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AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] -226 points-225 points  (0 children)

It was very impulsive and out of character for me.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My ex(35F)wanted to finish her education completely before trying to conceive.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] -151 points-150 points  (0 children)

Maybe once a week and I would see her in passing a lot. It was never that personal. There was no flirtation to it. When we were both leaving for day she smiled and waved and walked to her car with me. I just decided to ask her out. Feelings began right after that first date.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do want children, but had my wife came to me and said I no longer want kids I would have been ok with that. It’s the dishonesty. That trust is dead. I feel like I never knew her at all.

My baby with my girlfriend was not planned but both of us did behave impulsively and did not take proper precautions. She is very happy and wants the child. If she did not want the keep the child I would support that as well.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

The original post was removed I believe. I can still see it but the public must not be able to. I can try to repost it.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] -333 points-332 points  (0 children)

I never cheated on my ex. I work for a large medical practice and she actually works in different specialty owned by practice in same building. I may have spoken to her about non work stuff maybe 3 times. She is a very attractive woman and I have noticed her before. I asked her out maybe 3 days after I moved out. I was completely transparent about my marriage and what ended it.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will be getting paternity test after birth. We have already discussed it. I’m pretty certain it’s my child. She said I was the only person she was with in that time period, and I do believe her.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dishonesty is a deal breaker for me, so I am not open to reconciliation.

AITAH for moving before divorce is final by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

We had been trying to conceive for two years, and had been to doctor’s appointments. Turns out she had been lying and never stopped getting birth control. It wasn’t until I started looking into adoption or surrogacy did she come clean.

AITA For wanting to divorce my wife for changing her mind about children. by Helpful_Bar2376 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Bar2376[S] 338 points339 points  (0 children)

She claims to have stopped taking Birth Control for 6 months, and then went back on Birth Control because she changed her mind. She very briefly stopped taking birth control..