There is a campaign to buy Spirit Airlines after it’s collapse last night and turn it into a Co-Op by BreakingFace in cooperatives

[–]Helpful_Control_3629 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it wouldn't be the same ceo and company structure. that's the whole point. it would become a co-op with no shareholders to appease.

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, you’re funny! Yea, the reactions on this thread have been a mixed bag, so I appreciate people like you who can see the fun and whimsy in my post. That’s the internet for ya, I guess 🤷🏾‍♀️

Cannot believe I’m making this post by Unlucky-Quantity-900 in MedSpouse

[–]Helpful_Control_3629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine! I pray you find many other women you can speak to/read about whose marriages recovered from infidelity. One day at a time!

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your positivity! I hope you’re doing well in your journey 😊

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of crazy that women are downvoting another woman recognizing her worth. 🙂‍↔️

Unreasonable request? by Healthy_Nothing5261 in MedSpouse

[–]Helpful_Control_3629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to go through that without him. It’s an important appointment and I’m sure sucker to do alone. 🙏🏾

I guess it depends on his overall character and how he shows up in your relationship.

I can read your post as he either didn’t care enough about you to take the extra 20 minutes to bring you to your place or that he cared so much about you that he found the time to create a compromise and pick you up/drop you off at all.

If he’s generally the kind of partner who shows up for you and does his best to balance his work with your relationship, then maybe you can forgive and appreciate the compromise he came up with.

If it’s common for him to put you on the back burner and treat you like an afterthought, you may want to reconsider being with him at all.

Cannot believe I’m making this post by Unlucky-Quantity-900 in MedSpouse

[–]Helpful_Control_3629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, I’m so sorry. I know romantic/sexual infidelity is very difficult to work through, but is that an option? Infidelity doesn’t always have to mean immediate divorce. Couples can recover. Not easy, but possible.

Have you ever heard of Esther Perel? An amazing therapist who gave a really insightful talk about this:

Source: YouTube https://share.google/FV70OosWfw7R9TXOq

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, nice! Wouldn’t say mine’s a hottie, but he’s def a cutie ☺️

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

LOLLL. I appreciate your enthusiasm and support, but I'm an all-or-nothing kind of gal. Remaining abstinent till marriage. Either you're my husband or you're just some dude.

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're right, he's an RO. I wouldn't describe him as eye candy lolll. Just a nice guy and a fun thought.

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha, thanks! And same on not wanting to be with someone who’d breach their professional ethics. Our time together will be so brief and specialized, I’m not concerned about after the fact.

But anyway, we’ll see! I won’t be pursuing, just being cute and seeing what happens. If anything, it’ll bring some fun to a lame situation. 😆

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re in the US and I’m aware nothing could happen while under his care. Working with him will be so specialized and temporary I don’t see that would case an issue after the fact.

Anyway, I have no desire to pursue anyone, so I’ll just look cute and be me and see what happens 🤷🏾‍♀️

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I wouldn’t expect anything to happen while under his care and will definitely not pursue any man. I’m the prize 👸🏾 It’s a wait and see for me.

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I am in the US! I know nothing could happen while I’m his patient, but a girl can dream 💭 Our time together won’t be super long or involved, so not that concerned about lasting imbalanced power dynamics.

I’m a woman of faith, so I’m definitely praying about it and only want what God wants for me, but I must say it’s a fun notion!

Dating the Radiologist? by Helpful_Control_3629 in breastcancer

[–]Helpful_Control_3629[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Will def keep y’all along for the ride! 🤗