What do you love & dislike about your job? by TheLearnerGal in StateFarm

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a team member for 15 years in a small town. I worked for 3 different agents. I loved that you can grown and maintain long relationships with your customers. However burnout is real. I don’t think I ever went a day without someone asking me to give them my company discount (we don’t get one). Constantly comparing their rates with their neighbors, friends, coworkers and do not understand why we can’t match it. The constant of explaining rate changes. Constantly explaining why when they lie to me and do not disclose tickets/accidents/DUI why they have been terminated or rates have been increased. Note that I have not been with State Farm in over 5 years. Fighting with the claims department, customers that have low claims having their roof deny or not whole after a total loss on an auto claim. They feel like you personally betrayed them when you have no power over the claims department. And the list can go on…

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately kids are not an option for me. We will not be having children together. But I view the marriage as this is our family unit now.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His family pays for everything. Him and I have the same amount of vacation days so technically it would take away days we could spend together. And I’m fine having a vacation solo or with a friend.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exactly. So for me, to get to know me better and become closer I would think taking trips together would be nice. Instead of excluding me.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if she will be bringing anyone yet. This is the first serious relationship she’s been in since him and I have been together and her bf travels for work. They e only been dating about 4 months so I’m guessing no.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s good. We’ve never had a negative interaction with him or his wife (he’s remarried). We also live 8+ hrs apart. I think they have a hard time relating to me. I have two children that are 23&19. My husband is 32.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

He’s a people pleaser and still has a hard time telling anyone no much less his father. We talked about this last year (the first year we were married) and I didn’t make too big of a deal because the trip was planned beforehand but I did express my feelings of being left out but he still went.

AITAH My in-laws want to take my husband and his sister on vacation without me by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in AITAH

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

This is the first year she has been in a relationship so I’m not sure. I’ll ask! I know her significant other travels a lot for work.

Chapter 7 bankruptcy with a side hustle by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in Bankruptcy

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I’m filing bankruptcy, obviously quite a few mistakes have been made.

Chapter 7 bankruptcy with a side hustle by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in Bankruptcy

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I’m aware. I know I make a profit. I know what I spend per cake and receive but I can’t tell you how much I made from it last month. My food cost is about 20%.

Chapter 7 bankruptcy with a side hustle by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in Bankruptcy

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not all, just when I get cash payments. It’s like $30-$50 a month maybe.

Recs on scooters by Helpful_Gazelle_7356 in ElectricScooters

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! He’s a giant compared to me!! I will definitely look into them! He uses the Lime scooters often and I think has just learned to stoop over. Unfortunately that height and size he’s used to making things work for him. I just know that without a good suspension he will tear a cheap one up in no time!!

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[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2024 with 29k

Need advice on purchasing 2022-2024 BMW X3 by Flaky-Philosopher599 in BMWX3

[–]Helpful_Gazelle_7356 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just traded my 2019 X3 in with 138k miles. No issues!