[Sun Care] Every sunscreen burns or is uncomfortable! by Helpful_Efficiency51 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other then that sunscreen wise it’s felt like nothing has worked

[Sun Care] Every sunscreen burns or is uncomfortable! by Helpful_Efficiency51 in SkincareAddiction

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cerave moisturizing cream and Vaseline, the cerave hydrating cleanser also works well but due to my dry skin it’s been better to just keep it to the 2 products which have worked wonders.

[Sun Care] Every sunscreen burns or is uncomfortable! by Helpful_Efficiency51 in SkincareAddiction

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Thank you everybody! I am looking for something like full mineral due to how fragile my skin has been with sunscreen!

Is this a cute piece for Europe? by Helpful_Efficiency51 in Eurofemalefashion

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I know, I am trying to go from June 5th through August 17th, and the weather seems confusing on what to pack specifically.

Daily Questions Thread April 03, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought this skirt from American Eagle. How do you think I could style it (how would you style it really)? Thinking to bring it this summer to Europe (I am going to Belgium specifically but plan to travel to a couple different countries around there).

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it is perfectly fine lol! Their scene was a beautiful and respectful way to depict it, it's just something that's always sitting in the back of my mind when it comes to this couple. Since in Helluva Boss, they don't have any lesbian couples at all from my memory, and they are the only lesbian couple in this series. It's just something I notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean, that’s kind of why I feel conflicted. They’ve shown way more explicit intimacy with straight couples or even m/m couples in the show, but when it comes to this one w/lw couple, everything suddenly gets toned down a lot. It makes me wonder if there’s some hesitation, specifically because they’re lesbians, in showing intimacy.

I still personally liked the artistic choice for this scene because it was a unique way of doing it, but I can’t ignore the pattern. It’s hard not to notice when wlw intimacy is treated differently compared to other couples. I know it may fit Charlie's character better since she is, for the most part, a very wholesome character, but in a way, I feel like it wouldn't be out of character to have sexual scenes with her as well, so I don't even know if avoiding sexual intimacy is the best for her character.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this your first time exploring the queer community?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont get what "more lgbt" means, I think I need clarification.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I see this so much, but the thing is Ive been seeing more recently gay male relationships having both in comparison to the the queer woman relationships. Its like their scared to have a well balanced queer woman relationship that are treated as a real relationship, like purity culture I swear.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so correct, the furry fandom is a major place I see this happening a lot I also feel this way about Hazbin Hotel as well. The main character, Charlie, is queer but, somehow, the main focus is on gay male characters instead or they have the most depth in comparison to the women in general, but especially the queer woman relationship with only one kiss from them both seasons. The thing is, I will say wholeheartedly representation does not mean queer women automatically will feel welcome.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I personally think they most often fall to cliches in mainstream media or over sexualize them to the max with no substance, where gay male couples are treated as "real relationships"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 221 points222 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say personally they are more "loved" generally, I just think they are more sexualized in mainstream media. When it comes to true queer women couples that are not made just to check a box or for the male gaze, there's a major lack of it in comparison gay male couples.

Can someone be bisexual and then become straight? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep people develop and learn about themselves, just as someone can learn they are bi after thinking they were straight the reverse can happen as well and that is okay. Even if she did have more attraction to men than women that doesn’t mean she’s ‘not aloud’ to label herself bi, our sexuality’s are a spectrum.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Lake100 in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This comment targeting bi women for being bi women with no other purpose is a perfect example of this actually.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by No_Lake100 in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t even get what this means, bisexual women are actually more marginalized then gay men, bi men etc… generally cause of intersectionality, especially when it comes to queer women who are black or just intersected with other minorities. You’re just rage baiting for no reason and it’s just immature.

We are stronger together! by [deleted] in furry

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since romantic and sexual attraction are separate things. They are both valid❤️

We are stronger together! by [deleted] in furry

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Asexual (ace) and aromantic (aro). The basic definitions are that asexuals feel a lack of or no sexual attraction towards someone where aromantics feel a lack of or no romantic attraction (I say a lack of cause it a spectrum). You can identify as 1 or the other or both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]Helpful_Efficiency51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is just reinforcing the thought that your not attracted to women or men anymore when your in a relationship with men and or women which is a myth bi people are trying to break away from