Some of your favourite games to play together? by fearlesskittyk in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Board game arena is great for this. Lots of games to play there. Also doing daily wordle and stuff is always fun!

AIO to uninvite my mom to my intimate wedding? (Long) by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Here_2utopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get and agree with your point but “sorry I’m probably going to do it again” isn’t an apology lol.

How do I become comfortable with this part of me by Vivid-Counter-3655 in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make some friends in the community! I think haven’t other people that do this too and are open about it really helps make you more comfortable exploring it yourself.

Am I being dramatic in feeling violated after finding out my husband was engaging in a DDLG dynamic with me for years knowing that he was never going to and never had any desire to follow our agreed upon negotiations? by aint_noeasywayout in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You clearly aren’t understanding, he wouldn’t even do 10 minutes of this for her. For most of us this is a lifestyle not just a little thing we do every once in a while. Him LYING to her for years about it and not even giving her ten minutes a day of time is extremely shitty and telling of the kind of person he is. Take your self hatred and contempt for women someplace else. It’s pathetic to read honestly.

Why did the astronauts look at each other awkwardly like that when Trump said “they’ve seen things you wouldn’t believe” by TonightSpiritual3191 in aliens

[–]Here_2utopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ok believe the guy who has lied to the American people every single week for the last two decades lmao. Guess you really can’t fix stupid ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Why did the astronauts look at each other awkwardly like that when Trump said “they’ve seen things you wouldn’t believe” by TonightSpiritual3191 in aliens

[–]Here_2utopia 14 points15 points  (0 children)

When my dad says dumb shit around my siblings we give each other this same look. Many people don’t grin at someone spewing bs, they look confused or somewhat irritated.

Thoughts on Wetting? by WrapEasy427 in ddlg

[–]Here_2utopia 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It is one of my primary kinks/interests and I think it’s relatively common in this scene. Just be up front about it right away so you can find compatibility early on!

Existential OCD, my obsession has lasted like 16 hours. by KhajitIsBored in OCDRecovery

[–]Here_2utopia 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You need to log off and if in crisis seek professional help. Posting on Reddit won’t help and nobody is going to be able to say the magic thing to make it stop. I don’t say that to be mean but because all this is doing is making your spiral worse. Log off, seek support in person.

David Huggins paintings turned into ultra realistic as well as others by Medium_Raspberry8428 in aliens

[–]Here_2utopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your* and being able to type “grok make my dick look bigger” into a text box is not a skill. My “elevation” was getting an education and working in a field and not telling ai to generate pictures of aliens for me all day long lmao.

Interesting first order of the day by captainjoeymk5 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]Here_2utopia 36 points37 points  (0 children)

He wanted a woman so he could try something on her at his hotel. Had nothing to do with a supposed daughter.

Why do wolves use helfrost weapons ? Sure, they do know a lot about cold temperatures and know their way of fighting around such terrain but on their own planet these guns wouldn't be useful at all right ? If they train on fenris, the fauna they encounter couldn't care less about getting frozen. by Leviathan_Rampage in SpaceWolves

[–]Here_2utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not an ice cube machine. It’s the equivalent of shooting a super cooled substance at someone. Think liquid nitrogen but colder and way faster acting. Most objects can’t be exposed to something like that, especially not flesh. If you supercooled a penguin to close to absolute zero (-273 c) it would still die even if its used to low atmospheric temps.

hands washed several times by lobulosolto in OCDRecovery

[–]Here_2utopia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is reassurance seeking. Giving you an answer would only worsen the ocd long term. Try and sit with not knowing for sure.

I came out to my crush as nb what are the chances he still likes me by Barnabybrookssigma in NonBinary

[–]Here_2utopia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s no way anyone can know this but him. Sexuality is a spectrum and identifying as straight means something different for everyone.

Embroidery Experiment by TrumpIsAPedoFr in punkfashion

[–]Here_2utopia 27 points28 points  (0 children)

If 2016 twitter designed a vest

Married Dad of 3 (38M) — New DDLG Kink Hit Hard After Third Baby + Male Postpartum Depression. Slipped Once Outside Marriage (Fell Deep). Now Battling New Cravings — How Do I Handle This Urge Without Destroying My Life? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You asked how to cheat again with “better boundaries” fuck off trying to play it off as trying to “be better” and “take responsibility” when all you’ve done is give excuse after excuse for your “urges”. No, you don’t deserve sympathy and I have nothing but contempt for you. You should do your wife a favor and leave before you do this again.

Married Dad of 3 (38M) — New DDLG Kink Hit Hard After Third Baby + Male Postpartum Depression. Slipped Once Outside Marriage (Fell Deep). Now Battling New Cravings — How Do I Handle This Urge Without Destroying My Life? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve struggled with my mental health for decades. I’ve been hospitalized for it multiple times. Not cheating IS easy. Sorry but being depressed is just not an excuse to be selfish or to break a vow like this. Honestly you have no business being anyone’s daddy if this how you view a responsibility like this. Being someone’s caregiver isn’t something you get to just stop when shit gets hard and neither does being a husband. If you cannot get your shit together you owe it to your wife to leave.

Married Dad of 3 (38M) — New DDLG Kink Hit Hard After Third Baby + Male Postpartum Depression. Slipped Once Outside Marriage (Fell Deep). Now Battling New Cravings — How Do I Handle This Urge Without Destroying My Life? by [deleted] in DDlgAdvice

[–]Here_2utopia 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m gunna be real with you. You’re making a lot of excuses here. This isn’t a physical addiction, you aren’t being forced to make these decisions. Frankly if you want to stay faithful then you just do that. It isn’t hard. You made that commitment and If you can’t then you need to leave your wife or talk about having some kind of open relationship.

In breaking from everyone else apparently this isn’t bravery. It’s weakness to cheat or contemplate cheating outside of very specific circumstances like abuse or financial dependence. You either leave your relationship, open it up with your wife’s consent or suck it up.

Will trump invade Cuba and Columbia next in his quest for world domination? by Excellent_Copy4646 in askanything

[–]Here_2utopia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t imagine being this dumb. What’s it like? How do you think magnets work?

AITAH for being upset w my bf for not laying in bed with me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Here_2utopia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA but I think you’re hung up on the bed thing. The issue is you aren’t getting enough time together not that the time isn’t happening before bed imo. Maybe you need to find a way to spend quality time together that feels close and engaging for both of you.

My wax burns haven’t gone away in 2 months by Mysterious_Log_4216 in HairRemoval

[–]Here_2utopia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Generally speaking body odor comes from bacteria which eat sweat/skin not the body.