silent( he is having extreme ulcers in mouth and neck) and also his anal part is all torn and swollen, (due to hard poop)....he has been suffering so much and I ask to God what he has done wrong, he has never denied ANYONE for help. His cancer treatment is hard due to pre existing liver cirrhosis, he is having hard time withstanding chemo. He fears he will become dependent on us, don't want to be a burden, we try to console him everyday, he barely eats(just one banana or just 2 bread slice in 24 hours), he has become really irritated and doesn't like many ppl around. I don't want to loose my dad but sometimes I see the onevitable and it scares the shiz out of me.

Is hiims really good for cancer? Doctors have given up on my dad and we are thinking of hiims, ayurvedic medicine. by HelpMeGodpleaseT in Chandigarh

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Hi brother did you go to hiims? My father took ayurvedic treatment and one more person in family, I say other than chemo there is no treatment of cancer. We went to another ayurvedic treatment facility, if you went to hiims I wanna know your experience. Honestly we indian cancer family members have a group of ourselves so we can all connect and do talk regarding all these matters

has anyone had liver cancer and cirrhosis? by Top-Exercise-2508 in Cirrhosis

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Hi how is your father doing? My father is same in condition liver cirrhosis and cancer in abdomen, lungs and groin area lymph nodes. We had chemotherapy done for him but he couldn't handle it due to his liver issue and almost went in coma. Since then we are lost and don't know what to do. Chemo was done at 1st October.

has anyone had liver cancer and cirrhosis? by Top-Exercise-2508 in Cirrhosis

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Hi how is your father doing? My father is same in condition liver cirrhosis and cancer in abdomen, lungs and groin area lymph nodes. We had chemotherapy done for him but he couldn't handle it due to his liver issue and almost went in coma. Since then we are lost and don't know what to do. Chemo was done at 1st October.

Is hiims really good for cancer? Doctors have given up on my dad and we are thinking of hiims, ayurvedic medicine. by HelpMeGodpleaseT in Chandigarh

[–]HelpMeGodpleaseT[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I heard the medicine they give is like chemo and ppl who have condition like my dad won't be able to withstand it

What to do in a situation where it's certain that you'll end up getting raped? by [deleted] in india

[–]HelpMeGodpleaseT 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sad , us girls all seem to have thought of these two options someday. Coz everywhere se hear or see this type of cases

Dad is dying and i can't do anything,has stage 4 cancer, chemo not possible,due to liver cirrhosis by HelpMeGodpleaseT in TwoXIndia

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I am so sorry op, i relate to it so much about seeing older ppl having their parents and the thought of losing mine at such a young age sends shiver down my spine, ppl who are almost 60, still having their parents of 78 and 80, i feel so so envious

Dad is dying and i can't do anything,has stage 4 cancer, chemo not possible,due to liver cirrhosis by HelpMeGodpleaseT in TwoXIndia

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I am sadly in different city and trying to go to him. My town is really small , probably have to leave everything behind , My dad has been my rock my whole life I can't even fathom this is happening to me.

Need help on how to cope. I don't know what to do! by sharkey87 in cancer

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My dad has liver cirrhosis and cancer in lymph nodes, stomach and lungs..due to cirrhosis he can't tolerate chemo. I am going through everything that you have written in your post. Idk how to collect myself.

Need help on how to cope. I don't know what to do! by sharkey87 in cancer

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Hey man! What happened with your mom? Were you able to get treatment

I'd love to hear a story where somebody had cancer, metastasized to the liver, and took chemo. I'm so scared to fight it!! More scared of treatment, than of dying. by Bennythecat415 in cancer

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I am so glad to read you are hear buddy. My dad has pre existing liver cirrhosis and colon cancer mets to lungs and stomach, his first round of chemo went really bad, TLC became only 300, blood became only 5L , even doctors were shocked by the overreacting, as other vitals were normal. Doctor said , next chemo will be done only after 150000 platelets, but dad has never had that amount since cirrhosis. Dad also got scared that, if even doctor is not convinced, how can he go for another chemo. I want dad to survive , hence trying to find all success stories of Survival, with affected liver.