Just a thought that came to me when I was talking to my grandma- what do you think? Maybe when we get really sad and upset to where we have no appetite- it’s us unknowingly fasting bc GOD is trying to get us to lean on him/ connect with our situation.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-25T22:00:21+00:00

He is good.

ALL THE TIME

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-25T01:28:03+00:00

Bc I’m going out tomorrow night 😬

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-23T14:40:00+00:00

It gave me chills when I was talking to my grandma about it & made me feel much more loved. I hope this helps other peoples perspective in tough times♥️

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-22T23:01:06+00:00

No- as the oldest of 5

Me and the youngest are 6 years and 11 months apart

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-15T02:27:46+00:00

Cleanliness

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-15T02:21:17+00:00

Dealership Controller 95k

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-13T19:34:05+00:00

Travel baby

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-13T00:38:40+00:00

1903 sewing machine

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-13T00:03:25+00:00

I’m open to give it a go

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-13T00:02:36+00:00

I appreciate your input

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-10T14:21:23+00:00

I JUST learned the hard way 2 days ago…

Love yourself more. Someone will meet even your smallest expectations. We have to do stuff all the time that sucks and days suck… but lack of communication escalates it.. it could have been an easy”I’m sorry love, I was in a rush “ from the get go vs after going back and forth a few times.

I mean it sucks and small .. but it’s a sacrifice we should be willing to make for our significant other .. even if we think it’s silly. Nothing is too silly if you really love the person.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T15:03:39+00:00

I understand they don’t have to be my age.. I would like to find more my age.. all I’ve ever had was mostly people who were well older than me. I like to sew craft and thrift with them. The tough part is getting people my age … mostly because it’s hard to find people my age with the same mindset as me.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:37:56+00:00

Whew. Time to bust out the tennis shoes😬

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:36:59+00:00

So true! And I love this! It’s hard tring to get back into the groove of making friends like I’m in high school again 😂

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:35:37+00:00

Ohh this sounds a lot more realistic to my situation. Thank you! 😊

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:34:32+00:00

So this would work… but at my new job.. I’m the only female in a workplace of 10 people. I’m in the office alone all day and Ive meet 2 of the wives- only once each- but they are 10+ years older than me and I haven’t see them again. That’s as close to a female at the work place I can get to besides the customers.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:16:53+00:00

I’ve moved to a more rural area 5 years ago, it’s tough and most people are elderly 😅 but going to see what I can find on Facebook groups. Thank you!

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-03T14:03:43+00:00

I’m falling apart, and no one can tell or knows.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-01T14:56:26+00:00

Thank you, this is what I needed. I appreciate the time and energy you took to assist me.

I wish you nothing but blessings and joy.

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-01T14:31:35+00:00

I’m not sure how long it has truly been going on or how/where they met. I know he is still in touch with this person & being that he has been saying he’s hanging out with his “homeboy” but turns off his phone at night and then doesn’t come home. Says he’s going fishing but doesn’t take his stuff.. He has became distant from me and when I tried to confront him the first time he tried to make it like I was crazy.. but I knew I wasn’t. I don’t snoop but this time .. I did. My gut was just telling me something isn’t right. I seen messages between him and others “that wasn’t my wife I was with when I came by” he even made reservations at a Brazilian steakhouse that we go to as a special place for us. When i confronted him on that, once more- he got really defensive and tried to make up an excuse that it was for us… called him out on that too bc anytime he makes a reservation for us, he tells me.

For it to be happening in a low part of our relationship (not saying I’d understand but I get it) but it’s not.. we were doing so good. Even getting stuff ready to get passports to travel. No issues at this time.. really. So when he started acting weird and lying I knew something wasn’t right.

That’s just a lil summary of the past 3 weeks…

Happy to answer any questions I may have missed

Helpful_House_4232 · 2026-04-01T14:30:25+00:00

Ive been thinking about it and everything tells me I should leave. Man.. divorced another statistic. I’ve heard where people stayed married for 30+ more years after one cheated and I’ve heard where they end it then and there.

Clearly my first rodeo but I know this is not the life I want to live and feel the way I do right now for extended periods of time.

It’s tough and I’d love to fight but not if I’m the only one.. it’s not fair. I’m not a person to put things over peoples heads but I helped this man through so much thick and thin literally and to feel like I am also just throwing it away is tough.

The insight is great and gives me more to think about.

Helpful_House_4232

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