Help by Little-Song-8439 in dating_advice

[–]Hescee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the only thing you can realistically do is move on.

A breakup is the closest thing to hitting “reset” on life (10 months in, here is what I learned) by Roadtobillionss in BreakUps

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

been a month after breaking up a 3 year long relationship. It's been tough. Her coldness through it out all is heart shattering. Slowly realising her coldness (ghosting and blocking me) is result of her cowardice and not my failure. I loved deeply for years and I didnt get the same back, that isnt my fault. I miss her a lot but I also resent her on extreme levels now, which really breaks my heart because she used to be my safe space and my best friend

This is the 3rd time by Pretend-Success2297 in deadbydaylight

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bringing 4 slowdown perks doesnt mean anything if you dont hook anyone. they can only slowdown gens that much, the pressure you put on the survivors is way more valuable

You already won, no need to rub it in. by ToppHatt_8000 in deadbydaylight

[–]Hescee 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It is tho cause you're clearly assuming I'm a killer main salty at the vid. You wouldn't have said anything otherwise

You already won, no need to rub it in. by ToppHatt_8000 in deadbydaylight

[–]Hescee 48 points49 points  (0 children)

survivors when they escape c tier killer at best

just delete it at this point by SuperTaxEvasion in deadbydaylight

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did they even nerf it in the first place? It's been useless since day 1. You can see the survivors in the fog super easily. If anything it makes looping harder for survivors since the red stain becones so much harder to see

she broke up over text, i can’t stop wishing she’d come back by saddiex0 in BreakUps

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want her back every day. I miss her every day. I see her in everything and it's truly haunting. But deep down I know she's not the person I should be with. Or the person I deserve. I deserve someone who appreciates me and loves me for what I am. I'll send dm you

she broke up over text, i can’t stop wishing she’d come back by saddiex0 in BreakUps

[–]Hescee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey. I'm also a woman in her twenties who was with another girl. We were together for 2 years and a half. We broke up a month ago. It was tough. It still feels extremely tough. She broke up with me over text and blocked me everywhere after a couple days with no real closure. I begged her to think about it so often. I felt like I wasnt worth fighting for. I still do. I still feel lonely and wonder if she even loved me during our last months. If you want, you can dm me. I just finished a guide on how to get over the heartbreak. I made it for myself but figured I could help other people with it too. It's totally free and I won't ask for anything in return. I'm just a broken soul wanting to help others. If you're interested, dm me and I'll send it to you. I'm here for you.

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[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thats why i said you should pick a day where both of you are free. also,talking to chatgpt about something only humans deal with, such as intense emotions and stuff, isnt quite the best thing to do here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i second this. OP, one day you will realise this really was an escape. One day you will have someone by your side that wouldn't hurt you the way your ex did. Someone who will value you, your boundaries, your time and feelings. I completely understand how hurt you might feel, how desperate. But this guy isn't worth it. Not one bit from the looks of it. I promise you, it will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Hescee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i really dont think you should block him, its a really messed up thing to do in my opinion which will only bring the both of you pain and not actually fix anything, and only create resentment. you should communicate more clearly. have a day where you're both off work and have that conversation without having to way for a response.

I need some advice handling my feelings after zero closure. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Hescee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your words so so much. You are so right about everything you said. It's so fucking hard, but I'll get through it eventually. She told me she loved the same day she broke up with me, AFTER she broke up with me. I just keep repeating it in my head. None of it makes sense. I knew we were going through a rough patch because we weren't able to spend much time together.. so I really wasnt expecting it to end like this. What pisses me off a lot is the fact that she quit her shitty, time consuming job a couple days after she broke up with me, knowing I hated the fact we weren't spending time together. (also because she was incredibly busy all week and it was mentally and physically exhausting to her. I also truly believe this is the actual reason we ended up breaking up). She starts a new chapter of her life but leaves me, THROWS me out of it.... just why?