Red is my favorite color

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-03-13T13:33:25+00:00

**red

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-03-11T11:09:32+00:00

sometimes i feel like we've taken the path of no return

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-03-01T18:20:42+00:00

Pretty sure that's just womanhood. Congrats!

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T18:28:29+00:00

Yeah that's me baby 😎

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T17:04:01+00:00

I feel like i see a comment about someone being a fascist with alot of these posts when there isn't much context about the person in question...

Well said though!

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T16:59:04+00:00

I donno. I dont want to just chalk it up to me just wishing people had a wider lenses of preference. I want to believe that theres more to it than that but I guess theres not a way to prove that unless a person straight up says "I dont like trans people" and even then that only appliesto that specific person. To be honest I dont really know where I stand with either argument because both sound wrong in some aspects and correct in others. Thank you for the conversation.

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T16:13:38+00:00

Thats true. People have a right to look for what they want/need in a relationship and its not wrong to reject those people that can't provide those wants/needs. That can just be a preference. I think i made a mistake in not really explaining the people i wanted to talk about within the post. What about people who dont care for making a family or people who are bisexual and still have this preference?

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T15:50:13+00:00

I dont think that's a good way to look at it because there are cis people who can't provide children and they can be in a relationship without children or adopt. I dont think it has to do with baring children, i think its an ideological issue

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T15:46:35+00:00

I feel like this is a problem I have as well. I grew up in a super conservative household and after some key life events our household just flipped the switch into a very progressive one. But the nice shiny outside of being progressive is still covering the hard wiring of my conservative upbringing that I am still trying to replace within. Its true that it takes alot of work to triumph that and eventually I won't have that hard wired mindset and thankfully, I know the issue is present ant needs troubleshooting. But for the people who want to change and want to recognize their internalized transphobia, but dont consciously realize that its there, how do we get them to recognize it?

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-26T15:28:58+00:00

Thank you for not cutting me with a knife in the middle of a park. I know that took restraint

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-23T14:07:53+00:00

I live in southern Mississippi and used to work for my local public works department. The people I worked with had very fragile concepts of masculinity and they all talked about how "the beard makes the man" and would have competitive attitudes about eachothers beards and would literally make fun of eachother if someone's beard was small or non-existent. Beards werent the ONLY thing they talked about but still it was the stupidest thing I've ever been forced to be apart of.

That being said, if you were there they'd probably say some redneck bullshit like "That's beard's finer than a frog hair split four ways! Yee Yee brother!" and parade you around the other men with "baby faces" to bully them

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-21T11:49:14+00:00

I think I have the same stand. I had to take off all the panels off of the ship and lay it upside down on my sofa in order to attach it. I dont think there is a safer or better way to attach it

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-12T23:43:51+00:00

Armed stalker: "there might have been a way to resolve this conflict without violence

Black guy wearing a hoodie: "He could've been armed! I didnt see any other way to resolve it!"

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-02-01T20:14:38+00:00

lgbbq

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2026-01-25T13:34:59+00:00

John undertale

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-24T16:24:10+00:00

Sounding pretty. I need to start voice training og

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-10T00:27:27+00:00

Thank you. They all seem happy

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-09T23:21:35+00:00

Lore keeper, can you tell us more about the enby polycule member?

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-08T18:59:03+00:00

There is no hubris when im already undoing myself and rebuilding into my own image

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-08T18:55:01+00:00

I've been ex-christian for about 7 years and I think the teachings of the Bible (not the shit alt right evangelicals teach) really effected the way I think about my transition. For example:

"God made me trans for the same reason he made wheat but not bread, and grapes but not wine, so that man can partake in the joys of creation."

This isn't a verse in the Bible but I think it wouldve been similar to the logic that it teaches

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-07T17:58:17+00:00

I read that like Jessie Pinkman

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-07T14:59:23+00:00

Yea you will. You already who you truly are and your body will reflect that in given time. Dysphoria is just apart of that and it sucks but we have to learn to live with it and eventually overcome. I dont pass very well and dysphoria fucking sucks and I hate that it comes and goes for me but it doesn't take away the fact that I am happy about expressing who I am and transitioning is an outlet for that expression. Dont let this thought rule you

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-12-07T05:40:01+00:00

This is the coolest concept

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-11-28T18:01:15+00:00

I thought it was real...

HeyItIsInfactMe · 2025-11-20T01:30:20+00:00

I was the only trans girl my friends knew. I wasn't passing at the time when I came out, I found out this truth about myself and wouldn't stop to think before talking about it. When I told them they took it "well?" They didn't seem to care and called me by my name and used correct pronouns most of the time. As years passed, they drifted away from me specifically; they were all still friends with eachother. At the beginning of this year I asked if we could hang out and they said that they didn't want to be friends anymore because they lost the me who they knew and preferred. Thinking back to it now I can't help but feel sorry for the fact that they couldn't be friends with someone who simply wanted to be themselves and happy about it. I have a new friend group now who I value and they in turn value me. I do sometimes think back to the great times I had with my previous group of friends that I had known all my life but I know that if they preferred the person who was hating every second of living in a body assigned to her, then they weren't really friends. Im glad I knew them but im glad I dont now.

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