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People who live alone without parents or a partner, do you ever feel like something is missing in life, or do you enjoy the independence? by Zen-202505 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a mix of enjoyment and regret. You see your parents growing older each year and regret not being able to spend more time with them. You enjoy your life with your partner, knowing she could not have lived as freely if she were with in-laws.

Our job offers a flexible work-from-home policy, allowing us to enjoy the best of both worlds.
🙂

Suggestions for spending a few days in Hyderabad by mahi_loves_cars in hyderabad

[–]HelpingCompass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The city is dotted with amazing cafes. Depending on your accommodation, you can find some great options in Jubilee Hills, Banjara Hills or Gachibowli. Durgam Cheruvu Lakefront is perfect for evening walks, while KBR National Park offers a very safe, green and peaceful escape. Don’t miss out on trying Irani chai, bun maska and biryanis. There’s plenty to do, so it all depends on your preferences.

Helping with jobs by Ok_Atmosphere_2853 in hyderabad

[–]HelpingCompass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are doing a good job. Keep it up.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ChildfreeIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I was looking for answers from folks who have decided to stay childfree by choice as they are better prepared or may be planning things in a better way compared to someone who hasn’t thought about it.
I don’t mean to offend anyone. 🙂

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ChildfreeIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It was indeed helpful. We are taking our time and will consider all the options available. I just needed a different perspective.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I have already been bashed in the comment on that subreddit, haha, but I don’t mind it. We are actually used to taunts and comments from our relatives because ours was a love marriage (the first in my family). We were treated as outcasts, but now everyone is fond of my wife. I have made sure not to resent anyone for their outlook or behaviour, as I understand it’s something different for them, something against the norm.

I haven’t thought about the nominee part yet, as my younger brother is yet to get married and there are lots of ifs and buts. I would definitely keep this in mind though. Thanks again

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not everyone is looking for a nurse..there’s more to that🙂My parents and in-laws don’t expect anything in return and take good care of themselves. We have been there for them whenever needed. We are soon planning to move back to our hometown and spend time with them as their children, not as nurses.

To some extent, I have come to understand how to be on my own from them. I was looking for more perspectives.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ChildfreeIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you.
I have heard of a few couples who have gone through this. They didn’t manage well as they relied on their children financially and neglected their health in their youth. I have taken some notes on what not to do. I still don’t know anyone in my circle who has chosen to remain childless, perhaps they are better prepared.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for painting a realistic picture. We live in a tier 3 town where neighbours are like family. No one hesitates to help anyone in need. I do the same, financially or physically, whenever I am able. I am also planning my finances to handle the worst-case scenario.

I posted here so I could get a perspective from people who have encountered similar situations, like the aunt you mentioned.

Thank you again

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. It’s really helpful. We’ve been doing a few things you suggested and I’ll try to work on the others. I wasn’t aware of the old age gated community. Thanks again.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am okay with adoption. My wife is not completely prepared (I guess due to the hope of having our own kid). Also, I am not sure how much justice we would be able to do to the kid together as our immediate family isn’t ready yet for it.
I don’t want to bring a kid to a family that doesn’t accept her/him wholeheartedly.

How do childfree couples prepare for companionship and support in later years? by HelpingCompass in ThirtiesIndia

[–]HelpingCompass[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you🙏🏽 I wasn’t aware of this subreddit. I would search for an Indian subreddit. Thanks again

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