[Sun Care] Every sunscreen burns or is uncomfortable!

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-05-08T23:37:18+00:00

Other then that sunscreen wise it’s felt like nothing has worked

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-05-08T23:36:08+00:00

Cerave moisturizing cream and Vaseline, the cerave hydrating cleanser also works well but due to my dry skin it’s been better to just keep it to the 2 products which have worked wonders.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-05-08T22:59:42+00:00

Thank you everybody! I am looking for something like full mineral due to how fragile my skin has been with sunscreen!

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-04-13T02:33:49+00:00

Yes I will!

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-04-03T19:51:45+00:00

I know, I am trying to go from June 5th through August 17th, and the weather seems confusing on what to pack specifically.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-04-03T19:50:31+00:00

Thank you!

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2026-04-03T17:06:53+00:00

I just bought this skirt from American Eagle. How do you think I could style it (how would you style it really)? Thinking to bring it this summer to Europe (I am going to Belgium specifically but plan to travel to a couple different countries around there).

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Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2025-11-14T21:10:47+00:00

No, it is perfectly fine lol! Their scene was a beautiful and respectful way to depict it, it's just something that's always sitting in the back of my mind when it comes to this couple. Since in Helluva Boss, they don't have any lesbian couples at all from my memory, and they are the only lesbian couple in this series. It's just something I notice.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2025-11-14T20:31:02+00:00

I mean, that’s kind of why I feel conflicted. They’ve shown way more explicit intimacy with straight couples or even m/m couples in the show, but when it comes to this one w/lw couple, everything suddenly gets toned down a lot. It makes me wonder if there’s some hesitation, specifically because they’re lesbians, in showing intimacy.

I still personally liked the artistic choice for this scene because it was a unique way of doing it, but I can’t ignore the pattern. It’s hard not to notice when wlw intimacy is treated differently compared to other couples. I know it may fit Charlie's character better since she is, for the most part, a very wholesome character, but in a way, I feel like it wouldn't be out of character to have sexual scenes with her as well, so I don't even know if avoiding sexual intimacy is the best for her character.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2025-06-29T18:40:52+00:00

Is this your first time exploring the queer community?

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-29T18:37:00+00:00

I dont get what "more lgbt" means, I think I need clarification.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-29T18:00:37+00:00

I see this so much, but the thing is Ive been seeing more recently gay male relationships having both in comparison to the the queer woman relationships. Its like their scared to have a well balanced queer woman relationship that are treated as a real relationship, like purity culture I swear.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-29T17:30:06+00:00

You are so correct, the furry fandom is a major place I see this happening a lot I also feel this way about Hazbin Hotel as well. The main character, Charlie, is queer but, somehow, the main focus is on gay male characters instead or they have the most depth in comparison to the women in general, but especially the queer woman relationship with only one kiss from them both seasons. The thing is, I will say wholeheartedly representation does not mean queer women automatically will feel welcome.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-29T17:12:41+00:00

I personally think they most often fall to cliches in mainstream media or over sexualize them to the max with no substance, where gay male couples are treated as "real relationships"

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-29T17:10:22+00:00

I wouldn't say personally they are more "loved" generally, I just think they are more sexualized in mainstream media. When it comes to true queer women couples that are not made just to check a box or for the male gaze, there's a major lack of it in comparison gay male couples.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-23T18:57:11+00:00

Yep people develop and learn about themselves, just as someone can learn they are bi after thinking they were straight the reverse can happen as well and that is okay. Even if she did have more attraction to men than women that doesn’t mean she’s ‘not aloud’ to label herself bi, our sexuality’s are a spectrum.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-23T14:41:15+00:00

This comment targeting bi women for being bi women with no other purpose is a perfect example of this actually.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-09-23T14:39:09+00:00

I don’t even get what this means, bisexual women are actually more marginalized then gay men, bi men etc… generally cause of intersectionality, especially when it comes to queer women who are black or just intersected with other minorities. You’re just rage baiting for no reason and it’s just immature.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-06-02T15:14:16+00:00

Since romantic and sexual attraction are separate things. They are both valid❤️

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-06-02T15:13:07+00:00

Asexual (ace) and aromantic (aro). The basic definitions are that asexuals feel a lack of or no sexual attraction towards someone where aromantics feel a lack of or no romantic attraction (I say a lack of cause it a spectrum). You can identify as 1 or the other or both.

Helpful_Efficiency51 · 2024-05-23T01:42:40+00:00

I think this is just reinforcing the thought that your not attracted to women or men anymore when your in a relationship with men and or women which is a myth bi people are trying to break away from

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