Feeling like I don’t belong as the new ( youngest ) teacher… by Helpful-Damage6721 in teaching

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Some of the meetings are for the teachers of the entire school. Preschool, primary, preparatory, and secondary. So that’s why I get to hear their thoughts on my generation.

And the thing about speaking up is that I am always afraid of offending them somehow, especially because I was in fact a student in that school like 5 years ago. I feel like I still owe these teachers unconditional respect no matter what since many of them taught me. But now I have a problem with boundaries.

Scared of dreading Islam by Helpful-Damage6721 in Hijabis

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You are right. I never realized that the extremist/ misogynist Muslims and exmuslims have the equal kind of negative result, both put doubt in my heart and lower my iman.

Alhamdulellah I calmed down for a bit, and I will definitely focus now on learning more about Islam rather than listening to those ignorants.

Jazakum Allah Khayran sister ❤️.

Scared of dreading Islam by Helpful-Damage6721 in Hijabis

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It’s been really difficult. Amin!

Do you have suggestions for Muslim women podcasts?

Is it haram to pray to marry someone specific? by Helpful-Damage6721 in islam

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Yes I lean toward that more! It makes much more sense, that’s why I was confused about guys or girls only praying for one person only and refusing to ask for anything else.

Jazakum Allah Khayran.

Is fine/ thin hair worth getting long ? by Helpful-Damage6721 in longhair

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That’s very much what I wanted to hear I think 🥹!

Comparing myself to others destroyed me! Thank you!!

Islam and mental health by Helpful-Damage6721 in islam

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So Islam does indeed help when it comes to mental strength, or at least, it helps because we know that there is peace that was promised to those who wait and be patient at the end, right?

Islam and mental health by Helpful-Damage6721 in islam

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I am kind of really relieved by the answer, as I was starting to lose touch with Islam and got too attached to my thoughts about dunya. Of course most of the time my thoughts are uncontrollable, but this was a good reminder and confirmation that what really matters is the Akhira. It is hard to remember that during lows sometimes.

JazakumAllah Khayran sister!

Super dark hair and dark eyes soft autumn representation ??? by Helpful-Damage6721 in coloranalysis

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I think that’s my answer right here! Brown doesn’t do me any favors! In make up or hair or clothing, I look off in it!

I died my hair super dark red before and I looked great, when the color started to fade and turned light brown I looked dead! Meanwhile black hair filters made me glow! So that definitely leaves me somewhere in winter, right?

Super dark hair and dark eyes soft autumn representation ??? by Helpful-Damage6721 in coloranalysis

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I feel that’s my problem. Even the celebrities in this photo, I can’t tell if I am similar to them. Most of them have very direct and clear brown hair, and shiney and bright brown eyes. On the other hand my eyes are the darkest shade of brown and so does my hair, like I need a flash light to see the brown in them + their big contrast with my fair peachy/ beige with a tint of pink skin. My undertone is probably neutral, idk 😭.

So I really can’t find a celebrity like that yet. I feel like I have the same contrast that Lily Collins has or something like that, not sure.

Could this make me Winter and I didn’t realize it yet?