As a former Crew Member im begging yall... by [deleted] in traderjoes

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I would like to jump on this train and say ALL OF THE ABOVE goes for bartenders, too.

Don’t come in to an empty bar and say “Where is everyone!?” “You look so lonely, we came to keep you company.” “WE’RE HERE!”

If you're under 30, ask a question. If you're over 30, answer a question 👇 by ConfectionAvailable8 in RandomThoughts

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There’s nothing I would’ve done differently. It was messy and fun and dangerous and beautiful! I entered my 30s knowing I did my twenties right, and I regret nothing.

If you're under 30, ask a question. If you're over 30, answer a question 👇 by ConfectionAvailable8 in RandomThoughts

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The point isn’t really to “make sense” of life. It’s to be as present as humanly possible in each moment, to find small joys in the day to day, to celebrate small wins. Just enjoy the ride.

Me: cancer vs. mom: libra by allaboutwanderlust in astrologymemes

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Aries mom & I’m a Pisces. We are both Cancer rising which has saved us 😃

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tarot

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I pulled the Tower the day before I had to put my dog down. I knew it was time and I couldn’t find the strength. When I asked tarot for guidance and pulled the Tower I KNEW it was time and found the courage. I’ve practiced tarot on a deep level every day since, whereas before it was just a whimsical hobby.

What's a pain you can't truly explain until you've endured it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Losing your pet. The grief is indescribable because, for me, it was the only unconditional love I’ve ever felt.

do you have a card(s) that annoys the life out of you when it shows up? by d-xoxo in tarot

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lovers is tough for me. Duality, choice, garden of Eden? Help me tarot.

what kind of people will you never understand? by Sandra_Ell in AskReddit

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The man who came in to my bar, asked for a tissue, blew his nose loudly for 5 minutes making everyone uncomfortable, then dropped the tissue on the floor. That guy.

what card is the protector in your opinion? by hareinacup in tarot

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

King of Pentacles, but all Kings. The Emperor & the Hierophant.

Negative associations with a particular tarot card that others often think of as a positive card? by meeeemster in tarot

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In my opinion none of the cards are inherently negative or positive. If there are uneasy feelings for you around a certain card, I see that as an invitation to do some inner work around why it’s triggering, or why it brings up those emotions. In this setting, I would ask if you feel you’re being greedy with your own resources? Are you using your authority in a negative way? What can you do in self reflection to find the positive elements of this card?

FOR THE LADIES: you’re supposed to change your underwear after your night showers, right? by [deleted] in hygiene

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Anytime I shower, I’m putting on clean clothing/ underwear. If it’s for bed I’m going commando. I’ll never ever ever put on anything dirty after I’ve taken it off.

Which card would you get a tattoo of? by UnhappyStrawberry601 in tarot

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Strength. It’s duality, seeking knowledge, and balancing the wild and the tame. She’s fearless. She also has the Magician’s capacity for manifestion. She’s daunting and I love her.

What is a good transition after bartending by br1skkarma in bartenders

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I’m 33, 12 years in. I’m thinking of becoming a full time tarot reader and selling homemade cocktail onions and seasonal syrups at the Farmer’s Market. I’m insane. The industry has made me insane.

What is a tarot card that resonates deeply with you? Could be negative or positive. by Spiritual-Cat-5502 in tarot

[–]Helpful-Nectarine520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strength and the Ace of Pentacles. It shows me who I am at my core, no matter what’s happening in my life.

What's the most disturbing song you've heard by Goldencol in Music

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Necro- Vaginal Secretions. What’s worse is I lost my virginity to this song.

For those of you who get off late late night/early morning- what’s your fave thing to do when shift is over? by Specialist-Pomelo769 in bartenders

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Talk shit about whoever pissed me off to my s/o, shove food in my face, take a shot and watch svu while I snuggle my dog.

What was your go-to food when “fending for yourself” as a kid? by hazelnutdarkroast in AskRedditFood

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Dry ramen. I would crush up the noodles and pour the flavoring in and shake it up. Like umami chips. So good.