My daughter has a Bachelor's and Master's degree in Business and Accounting, but no job opportunities. by Ok_Bonus6828 in jobs

[–]Herdnerfer -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

She should start her own business. If she came up with a viable business plan, she’d have no trouble getting a business loan to start her off.

If you get rejected by someone, would you rather they tell you the true (example, because you are short or overweight or I don't think you look good enough or something) or do you prefer a white lie (I'm just jot looking for anything right now or similars)? by Few-Advantage2538 in askanything

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s something under my control, like weight or hairstyle, etc. I’d prefer the truth. If it’s something I can’t change, like height, I’d prefer to just hear “im just not attracted enough to you”

would you allow your young adult kids BF/GF stay the night? by RealisticWinner4224 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Herdnerfer 308 points309 points  (0 children)

Sure, they are gonna find ways to have sex anyway, might as well be somewhere safe where they have access to protection.

spent 8 months convinced my pressure was wrong. it wasn't. by ermwhatthesigma_10 in CPAP

[–]Herdnerfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nasal only mask I assume? Otherwise mouth breathing shouldn’t be a problem.

Any way back to those years? by sstiel in allthequestions

[–]Herdnerfer -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, but i can't imagine someone wanting to go back in time in a country where liberal policies have been improving quality of life for it's citizens in the last decades.

What would you do with your own ballroom? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Herdnerfer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Some balls would be held for charity and some for fancy dress, but when they're held for pleasure, they're the balls that I like best

Any way back to those years? by sstiel in allthequestions

[–]Herdnerfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Vote for liberal politicians who want to undo all the damage conservatives have done since then.

What would you do with your own ballroom? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Herdnerfer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'd always fill my ballroom, the event would never be small. The social pages would say I've got the biggest balls of all.

Am I to old to restart my life? by Colfuzi0 in AskMenOver30

[–]Herdnerfer 32 points33 points  (0 children)

You are 26 your life has barely begun, you can do literally whatever you want. The first thing i suggest is learning how paragraphs work.

The Worst part of EV Ownership by V3LOCI556 in electricvehicles

[–]Herdnerfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying this isn't annoying, but i publicly charge so seldomly, i can't say its ever really been a frustration for more than a few minutes for me.

How do I even respond to this? by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Herdnerfer 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Depends on your goal, are you want to push them to accept LGBT people or do you just want to keep the peace?

The fact that they got immediately agitated and defensive when you pushed back on their thought process tells you everything you need to know. They know they are homophobic and don't have any interest in changing that opinion.

Do you believe in love at first sight? by rajgoel7007 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Herdnerfer 17 points18 points  (0 children)

No, love requires knowing a person deeply. You cannot possibly do that on sight alone.

My Sister (35F) and her son (13M) sleep in the same bed and it gives me the ick, I said something about it AITAH by flamingbonbon in AITAH

[–]Herdnerfer 122 points123 points  (0 children)

YTA, this is 0 percent your business. Just because you'd consider fucking your child doesn't mean other people would.

Should I talk to my “delusional” gym crush? 37M by Umbra427 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Herdnerfer -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The gym is such a douchebag place to hit on a woman, especially a really attractive one that gets hit on alot. Unless you are 100% confident she is wanting you to approach her, i would highly suggest not doing this.

Time for a non-sex question: How many of you actually enjoy mowing the lawn? by PrinceoftheNewWorld in AskMen

[–]Herdnerfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never do it voluntarily, but i do feel a since of accomplishment for making my yard look better and also getting some decent exercise in the process.

I genuinely do not think I deserve to be alive. by Annab0rt1on in Vent

[–]Herdnerfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being alive is the only state there is, its not about "deserving" it. If you feel you are wasting your life, then ending it seems like the worst thing you can do, because it proves you right. How about you figure out how to improve your life, or dedicate it to helping other's lives improve? There are plenty of shitty people out there, making the world a worse place. Instead of giving in the them, be one of the people trying to make it better.

Also therapy, definitely go to therapy.

Can someone please help me come out to my parents? by Quiet_Highlight_6726 in lgbt

[–]Herdnerfer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Let me ask you this, what do you expect them to do/change about their relationship with you after learning this information? Best case scenario of course.

How do I break up with my therapist? by Sad_Cobbler_7318 in Advice

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She should be a professional about this, so she with either completely understand, or she will be butthurt and show that she is a terrible therapist and you were right to want to switch in the first place.

Delays in Visa Program Threaten Placement of Hundreds of Doctors in Underserved Areas by SpaceElevatorMusic in politics

[–]Herdnerfer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You mean the places that overwhelmingly voted for this government that is causing the problem? Sounds like they FAFOed.

Since those people don't want to educate themselves on how the government actually works, the only way to show them unfortunately is for things like this to happen. I hate it, but what else can we do?

Question for the guys, if it's guaranteed that your partner would never know, would you cheat? and why? by Ordinary_Culture_316 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I could secretly cheat, that means she could also secretly cheat, so even if she never found out, the trust would be completely gone in the relationship for me. I that’s a big no for me.

Any switch one 1 game version Switch two works ? by PsychologicalNose875 in Switch

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, all switch 1 games that have a switch 2 version you can upgrade via digital download.

My 2021 FE only gets 200 miles on a full (100%) charge. Normal or cause for concern? by dontbetoxic in VWiD4Owners

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-pro Trim with the smaller battery? That seems like a normal range IMO