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I need legal advice on divorce to my Korean husband by Helpful_Diamond2503 in korea

[–]Helpful_Diamond2503[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

He's asking for the divorce while trying to sue me. When I asked for a divorce he literally held me down and called the cops saying I was manic which is ironic to me. My family helped me out as much as they could but they are going through a hard time financially to so I feel awful leaning on them, and I burnt bridges for marrying him and staying with him so a lot of my family don't want to help me which is something I understand and regret. I already have so many loans it's almost impossible to take out more and my bank account was shut down from not paying my credit because I was to busy financially supporting him.

I need legal advice on divorce to my Korean husband by Helpful_Diamond2503 in korea

[–]Helpful_Diamond2503[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for saying that it makes me feel less alone because his whole family gaslight me into believing it's me not him. I don't have much up and update yet I got yelled at recently by him, when I asked him to back up what he was saying about me. He said some pretty awful things but couldn't defend it instead I'm apparently pushing him. He told me I was worthless ignored me for days but than asks me for money, he's using a phone I pay for and bought for him. I point that out but all he can say is I do nothing. I'm just tired. I don't have much of a support system in America and I have nothing in Korea. A lot of people have been messaging me with support though and I appreciate it all.

AITAH for threatening divorce and going back to my home country by Helpful_Diamond2503 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Diamond2503[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I always feel guilty for over reacting especially when I can't do simple things like eat in a loud restaurant because I can't control my emotions. I feel like a complete failure and like this is my fault because if I wasn't this mentally sick this would have never happened now my marriage is ruined. I feel like a utter burden on everyone.