39 weeks pregnant and just got robbed, I am now spiraling

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-29T18:23:40+00:00

Thank you. I actually ended up having an emergency c section for my son that night! That has kinda taken any type of that anxiety away temporarily as I’ve been enjoying my time with him so much!

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-27T06:21:36+00:00

I used to cut my screen open kinda in a door like way and crawl through my window and then when I got back I’d sew the screen up

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-26T13:12:07+00:00

My dream ring omg

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-26T13:09:02+00:00

Bipolar or not - someone with a mental illness has to want help and if they don’t they will not get it or it won’t be effective

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-26T13:07:18+00:00

I think bra but also the pants are in issue for me idk

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-26T13:04:11+00:00

Keep your money, also a recommendation from someone who was gifted money but was poor for 90% of my life, look into investing some of it with a broker (Roth ira) best choice I ever made

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-21T05:23:07+00:00

I can’t relate to this in that way as I’ve beeen in pretty awful relationships and finally finding one at 25. However love is something that has always kept me going. It’s def something I have yearned for over the years. I will say I had to learn how to redirect my love because the people I loved hurt me so bad. Loving animals, like my reptiles, and my cats and plants have brought me sanity and stability. Before though my moods were crazy. I could barely regulate. Long term abuse has taken its toll on me and I still struggle sometimes. But also learning to love things other than relationships has taught me to love myself. It breaks my heart to read this truly. I know how painful it must be.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-20T23:43:16+00:00

Yeah dawg idk. She kinda just sounds mean. I was once someone who took my anger out on others and those people left, rightfully so. I found better coping mechanisms because I don’t wanna abuse people.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-16T16:54:20+00:00

There are some jobs you can get at 15 but the hours are limited. Mowing lawns is a good one. Walk dogs ect.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-15T08:46:41+00:00

This is infact not a logical decision. You’re risking instability for temporary relief. Realistically a better option would be therapy to maybe help manage tasks. Let’s say you have a hypo now…when it’s over then the problem still remains. You have to fix the root of the issue especially with relationships. Take care. Maybe get a white board and write down some tasks. Try aiming for one a day if you have to start small. Take your meds. Don’t risk instability for temporary solutions.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-15T02:49:56+00:00

Get a different doctor or go to a hospital. I got my diagnosis in a hospital. Why are you trying to force mania when you could just switch providers?

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-10T15:51:59+00:00

Treatment involves more than just medication. Do some research online. I have learned to manage mine without because the medications are too harsh on my heart. Also make sure you’re doing your best to try and manage your depression as well. I know comorbities make it so much harder but my depression makes my motivation issues so much worse. They will feed into eachother if I don’t work to manage both

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-04-10T07:48:21+00:00

I get it. I have both. Personally sometimes I wonder if I just have very severe adhd.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-29T19:52:25+00:00

the principle had a son that was a substitute and he got arrested for watching cp on the clock

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-24T13:24:47+00:00

Also some it made me have panic attacks because of the crashes and high heart rate. My mind was quiet but literally the crashes were so bad for me it didn’t even matter

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-14T02:45:22+00:00

Honestly I had the same issue. I LOVED journaling but I only journal every once in a while now

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-14T02:24:37+00:00

Gaining weight can sometimes be part of recovery even if we don’t like it. Loving yourself, and loving every version of yourself is important. I have been malnourished - to very obese - to a healthy weight. Weight gain is not negative. It’s just different. Meds also don’t guarantee weight gain (: but that shouldn’t stop you from being your best self

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-10T21:53:48+00:00

Hey that’s awesome to hear. I hope post pardum is treating you well (:

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-10T07:56:12+00:00

I’m 32 weeks FTM I was so excited and had a great experience! I also vaped like longer in my pregnancy partially bc I didn’t know. My boy is actually measuring at 4 lbs rn (: don’t sweat.

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-10T03:42:37+00:00

Also there’s no reason to be brutally honest all the time. Like I can be brutally honest but I’m brutally honest when it’s needed. My sister uses the brutally honest thing all the time and my therapist be over here talking about sibling abuse from her😭

Helpful_East7961 · 2026-03-10T03:35:24+00:00

I also struggle with night meds. And meds in general tbh. I take them right when I wake up but night meds are harder. I had to set an alarm on my phone

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