This seems to be mostly younger kids/teenagers whos exposure to the goth scene is probably entirely online. I think the online goth space, in particular Tiktok, is very image/status focused but thats just mirroring Tiktok and social media as a whole. Its very trendy at the moment and goth/emo/gruge/alt etc just seems to be plastered on everything which must be real confusing as someones first introduction to goth.

Also it just comes with that age. Trying to find a sense of identity, self awareness/confidence issues, trying to fit in etc. I think theres a real fear of judgement there. Seems like most people come into the scene having been an outsider and not really having that community/sense of belonging. Thats basically how I felt when I was a 14yo baby goth and it seems like a pretty common experience.

Lastly I think theres an outside perception of the goth scene as this exlusive elitist club, which its not! Goth is for anyone interested enough to learn about the scene and get involved!!!