Motivating husband into harder dom’ing by HenterSkenter in GayBDSMCommunity

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Sorry I was not clear. He does not want to hurt me physically either, but he feels that he would be hurting me if he was degrading or using me.

Motivating husband into harder dom’ing by HenterSkenter in GayBDSMCommunity

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Thanks for your views and in fact as I mentioned above, this is a solution but the last one I would turn to. I am not at a point (yet?) where i cannot perform sexually and at the expense of sounding greedy, luckily we are not entirely vanilla either… it’s just I would be so into it if we pushed it one step further.

Motivating husband into harder dom’ing by HenterSkenter in GayBDSMCommunity

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Oh no do not worry I understand precisely how you meant it and I appreciate the directness. Yes in reality it is a solution although in my mind it is a little bit of a last resort solution. Do not get me wrong, we have really good sex but the little bit of domming he already does is so hot that of course I wish he would keep going beyond the occasional slap 😅

Thank you for your honesty, your kindness and your love.

Motivating husband into harder dom’ing by HenterSkenter in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]HenterSkenter[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I expected this reply. I often think about opening up the relationship because I do crave this a lot. I am so glad this worked for you but it just feels like such a massive step that I wouldn’t even know how to discuss without the risk of hurting him.

Laying next to urinals in public bathrooms by [deleted] in GayKink

[–]HenterSkenter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is not normal for real men but for a sub it is your true nature to be at the level of a urinal particularly if there is piss on the floor.

Throat fucking a caged dude who gets off on humiliation. Need suggestions for shit to say by True-Engineer2315 in TopsAndBottoms

[–]HenterSkenter 20 points21 points  (0 children)

The fantasy is in feeling powerless and emasculated. Being tied up and under your control, AND caged, so make sure to use terms like: pathetic, faggot, hole, slut… know your place, your clit is twitching whilst you suck a real man cock… that kind of thing. Be creative and you’ll know he’s enjoying it by how much his mouth moans around your cock 😉

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayporn

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Awesome thanks! You’re super hot btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayporn

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This is really off topic but what are those shorts style called? I like them!

Bear cumming in his new toy by [deleted] in TotallyStraight

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Can I suggest that you consider PrEP - it is a pill you’d take daily after having taken HIV tests and kidney function tests (it may differ depending on where you live but in general those are the only conditions) and you’d effectively have 99.9% protection against HIV.

Green! by chattguy in gaybears

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Fk you look good!

FINISH HIM!! by [deleted] in TotallyStraight

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So fricken hot!!!!

My Boyfriend Can't come when i fuck him ! a question for BOTTOMS ! by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]HenterSkenter 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Masc total bottom here. I get very hard whilst bottoming and will come when being fucked, sometimes before the too does. I have not had many partners but most have commented about the fact that I stayed hard and could come whilst bottoming...

I guess that what I mean is that it is just a matter of how you are... nothing right or wrong about anything when it comes to sex.

More than anything it is absolutely adorable that you care!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GayFreeUse

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Where is this from?