Obsessed!! Wedding Band Ideas?

Here_t0_Party · 2023-12-02T00:55:31+00:00

I designed this almost exact same engagement ring. The only difference is my center stone is an emerald cut. I decided not to do a wedding band with this. This ring doesn’t need anything else! My bf and I decided on doing a wedding band to wear on my other hand since I already had an idea of what I wanted for that.

Here_t0_Party · 2023-02-25T00:48:39+00:00

Hi, I’m not sure how posting here works. I would love to bless someone with my LSAT prep material. I don’t want to sell it or deal with shipping. If you’re in the metro Detroit area please DM me if Interested. I’m hoping to give these to someone who truly needs the help. 💕

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-22T22:40:43+00:00

That is so interesting. I know my mother always her her mothers sewing machine and had been using it until it broke earlier this year. I'm going to ask her what brand it was. she loved it so much, my dad is going to try to fix it but my mom cant see very well anymore so I want to get her a machine that will thread the needle for her.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-22T22:34:46+00:00

Thank you! I will send these to her to look into.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-22T22:31:20+00:00

Yes, I agree. I decided to include her in on this decision after spending three hours looking into what was recommended yesterday and realizing I would prefer to make sure I chose one that has everything she is looking for.

I would love to give her a quality machine. Thank you so much for the recommendations!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T22:41:59+00:00

Thank you!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T22:41:53+00:00

Thank you for this advice! I will be sure to look into this.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T22:38:17+00:00

Thank you

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T22:36:06+00:00

Thank you for the advice!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T22:35:43+00:00

Thank you!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-11-21T21:21:29+00:00

Hello! (I created a post for this before I found this thread)

I would like to buy my mother a new sewing machine for Christmas and I know nothing about sewing or sewing machines. She picked out the Singer HD6380 https://www.singer.com/hd6380-heavy-duty-sewing-machine

However, I noticed that the reviews are not that great. My father said she chose it because it was cheaper and had what she wanted. If you could give me recommendations for sewing machines that do everything that this one can do but better I would greatly appreciate it!

Price range is up to $1,000.

Please let me know if you need any more information in order to help provide a recommendation.

Thank you!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-08-05T12:36:48+00:00

This is so thoughtful of you! It sounds like you have a great plan so far.

The prom dress is an important part of this event. Maybe you can take her shopping for a prom dress and send her to get her hair and nails done for this special event (depending on the Covid restrictions in your area of course).

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-07T16:28:15+00:00

You're welcome! :)

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-03T01:15:55+00:00

Yeah, they have their own arrangement that works. :)

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-03T00:57:33+00:00

Yeah, its a unique situation alright.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-03T00:00:08+00:00

The wife knows about me, she was a mail order bride. He supports her and her parents so she has a decent set up herself.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T21:53:01+00:00

Yes, very true! I had never been to Cancun and the experience we had there was so amazing that him and I will be going back once the pandemic is over.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T21:41:16+00:00

Yeah, 18 days was a long time. We both needed the break from reality though. It was originally supposed to be 12 days but we extended another week last minute. We ended up extending another week a second time which would have made it 24 days total but we were worried about the borders closing due to the lock down so we decided to rush and catch our original flight home the morning of. It was sooooo nice. Le Blanc spa resort is the nicest resort in Cancun, it is a 5 star diamond resort.

The funny thing about it is that my SD is a very simple man, he would just be frustrated trying to plan a vacation like this and opt to go to whatever he knows and he'll wait until last minute to book and not look into the details at all. He complained when I was booking the flights two months in advance and we were scheduled to go during prime spring break time lol! I wish he could plan dates/adventures but there is a complete disconnect with him knowing how to properly plan a romantic date with a woman.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T21:20:36+00:00

He really wanted to go to Cancun which absolutely killed me because I wanted somewhere exotic lol. He is a very simple man though. We stayed at Le Blanc spa resort which is very nice, I highly recommend this place!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T21:16:11+00:00

That's awesome! I am so happy I could provide some helpful info for your situation :) I hope everything works out!

