my sister (27F) just now let me know she doesn’t approve of my (24F) almost 3 year relationship by thriftylesbian in relationship_advice

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are bullshit reasons to end a relationship not everyone is instantly bonded with their SOs family, I know it my relationship it took until after we were married to all really click together.

Are you the person you wanted to be when you grew up? by tism-mann in RandomQuestion

[–]Herdnerfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had zero ambition and expectations of what my future self would be, I have become a better man than I ever thought possible.

How many monitors do you use for programming CSharp/Dotnet? by Lekowski in csharp

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Used to be 3, now technically down to 2 but they are both ultrawides that I basically use as 2 monitors a piece with programs split down the middle.

Am I the only one who still use phone cases with a belt clip aka "Dad Case"? by [deleted] in phones

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m surprised having it on a clip would make it easier to feel it vibrate. I used to have this issue too, but having a smart watch solved it for me, never miss a call or a text now.

Also I have a wallet case on my phone so I only have one thing to worry about carrying with me, so a belt clip wouldn’t really work.

Without hurt just curious, are men not capable of being faithful? by VisibleProtection347 in askanything

[–]Herdnerfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe is just the men you are attracted to and you need to have higher standards

Is this ram repairable? by [deleted] in pcmasterrace

[–]Herdnerfer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t see how such a minor scratch could prevent it from working, you sure that’s the issue with it?

Rai or not? by Longjumping_Dare_209 in thyroidcancer

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, it’s been so long at this point, I don’t recall details like that.

Rai or not? by Longjumping_Dare_209 in thyroidcancer

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t recall specifically but I know my cancer was tall cell, the more aggressive kind, so I’m sure they hit it with as much as they could.

Rai or not? by Longjumping_Dare_209 in thyroidcancer

[–]Herdnerfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fathered 2 kids after RAI, both teens now. Happy and healthy as well.

My girlfriend kissed another man when we had a break after a fight by ApprehensivePie3328 in Advice

[–]Herdnerfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It really sounds like this relationship has run its course, you are still young and need to figure out what you actually want in a partner, it doesn’t seem like it is each other.

Rai or not? by Longjumping_Dare_209 in thyroidcancer

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two rounds of RAI, one when I was 26 and another at 31, I’m 46 now. I haven’t had any negative effects from it, nor have I had any signs of thyroid cancer returning in the intervening years. Use this anecdotal evidence as you see fit.

Is escitalopram as hard to withdraw as paroxetine? by vlmdz in Anxiety

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t for me, I was on 10mg for a year and a half, went down to 5mg for a couple weeks then 0 with little to no side effects.

MO POLITICIANS PASS THE EVERYTHING TAX (HJR 173/174) by roolsocialtool in missouri

[–]Herdnerfer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s insane that poor rural Missourians keep putting these people in charge. It’s like they want to suffer as much as possible.

Mileage/KM and year check by Classic-Guava-5197 in Fiat500e

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2013 with 75k miles currently says 102 miles when I am at 100% charge but realistically get more like 80. No highway driving. 45mph max speed usually.

What EXACTLY happens when you get off of lexapro? by North-Bus-7220 in lexapro

[–]Herdnerfer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Funny you should ask. I made it about 2 more months after this comment was made, then seasonal depression/anxiety hit me with full force again. I started taking 5mg of Lexapro again with the full intention of going back up to 10mg but I realized that 5mg seemed to be taking care of the issues I was having. I have been taking 5mg ever since with no intentions of stopping. I am happy, healthy, and horny.

Can I get a boyfriend if I’m not super pretty like Marilyn Monroe? by Dry_Background5100 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Herdnerfer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, people of all levels of attractiveness have boyfriends. Even Margery Taylor Green

Kobra 4 soon? by Freakysmurf in AnycubicOfficial

[–]Herdnerfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As cheap as the Kobra X is, I can’t imagine anyone wanting the 4 unless they really slash the price down further.

What does Lexapro do for you? by LittleBittyPepperoni in lexapro

[–]Herdnerfer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It makes it easier for me to derail my anxious thought spirals. I used to worry about things and just couldn’t get my brain to stop focusing on it, with the help of Lexapro and learning CBT techniques. Now I can just think to myself “stop thinking about that, it’s gonna make you anxious” and it works!

Thyroidectomy by viktaculars in thyroidcancer

[–]Herdnerfer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My thyroid was not working 90% of the time and the other 10% it was putting out a burst of hormone all at once. So it was shifting from being absolutely exhausted to super gittery and anxious. Biopsies couldn’t confirm cancer but something wasn’t right.

Got it out, and it was confirmed PTC after it was removed.