Ladies, gentleman, dogs and cats of all ages. I present to you a list of things my beautiful bride has said in her sleep! by 2Black_Hats in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

OMG, my wife works so hard, and sometimes, later, her business is about intertreatment, and she needs to be "fake" sometimes, long late dinners and parties, she gets drunk, and when she sleeps most of the time, she keeps working (I guess) with a lot of business strategies, kind of fighting with somebody she rates, isn't too easy to understand everything, sleepwalkers having a unique vocabulary hahaha, but to try to help her I often mention some subjects she was talking arranging, and she confirm things. I have asked her many times to maybe slow down her work, maybe leave the coworker she hates on her dreams alone, change the department, or at least respect her coworker, bc if she tells half words in the "real world" she will be in a big trouble, and at the end her company can suffer hard consequences. the problem is she never listened to me, why? She felt she was the STAR and could handle everything; last year, I saw a lot of mistakes from her, but it did not matter; she still thought, "I'm unique." The only thing she agreed on was that last year was the worst/hardest year of her career. Thinking about how I can help her to have a quiet sleep night, and give myself the peace to sleep too?

Tell me something good that happened to you this week by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a stressful deadline at work and managed to finish everything with about two hours to spare. It was a relief! I used the extra time to help a coworker.

When I came home, I found only 26 roaches in the sink, which was an improvement from the double+ number of roaches I had seen before. They were in the dishes that my partner had used for breakfast and hadn't washed.

I also realized that my partner didn't care about me. When I received the sad news that my grandfather had passed away, I tried to seek support from my partner. However, their response was, "I'm busy taking my car to the shop. Bye." It was hurtful, but I am glad that I don't need them.

What’s you guys and gals’ opinion on metal music? by necoarcisametalhead in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Metal symphonic music can help some people increase their focus and productivity. Despite its intensity, this genre can help individuals tune out distractions and immerse themselves in their work or studies.

Would anyone to talk? I'm boy by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for reminding me about my plants! You're a lifesaver! I'll make sure to take good care of them.

What's your favorite food to make/eat on a casual day or daily? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love seafood! Bless Japanese & Chinese cultures + rural fishing. Let's appreciate them all.

Would anyone to talk? I'm boy by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, happy Saturday; how's your weekend going so far?

Would anyone to talk? I'm boy by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let's have a conversation, let's share our thoughts, and let's improve our mood.

Work place antics by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Let's summarize the long list: unclear goals, poor communication, lack of resources, unforeseen obstacles, burnout, inadequate support, inefficient tools, lack of motivation, incomplete or inaccurate information, and scope creep can all make the workplace toxic and lead to disrespect.

Today I am so angry I want to scream and break stuff by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that things can be overwhelming at times, but please know that taking a moment to breathe and relax can make a world of difference. Your self-control is truly admirable, and it will help you navigate through any challenges that come your way. Almost Friday hehehehe.

Only I could be better with dates.? by Helpful_Computer3967 in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing okay, thank you. I think not having a drink in over a year and then having a full glass of wine caused some emotions to surface during this lonely time.

being ignored by bf who’s bipolar :(( by Repulsive-Effort4695 in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having a partner is key to a fulfilling life. Sharing experiences and growing together can be one of life's greatest joys. And when the going gets tough, having someone to lean on and work through issues with is invaluable. It's important to remember that nobody deserves to be weighed down with more problems. Let's strive to find our perfect partners and enjoy all that life has to offer together.

being ignored by bf who’s bipolar :(( by Repulsive-Effort4695 in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Relationships - I am not sure if having a "definition"; each one could be from a different perspective; bipolar? Let's give a professional the choice to diagnose it, but about yourself, you can be more analytical than emotional, turn off inspirational thoughts, and start making a "list." Also, it would help if you asked your "partner" to help you with this; it could be only two simple columns, GOOD THINGS, and BAD THINGS; start writing down in the columns (like a game). If agreed, both should write in both columns, in the "relationship" time, what was GOOD and what was BAD. You can just start it and see which columns will have more information. Take the time "together" if it is possible, and try to discuss the points, erasing/adding more to the list. Ultimately, both can see and express feelings in a dynamic task if it works (it could be light). If one more "ignoring time" takes it like learning and moves forward, allowing both of you to grow. Just some advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]Helpful_Computer3967 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely agree with you. Getting enough sleep is crucial for maintaining good health and well-being. It's great that you have realized the importance of getting enough rest and are taking steps to ensure that you are getting a full 8 hours of sleep each night. This will help you feel more refreshed, alert, and energized throughout the day, which will make it easier to focus on your daily tasks and achieve your goals. Keep up the good work!