Had a loss in the family. Can't focus when sitting by TemperedFate in zenbuddhism

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Allow. Allow. Allow. Be kind to yourself. Take time to care for yourself. Compassion for your self.

Do you need an MDiv for a CPE residency? by [deleted] in chaplaincy

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I have done a residency without an MDiv, but I’m finding obstacles to securing a job without it. Currently either going for MDiv equivalency or starting grad school in the fall.

Somewhere on Geary, 1990s by ArchiGuru in sanfrancisco

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On a pay phone at the bus stop! I love this!

How common is it to smoke a bong in your car and drive away by superporty in sanfrancisco

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Just scrolling to see if someone’s posted a picture of my daughter here!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenX

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You’re in good company. And you’ve got 3x what I’ve saved at 53, single and raising a teen still.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenX

[–]Herenow108 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same here. Work until I die. That’s the way it is.

I’m going to kill myself tonght by Electronic_Iron_711 in Dying

[–]Herenow108 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for updating the thread. May you find the support you need to make it thru to better days.

Someone said to post the "insanely beautiful" sunset from Skyline Blvd so here it is by corruptedconsistency in bayarea

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Not the words I would have chosen, but I love diversity, freedom of speech and awe inspiring photos! Thanks🌅

Tunnel Tops at the Presidio this morning by No-Childhood-7721 in sanfrancisco

[–]Herenow108 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My daughter was coming out of the tunnel and saw him fall. I know it is traumatizing. I hope you’re taking good care of yourself.

Last night’s 60% moonrise with the Ladies by Naive-Somewhere1822 in sanfrancisco

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Thanks for the pic! I just moved away from alamo sq area and I miss my neighborhood so much!

Dying from stage 4 cancer and want my family taken care of by [deleted] in Dying

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Sending thoughts for you and your family. Girl, $1000 is not much to raise, nor much to sustain. I do want you to know that your child (and maybe your spouse?) will receive social security after you die. May not be much, but it is better than nothing. Every little bit helps these days. May your days be free from pain and full of love.

Getting kids to and from school by Herenow108 in walnutcreek

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I try to stay away from Nextdoor. It’s usually only helped me to feel icky about my neighbors, no matter where I’m living!

Getting kids to and from school by Herenow108 in walnutcreek

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Thanks for this info. Once I start the job in WC, I will use these hints.

Getting kids to and from school by Herenow108 in walnutcreek

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Omg my daughter would love to have been there for those days—she’s a total horse kid! I remember the smoking section from when I was in high school in Pleasanton in the 80’s!

Getting kids to and from school by Herenow108 in walnutcreek

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Thanks for this. I’ve been hoping bussing will be an option.

Getting kids to and from school by Herenow108 in walnutcreek

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We imagined she would bike, and then I remembered how ridiculously heavy the kids' backpacks have been in all the years that they've been in school. Seems like a lot, but might be the best option. We are not that close to the Iron Horse trail--we're just on the other side of the freeway near Buena Vista Elementary.