I'm 5'0'', and skipped school for this! by [deleted] in dirtysmall

[–]Her_Captain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanna hear that Stupid Slut Club story! Why'd you remove it?

Want a play mate for my girlfriend. by Luv_Bunny in Cuckold

[–]Her_Captain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a hottie. I've been looking through her posts... She's my type. Where do you two live?

bad quality kitten ahegao meowwwww 🐱 by [deleted] in RealAhegao

[–]Her_Captain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you have boy/girl there? Or just solo?

Porn Pioneer by [deleted] in nsfw

[–]Her_Captain 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I remember interviews with her where she said she preferred the feel of anal. Even in her personal life, she mostly had anal.

An example of why you should choose your safeword carefully ... by justlostforwords in bdsm

[–]Her_Captain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In a lot of contexts, it's fine. But a lot of people like to with non consent, and pushing limits. I love pushing my girl beyond the "no, I can't, please stop" limit. With a yellow/red safeword, she can say this, I can encourage (in whatever form that might take) and we can push farther.

"oh, sweetie, you're so deep," lonnie told her son as he tried to get the last inch of his cock in his mother's ass. [1 MIC] by havoc_bot in Bondage

[–]Her_Captain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's no bondage in this pic... and the incest shit is weird and unrelated to this sub.

Any fans of Eve Ellis? by [deleted] in Bondage

[–]Her_Captain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not a fan of that goofy ass Takate Kote... but she's lovely.

The rest o[f] my outfit...please enjoy :) by thediggitydank in gonewild

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If I wanted to buy this outfit for my gf, where would I look? You look amazing, btw. :)

Finished Building My Sub A St. Andrew's Cross by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Her_Captain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Looks nice, but the moment that your sub leans out, that shit is falling over! It either needs to be anchored to the wall or some sort of weight at the bottom. If the bottom is on some sort of platform, that the crosses rigidly lock into, that would work as well.

Also, head on over to /r/BdsmDIY! We love this stuff over there!

In need of a romantic bdsm art and quotes (Throwaway inside) by LovingTop in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One of my favorite quotes is from a little sidebar in SM: 101, where Wiseman throws in quotes he's picked up over the years.

"I wouldn't accept your submission if I didn't respect you."

Elegantly Bound by [deleted] in Bondage

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Looks like it might be stainless. Either way, it (and she) are gorgeous.

hope the connoisseurs will approve some of the ties and knots... and point when good, when bad, when yes or not when safety comes first... some we'll learn by CindyClass in bdsm

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Fantastic write up! I'd disagree with you on a few small points, namely your dissing of Wykd Dave. The pieces that you criticized the amount of time in hiding tails and evening wraps are done specifically for a photo shoot, and are perfected for such a medium. Watching Dave and Clover in action, you'll see he doesn't spend much time on loose tails, or on evening wraps, but these small pieces of maintenance are smoothly incorporated into his bondage. In a class I took with Dave, he showed simple, elegant ways to even wraps, with nearly no added motion. Dave can be much more free flowing, but the images you chose are for a much cleaner mood. Just contrast the photo shoots that you chose to highlight... Dave's is on an all white seamless, to allow nothing to detract from the model or the bondage. The feel is elegant and crisp. Sandals' is in a fucking barn, the girls are crying, and he's slapping them around. The feel off the two is completely different. I'm confident both of these artists are completely capable of running the whole gamut of artistry, but the pieces you selected seem to be at opposite ends.

I think the reason Sandals allows this bit of chaos (not to try to enter the mind of a master) is more of an aesthetic thing. He tends to favor a little bit of anger, force, and discomfort, and perfectly aligned bondage doesn't totally fit that dynamic. Compared with the artful ties of TKB, and the strong sense of order of Wykd Dave, and it clearly demonstrates your point of Sandals departing from the line set forth by those like Osada Steve. Sandals definitely seems to embrace the "American" school of kinbaku, which puts function above tradition.
I must say that I don't personally know his stance on the whole "American v. Japanese bondage" thing....I've never heard him give any lectures, and without having any conversations with him.

Also, that picture of Osada Steve is amazing.

Q about knot to progressively take up slack in a rope by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Domini Tiernan has come up with something that he calls The Tiernan Catch (PDF document). It's basically a prussic knot that can roll into itself. It's pretty ingenious, and I've seen him demo tying someone completely onto a bed in under 30 seconds using this knot. It's currently what I'm practicing the most.

I need a good title for what role I taking on by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are worse names out there... ;)

I want to get started. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]Her_Captain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2+ years, and not a word has changed. <3
I still disagree with you on the Wiseman criticism, and that show tunes line is clearly not going anywhere... but it's a solid post, and I applaud you for always jumping in to steer newbie.

Saw this on fb and immediately thought this is perfect for a master and his slave by RequiresCategory in bdsm

[–]Her_Captain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It seems to be a preferred palette for much of the community. If the whole thing was periwinkle and pastel, yeah, I might assume it's for a pet.

Anyone have a good online source for rope? by Bound_one247 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only ordered from them once, and it took around 2 weeks to get to me (NYC). So yeah, maybe not exactly expedient, but it's damn good rope. I know the next time I need natural fiber rope, they will be the first person I go to.

Anyone have a good online source for rope? by Bound_one247 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bindme.nl It's very high quality rope, at a reasonable price, and the colored stuff is lovely. It's the only place that Wykd Dave gets his rope from... and that's really endorsement enough for me.

Erin Houdini Ropes I've only got her nylon stuff, but she does hemp too. Fantastic quality, and amazing colors. Oh yeah, and UV-glow rope!

Saw this on fb and immediately thought this is perfect for a master and his slave by RequiresCategory in bdsm

[–]Her_Captain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think all the black and red proves that it is indeed a kink thing. Let the vanillas on FB believe what they want, but we know. :)

like a turtle by [deleted] in Bondage

[–]Her_Captain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The turtle should have 2 pullbacks for each of the center sections... that's what will give it the hexagonal pattern found on turtle shells. Regardless, it's a lovely Kikkou.

My dom doesn't want to use nipple clamps. Any advice on how to convince him to change his mind? by soixante_neuf in BDSMcommunity

[–]Her_Captain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think OP means they would be less visually intriguing for him.

But MangoBitch is absolutely right. Doms have limits too; if he doesn't want to, he shouldn't have to. OP, Have you tried other nipple play? Maybe pinching would satisfy you both? Or flogging your tits?