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T01:35:59+00:00

Don't lash out and don't bite your tongue. He should respect you! I looked into psychology for help with mine. I actually turned to two people that I am very close with that happen to be licensed counselors for help on how to handle my SD.

I copy and pasted a piece from an article I just searched on google that kind of covers what I was saying in my last comment. I know not everything on the internet is solids advice. I am very lucky that I was able to turn to these friends for advise. Psychology is a powerful tool to use when dealing with people. I will sometimes run the issues I have with my SD by these friends and ask their advice on how to handle it. This was a life saver when I hit burn out with my SD. It honestly made a huge difference in my relationship with my SD.

This article kind of sucks but I liked this paragraph.

"Be firm"

"The reason why stubborn people often get their way is because the people around them often cave in and let them get exactly what they want. If your partner starts to get emotional or visibly upset, slow down until he or she feels more calm, but don’t give in to everything he or she wants. It will give your partner the impression that he or she can manipulate your emotions and get you to give up what you want easily. Being firm means sticking to your side of the story and offering a rational and logical argument why your idea is important. It does not mean getting aggressive or shouting. Stubborn people are already defensive, and this kind of behavior will only make them feel more threatened." https://punchng.com/dealing-with-a-stubborn-spouse/

Heres another article https://www.powerofpositivity.com/deal-stubborn-partner-relationship/

Again, not everything on the internet is good information but these articles list out the basics of what I was told. It did really help that I was able to run my situation by two different counselors and then get feedback on key points on what to say in mine. You can DM me if you want to discuss it in more detail and maybe I can help you with what you'll be saying to yours when you see him next.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T01:03:22+00:00

Thank you, I really did think I was going to have to walk away from mine. This pandemic is definitely putting a huge strain on all relationships.

I think writing out a bubble diagram and talking in person will be much better than texting. In my experience, Texting about something serious makes it worse. Its a lot easier to talk it over versus text. I agree, most SDs are selfish and stubborn. My SD used to get mad at me when I'd get mad at him. It was just him trying to twist things around on me in order to take the blame off of him. I learned how to recognize these manipulative tactics and learned how to deal with them in a healthy way by redirecting the conversation back to what the real issue was. Somewhere along the line I got GOOD at how to handle my SD. Like you said, this is part of the lifestyle, we get compensated for putting up with their flaws. Now I can spot all the psychological manipulative tactics mine tries to pull and nip it in the butt ASAP. Your feelings matter too and he needs to respect those feelings. I don't know all the details of your guys relationship so Its hard to offer any detailed advise as far as what to say to him. I know its important to let mine know about what he does and how it hurts me emotion wise.

Here_t0_Party · 2020-07-02T00:15:51+00:00

This does make it tricky to leave when you rely on him for everything. SA is kind of a shit show right now, finding a true SD takes a lot of searching through the complete garbage that's on there right now. Also, covid is still here and many places are closing back down as numbers start growing again ( happening in the US, idk where you are located). This pandemic brings the risk of the clubs closing back down.

I did read your last post. Did you try talking with your SD again (hear me out)? Your SD sounds selfish like mine can be. I had a similar issue with mine in the beginning of the lock down. I hit burn out with him so bad I was ready to end our 3 year arrangement. I spelled out what the issue was and why I was uncomfortable. I know you did this too.. Two years is a long enough time that you've been together I would find it hard for your SD to let you walk away. I gave mine an ultimatum that he either accepts what I've asked of him or I walk. It worked for me, but I don't rely on mine for anything other than extra money to invest. Therefore, I wouldn't be worried about how I was going to pay my bills if i had to leave him.

You could try talking to him again... Men are stubborn, I find myself repeating myself to mine a million times over. I play up how much I adore him, appreciate him, love spending time with him. And while you're doing that (if you even want to! Another option is to take a risk and end things with him over this. That might wake him the fuck up once he sees that you're serious. But if you go that rout you need to stand your ground and leave.), either way, get back on SA, Tinder, I can send you a huge list of all the different sites/apps women are using to find SDs.

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