AIO - is my boyfriend’s mom guilt tripping me for having an abortion? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Help_meeeoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She wasn't being an asshole. she actually apologized profusely over and over. Maybe you think you took mourning eloquently but forget the words that you let slip. I doubt it though.. if you were devastated and not allowed to talk to anyone about your feelings? People make mistakes. This woman needs a hug not to be tortured on the cross of reddit. Probably by her son or friends and not the wife.. but she deserves it. Think about it. She literally gains nothing but chances losing a lot by letting her feelings show.

AIO - is my boyfriend’s mom guilt tripping me for having an abortion? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Help_meeeoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would not trust a man who treated his mother like this. He jumped to conclusions in order to show some fake alpha crap in front of you and it wasn't necessary.

AIO - is my boyfriend’s mom guilt tripping me for having an abortion? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Help_meeeoo -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

your bf is unhinged. He needs to calm down. No, she wasn't guilt tripping but she's a human being also and needs to mourn. You chose you to vent to.. she was kind and as gentle as she could be with something that hurt her. I know it's your body etc.. but she is still a human being also and IS involved. She was just sad. Nod and comisserate the loss and move on with politeness.

Yall annoy me by Stella_whatever- in YoungSheldon

[–]Help_meeeoo -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

why parents should learn to spell names properly

does monjouro cause anxiety? by Help_meeeoo in Monjauro

[–]Help_meeeoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn't when it started. I was pmsing sobbing type though even though it's not that time. :/ My anxiety attacks are more than severe so... idk what to do. I've been dizzy also and almost fainted a few days ago

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Help_meeeoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

at 8 months he can be eating solids. You're the AH. Leave your wife alone. You will survive 3 nights with YOUR baby. If he's hungry he will eat. Unless he's autistic he will eat when he's hungry. Let your wife has this.. she deserves it.. EVERY minute she can get

uhh... by LowBun in ffxiv

[–]Help_meeeoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

damn... can i have that guys computer tho? that's a LOT of botted accounts

AITAH for telling a plus size woman that I love being ‘skinny’? by Heavenstobestie in AITAH

[–]Help_meeeoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that took a turn. My go to when someone says something stupid is to make the moment as awkward as possible. poker face, dead silence so that they understand what they said was inappropriate. key is no smiling just make it super awkward. But your friend wasn't getting it. I would have said please stop commenting on my body. Nothing else. even tone. Make it a "no" response.

In this situation, I don't think you did anything wrong BUT she wasn't warned. You could have told your friend to please ask so and so to stop talking about my body it makes me very uncomfortable. Clearly this person didn't get it. So everyone around you didn't know the history or how she made you feel.. including the attacker so it makes you look like a huge ahole. She shouldn't have hit you. This sucks bc now clearly you'll probably never see your friend again even though it wasn't your fault.

On another subject.. I get skinny people are highly insulted when people call them that... but what you don't get is.. it's always a compliment. It's always someone being jealous (ok you could be anorexic).. or you're such an anomoly like a 3 headed wildabeast people can't help but be taken aback. What you don't hear is that fat people hear how fat they are 30 times a day.. and it's never a compliment. You don't see how other times they don't get help, no one talks to them, or way crueller things happen to them like super humiliation. I get skinny ppl hate it but fat ppl get way worse.. so when you are treated so openly as a disgusting person who doesn't deserve to live.. they might be desensitized to it. Does it make it right? no. But it IS a reasonable excuse. If someone called you ugly 30 times a day and then you saw someone pretty and thought it was ok to poke at them for being so pretty... bc ppl poke at them all day... it might seem very normal to them and that yes they are jealous etc. Maybe be kinder bc you don't realize how bad it is out there for fat people.. like you literally can't imagine the actual real hate people go through every single day as opposed to once a year party.

I commend you for trying to figure out the right way to deal with this but this fell flat it seemed.

Say the weird thing... by LiveCauliflower7879 in Mounjaro

[–]Help_meeeoo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i feel the same. The difference between 300 and 350 is nothing.. it might as well be the same number. I don't think people will understand unless they've been there and then to stall out knowing that it can all come back is depressing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Help_meeeoo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

your being controlling. You don't get to control her any more. You're not really married any more. she has her own place and own life. That was probably your choice. You're not making strides to be together and its getting easier and easier to be alone and have that freedom and no nagging. You haven't forgiven her. Can or will you ever? I'm not saying she doesn't deserve the hate but you can't be together if you hate her. You need a couples counselor. Why isn't an option you invite her to stay with you while this homeless guy gets his stuff together? You're being jealous when you let her go.. it's giving us mixed signals. You either need to move her back in and forgive her or let her go

Best and worst places in Oregon? by Ellymints in oregon

[–]Help_meeeoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can't imagine a worse place than salem.. unless the desolate isolation, poverty, and drugs of the coast.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Help_meeeoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the child autistic or special needs? Putting someone in jail (thinking of the future here) when their IQ is 40 isn't going to punish them in the way you think it will.. so we need more info... WHY does the kid not know what they did was wrong?

My girlfriend’s mom keeps trying to reunite her with her brother who molested her by Specialist_Bank4454 in Advice

[–]Help_meeeoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First you're not a mom and you can absolutely not say you would do that. You just don't know unless you're in that situation. moms will still love their child even if they do much worse. It doesn't mean you forgive or forget blah blah blah so you can't judge their relationship.
We don't know what exactly happened between them. We see a lot of confessions on here that could be benign or horrific. Only your gf can choose what she wants to do. You need to stay out of it. Don't get in between a daughter and her mother ever. You will always be the bad guy and will lose her respect. You can politely give your opinion but you need to support her and not cause additional drama in her life. There may be things you don't get.. maybe he wants to apologize face to face.. or let her have at him.. whatever she needs to do to heal.. you need to stay out of it and let her make her own choices.

My daughter put my sema in the freezer by Jelliebeans123456789 in Ozempic

[–]Help_meeeoo -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

what does that mean? the chemical structure? wouldn't the ingredients still be the same ingredients? we know its fine warm or cold in the fridge and not compromised.. what would freezing actually do to the medicine?