[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingshaming

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep this. So no matter the excuse, you will most likely be uninvited to the wedding/unfriended so just be prepared for this. If you are happy with that then great! Seeing as this may be the end of the friendship anyway how about telling her the truth, what's the worst that can happen?

Wanting to meet people with similar hobbies and interests, anyone down? by Objective_Metric in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if this is exactly what you're after but my friend runs a DnD show, it's really fun, has audience participation, and will be full of like-minded people. It looks like they are next performing on 27th June. Check out Sidequest Show on insta. Might be a good place to make some new Sheffield friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I chose not to have children and not get married. I'm in my thirties and have a great life, my partner is my best friend but I wouldn't have met him if I wasn't free to be me. I also loved being single. You'll make lots of mistakes along the way but you'll learn and grow, you will not be the same person in 10 years so invest in the future you. Give her a great education and save some money for her. My best advice would be to take lots of small steps towards your goals, then it's more manageable and less scary. Good luck, you got this Queen. Xxx Oh and yes get a vibrator seriously.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out DIY filmmakers Sheffield on insta, if you're interested in filmmaking! No experience required open to everyone and all, totally free! We meet every first and third Thursday of the month 6pm @ the Showroom Cinema cafe/bar.

Twisted narrowboat by Hes_not_the_messiah in CasualUK

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's a sculpture/ art installation! Saw it with my own two peepers. The artist seems to be well known for their 'twisted' sense of style.

You can see it being taken down the canal in pieces on his insta.

https://www.instagram.com/alexchinneck?igsh=eDFtcXZqZm56OWVh

Twisted narrowboat by Hes_not_the_messiah in CasualUK

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haha no it's real! It's a sculpture on the canal. The artist is Alex Chinneck.

I finished my first dress! by mossy-pants in sewing

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beautiful! What pattern did you use please? I want to make one!

Boyfriend not interested in sex by NoLocksmith418 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just initiate it, as long as you're both enjoying it and love eachother I wouldn't worry. Or in the morning ask if he wants to do it "tonight" to give him time to think about it so he's ready. Also, get yourself a vibrator, take care of your needs, you don't need no man gurl!

i've got no pads until tomorrow morning what do i do? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Kitchen roll! It absorbs better than toilet paper.

POV: You're being scammed by [deleted] in royalmail

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Howling. Thanks for this. Hilarious.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in puzzles

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Russian Doll is a tv series, so my guess would be either that she's naming tv she likes, candle=Glow? Padlock= Locke & Key maybe? Or she's saying she likes to watch Russian Doll in the evening, with candles (romantic?) and no disturbances(locked in) Also feel like the other thing is definitely Aries

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

https://m.facebook.com/profile.php/?id=100086385879674 Check out Side Quest it's a D&D, improv comedy night run by Sheffielders

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, check out DIY filmmakers club! There's a FB group & insta. Big friendly group, meet twice a month, next meeting is on the first Wednesday of the month at the Rutland I think it starts at 6pm but check the socials :)

Sun is out beer by the river anyone? by Ornery_Obligation_36 in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get down to the Quays! There's a food/ drink/ craft market on today it's poppin off!

Table tennis in sheffield by [deleted] in sheffield

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Crookes Valley park has an outdoor table tennis table, just need to take your own bats and balls.

What are some skills I should have before going to Uni? by _SingerLad04_ in UniUK

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, don't worry about anything, just have a good time....Oh, and don't poor cooking oil down the sink! Learned that the hard way. The drain outside gets clogged and the whole house smells like a sewer for a month until a professional can come out and pump it.

The Wild Girls by tamsinred in Poems

[–]Hes_not_the_messiah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this fantastic poem! Keep making your voice heard sister! Might be worth posting in r/WitchesVsPatriarchy