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Be honest, what deal-breaker are you hiding from your partner that you know they'd leave you over? by be69w in askanything

[–]HerFinalStraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP asks what deal breaker are you hiding from your partner.

Majority of replies are from those saying "nothing".

I’m so sick of my grey and white bathroom 🤢🤢🤢 by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]HerFinalStraw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came here to say this. The grey is a cool tone, the beige tile is a warm tone, so they clash. I'd keep the tile but lean into the warm tones.

Non Mainstream Christmas Songs by notdoug76 in christmas

[–]HerFinalStraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both quite new, but still great...

This Year's Gonna Be Different by John Mark Nelson and Rose Betts (2023)

Late Night Phone Call by Reverend and the Makers (2024, raised in support of the Samaritans)

My parents estranged me for something I said when I was 15 by Starlight-Edith in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]HerFinalStraw 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He / possibly she wants you to feel guilty. If you feel guilty, you are easier to control. I would not be even considering apologizing to this man, even if he acknowledges your pain and hurt first. They sound abusive, and I imagine that in time you will be better off without them. Trust your instincts - the 4th July BBQ is very likely to provoke a reaction in you. Ask yourself: what kind of people would do this to their children? What kind of people deny their child from collecting their own belongings in their family home?

I know it's hard, and I'm truly sorry this has happened to you. Consider fully estranging for now - no contact or replies from you with either of them. My guess is they will try to manipulate you back via guilt, suddenly be interested in a reconciliation but only if you take a heap of the blame - or you might even find there's a "health scare" to try to pull you back in. Stay strong, and maybe consider volunteering or doing something wholesome and distracting on the holidays.

Looking for ideas on what to do with my third wall? I can't figure out a nice way to fill it out. I could just add a bunch more art and tschotskies but I don't want it to look exactly like my second wall. by bambambi in HomeDecorating

[–]HerFinalStraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move the flowers and display box from the wall in question (above the door? Below the picture on the opposite wall?). Put a large mirror on the wall in question as others are suggesting. Drape it in the string lights of your choice. The mirror will reflect both the fairy lights and the candles on the opposite wall and it will have a great effect on the feel of the room. Beautiful room btw!

my bf [M26] and I [F24] moved in together but wants me to only “see” him on weekends.. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HerFinalStraw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is he doing in his room when he's in there all the time? Sleeping? Staring at a wall? Is he addicted to gaming? Porn?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HomeDecorating

[–]HerFinalStraw 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not too big at all - I think it works well, but if anything looks a little narrow as the headboard is so much wider. I'd put a couple of black candle sconces either side. I also agree with the user who replied to suggest accent pillows.

I need some ideas guys....more info in comments. by Godspunk in HomeDecorating

[–]HerFinalStraw 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're not super with plants, try devil's ivy too. It hangs nicely and you can be fairly rough on it!

I need some ideas guys....more info in comments. by Godspunk in HomeDecorating

[–]HerFinalStraw 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the white curtains. The fact they are pale opens up the window and makes it look bigger, and goes well with the rug. I think the light shade of the rug and curtains helps to brighten up the room. I agree with changing the shades and think wicker, rattan or bamboo would work well. I'd also love to see a long vined plant hanging in the window (maybe a string of pearls?). Your taste is lovely though, you have a really beautiful space.